why haven't you made an approach log yet?
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why haven't you made an approach log yet?
oooooooh... things might get ugly.
raverboy
Where is he?
Because I haven't approached anyone. Today I had class at 8-9:15am. Then had a break till 2:00pm, I had homework to finish and to go see a tutor right after and barely finished my homework. After that I decided to go home because I'm exhaust and my finger is aching like a bitch.
So...where/when should I start? Also do I need to shave? I really don't want to, I've been wanting to grow it out especially since it's almost winter. I haven't shaved in almost 2 weeks, lol. Ladies, do I have to?
In your mom's bed.Quote:
Originally Posted by Only-virgins [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
You could have the gals wrapped tightly around your finger like that big white bandage, using your injury to your advantage. You could get a sympathy date or two out of them... plus it's a great conversational tool.
I understand what it's like being a busy student. I barely have time for anything, either!
Ya...I thought about the injury as a good conversation starter. I actually was talking to this one girl in my tutor session. Not my type at all but kind of cute. She asked what happened, I told her. Me and her are in the same class so we do the homework together.
Oh and this week I've got 3 midterms I'm cramming for which means lots of caffeine and all free time spent studying.
Well at least your mind isn't injured!
Just don't go walkin' up to any girls toting your finger as if you'd expect some sort of sympathy. "Oh hey, look at this! Don't you wonder what happened to my poor wittle fingew?" Just kidding, I know you wouldn't do that.
It's always fun seeing peoples faces and hearing their reactions when they hear what happened. Last friend of mine cringed and said he got chills down his back when I told him what happened, lol.
I think I'll be less detailed with it when it comes to the ladies.
Act as if it were nothing when around the ladies. A smidgen of confidence;
girl: "What happened to you???"
you: "Huh? Oh, you mean this? Ahh, I cut myself using a powertool. Wanna see? *pretends as if you're going to unravel the bandages*"
She'll be on her toes, and very curious. Stop right there, and go "Nahhhhh, you might faint from the sight of it. Maybe I will let you see the scar if you go out to eat with me this weekend."
Haha...that's a bit forward for me, but hell, why not?
1averagejoe, start approaching random girls and keep a log of the scenarios and how the conversations went. It doesn't matter if you are interested in them or not. The purpose for this experiment is to become more successful with girls.
Ok...I'll try tomorrow but I'm going to be studying in between classes for my first midterm. So if anything it will probably be with someone in class.
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Originally Posted by 1averagejoe [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Just want to say that I think the support on this site rocks!
haha brilliant!Quote:
Originally Posted by doppelgaenger [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Well I went out to lunch today walked about a mile from campus. Then went to the grocery store to grab some candy...I was craving chocolate. So went to the chocolate isle that I never realized had like 50 different types of chocolate.
So I was looking at the huge selection they had there for about 30 minutes and noticed a cute girl out of the corner of my eye. She was a sorority type and older, not my type at all so I really didn't want to bother but then she was starting to look at the chocolate next to me so what the hell, it can be practice.
Me: Chocolate cravings, ha?
Her: Ya...just a little, ha.
Me: Ya, there's soo many different types. I've been here for 10 minutes trying to figure out what to grab. Any recommendations?
Her: I really like Dove, haha.
Me: I'll have to try some then, thanks.
I'm sure I could have taken the conversation a bit further. But really didn't see any reason in pursuing it. Because:
1. She was out of my league.
2. Sorority type, not my thing.
3. She was older.
It's a start. How about that?
It's a good start
Do you guys think 1aj should approach girls ON campus or off? And ones he will likely see again in his daily routines?
I like to start off with a smile and see the reaction. You can see by the look that someone wouldn't be freaked out by an approach.
That's a good question. Personally I'd prefer to keep it off campus. I tend to see the same people quite frequently. It's not a small campus, but it's definitely not the largest.Quote:
Originally Posted by DoesntMatter [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Luckily I haven't seen my ex in a long time. lol
1averagejoe, congrats for your first approach. Don't say that she was out of your league. With that kind of self-defeating mindset, you are already taking yourself out of the game before it has even begun. I've been with older women who owned houses and drove expensive cars while I was living with my parents and broke as a college student. Why? B/c I was confident enough that none of that mattered about me. If you are secure with yourself, then girls will pick up on that and be drawn to you.
By the way, you should start a new thread and post your first approach there. You deserve your own thread.
Makes sense...lol.
But still not into the sorority type. Never have, doubt I will be. I prefer something a little more natural.
As for starting another thread. I think I'd like to just use this thread. I'm a lazy ass and don't really feel like making another thread. Oh ya, and good news...my midterm that was supposed to be today was canceled and moved two weeks from tomorrow. Kind of sucks because I spent about 6 hours in the library today studying.
Off to study for my other midterm that is tomorrow. :P
No midterm talk in here.
Only women talk.
I had an opportunity...and I didn't take it. I feel like a complete idiot.
Well I had a 6 hour break between classes so I went on a nice ride for a few hours. Got back, cleaned up, changed out of my tight fitting clothing, road my bike down to the grocery store, ate lunch. Then I left to go back to school, on the way back in the turning lane to make a left onto campus there was a girl about my age on a bike, a VERY nice bike at that. Me being the idiot looked over and saw her bike and didn't really notice her because it's soo automatic for me to not really take too much notice to others because women are a rare thing and I was exhausted.
I could have asked her if she was interested in a cycling club through school which I'm working with a few people to start at school, Ironically I was actