Because we don't need a new thread every week that George fails at something.
For now on they will be condensed into this thread otherwise risk infractions.
Enjoy!
-Fras
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Because we don't need a new thread every week that George fails at something.
For now on they will be condensed into this thread otherwise risk infractions.
Enjoy!
-Fras
Some of the best times of my life are when I'm by myself. When I watch TV, play guitar or listen to music without all the constant insanely bitching and bitching and bitching.
Loneliness is awesome!
There is a huge difference between being lonely and being alone.
George - sorry you are lonely. You need to force yourself to get out more, hun. Interact with people.
Anyway, yes. I get the blues, too.
Only for a short time, or when you have chosen it, so everything else in you life is just fine. Get it?Quote:
Originally Posted by Mishanya [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Loneliness is awesome!!!!!
been feeling lonely for a while now. i've grown accustomed to doing things alone, so it isn't too bad. but seriously still sucks ass. perhaps, contact your friends and hang out? that actually helps.
Loneliness is by definition unwanted solitude.Quote:
Originally Posted by Mishanya [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
george if you had a passion like some sort of hobby you really wouldn't feel so lonely. why not look up classes or join a gym or join a group that does activities together once a week, like rock climbing or something. troll the internet and see whats out there. you live in the US for goodness sake, chances are there are tonns of communities where you live where you end up interacting and meeting new people by just joining an activity.
I feel ya, bud. But I think love is a roller coaster too. It has its ups and downs just like loneliness does. Being alone is a roller coaster too because at first you enjoy the solitude but after a while you start feeling pain. Being in love is a roller coaster because you don't know what the other person is thinking and it gets rough sometimes... like arguments, break ups, and such... Sometimes, it's better to be alone and sometimes it's better to be with someone. It's all a double edged sword in my opinion.
I agree with Mish that lonliness is awesome, but only sometimes.. not all the time.
Just go talk to girls and make new friends. It's not that hard.
I usually go fortnightly so it is about a $70 a week habbit but I haven't been for about a month and I am getting more irritable depressed and angry than usual.
I figure a gf would cost me about the same based on dating experience...
What do you guys think ?
Ha! A girlfriend will cost more than 70 bucks a week. But then you get in-to-me-see and other good stuff.Quote:
Originally Posted by BoredGeorge [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Go get a massage (without happy ending) instead.
Is there some sort of drug to reduce libido ? My friend says in the army they put stuff in your food to make you stop thinking of girls.
I think they put salt peter in the food. But cold showers and not thinking about women/sex mite help.
70 bucks a week for a girlfriend, **** no!
But think about it, for an escort, you pay 70 bucks, and you can ram her as hard as you can, with a girlfriend, you can't do that, you'd be wanting her to have orgasms and what so ever... plus the wasted money.
Sex with strangrs sux, umkayQuote:
Originally Posted by boobaa [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
The only thing more expensive than sex for money is sex for free. If money's an issue definitely stick to the escorts if that sort of thing doesn't bother you.
Plus a girl expects phone calls, courting rituals, etc, etc. Time is money, so that furthers the cost right there. If I had no qualms about exploitation or disease I'd be all over that shit.
You read that, girls? Makes sense! be reasonable.
If you're not making an emotional investment, you may as well just stick with the pros.
Wrap your tool though. Wrap it well
Would a GF really cost more than $70 a week ? Jesus Christ ? How ?Quote:
Originally Posted by Gribble [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
There is no exploitation it is a personal choice and they're well paid for what they do. Its not like they're from Thailand or anything..
I never said that :( but it seems no one wants me, and when I think about it most of the things wrong with my life have in some way been related to women, so screw it.Quote:
Originally Posted by Gigabitch [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I went to the gym and went for a long run.
I saw this girl on one of the running machines and she was very nice and pretty. She was only very small and she was cute because she was cute but also because she had a little bit of muscle on her. Ok, she was probably hot, but still.
It made me feel depressed because no one like that will ever go out with me.
How do you deal with the depression associated with understanding you cannot date 95% of the population. Previously I had been trying hard and held hope but now I understand how low down I really am.
Why don't you try being happy that 5% of the population IS accessible to you? Seriously, not to sound preachy, but I have a lot of patients for whom even THAT is not the case. You need to learn to be grateful for what IS within your reach.
For the record, I doubt 95% of the population is compatible with me, too.
I don't understand why the should make me happy. Someone else is an even bigger failure than me. Somehow that does not make me feel better.Quote:
Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
That's because you don't understand gratitude, george. It's kind of a whole life-philosophy. I suggest you try volunteering for some organization that helps out people who are REALLY down on their luck. It might teach you some gratitude and adjust your way of thinking, which would make you more appealing to everyone, including yourself.
That sounds really boring and it would be full of try hard hippies with rich parents. Stuff that.Quote:
Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Have you ever fired a gun?
You are very judgmental. What is boring about helping other people?
You need some self esteem.
By your attitude and the way you carry yourself...
I see why you're not getting the attention you want.
I just wanted to talk about this.
I am in love with the coffee shop girl. I know it is completely and utterly illogical and I have prevented myself from asking her out. I mean, what personal connection do we have - zero. We'd never have met if it weren't for coffee as she is well out of my league and a few years younger.
There is nothing to suggests she likes me either - apart from her constant smiling which is no doubt part of her job. I am also pretty certain that preparing food for someone is not exactly a major turn on for most women. Although it is exactly a turn on for men. Further reducing the balance in this scenario and tipping it further towards the utterly ridiculous.
I'll pay her a visit nearly every weekend. I'll order the same or a similar coffee and she will smile softly and carry on in much the same way as she did smile at me. Watching her make my coffee is a genuine highlight of my day. She rolls up her sleeves and I can see her soft little arms and as her hair is tied back I can see her ears which are just as lovely as the rest of her. To me it is a tender moment to her I am just another customer and no doubting she is likely aware of my oogling.
I'd like to ask her what is her name. I'd like to make her a coffee and something to eat. I am just dreaming and she probably hates me as most women seem to hate men for wanting to show them affection.
If I was a better looking man maybe I'd have a chance but I am not and no amount of anger or sadness can change that.
What do you ladies from the other side of this scenario think ? I'm sure some of you have worked in hospitality when you were younger, or still do. Likely you hate us and think we're just sleazy men after one thing.
There is a really cheap and cheesy line that goes in here and I'm sure you can guess what it is.
I don't understand why I am treated like a criminal by women for simply liking them it is not my fault I am ugly.
This is the lovliest thing I've seen you write.Quote:
Originally Posted by BoredGeorge [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I promised I'd be good from now on. I have seen some nasty people and there is nothing good about letting your hatred and bitterness consume you. Bitterness is not a pretty sight. I want to try and live my life right from now on. Be a good person.Quote:
Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Still iti s sad that no girls like me,.... unfortunately the only way to get them to like me would be to embrace my old ways. Which I cannot do.
SO I guess I will just be single...
Agreed!!!...............Quote:
Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
How much actual experience do you have in asking girls out, George? Because I tend to see a pattern... guys ask a girl or two out, get shot down, and then get scared. Once they are scared, they stop asking. Is this what you have done?
I have a fair bit of experience asking out girls and even more experience getting rejected..
I'm trying to keep fit and eat well...but I do not know if it will help. A girlfriend seems like a foreign distanct concept that will not work for me.
I'm not a kid either, I am almost 26 so its been a long time and that is not an easy thing to let go of and start fresh.
I'm a long way behind everyone else. My looks are not great and I am a really big guy... I'm not fat but I am abnormally large. Picute a little person who is say 5'10 and enlarge that person to 6'5 and you've got me.
Most other tall people are skinny and have longer limbs. I don't I'm a stocky person who is also 6'5.... it makes it hard to compete with all of the sublime young males out there. Young women almost won't consider me.
You are 6'5"??? Are you kidding? I would consider that a HUGE advantage. Women like to feel safe and protected - I always feel the most girly around very tall men. (I am 5'8") It's like an aphrodisiac! I would automatically give you extra points just for being tall.
I really don't think your height is a problem, unless you are seeking a short girl, and even then, i think some would be willing.
And I really doubt you are as ugly as you think... I deal with tons of people, and I swear, there are really very few people with absolutely no redeeming qualities.
I really think your problem is a matter of your own internal thoughts, and not everyone else, hun.
As someone who works in the service industry... sometimes the regulars are the highlight of my day too. I have a few customers that I get excited knowing they'll be in soon.
Don't be afraid to strike up a conversation.
And if you're worried about her take on you listen to her laughter. When a customer has over stayed his welcome I tend have a very forced polite laugh.
hope that helps :)
6'2" is an advantage, 6'3 is tall, 6'5 is too big and when you're 6'5 and big or your size you are simply to big.
Idk...6'5'' is not too big.
How much do you weigh?
I disagree.Quote:
Originally Posted by BoredGeorge [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]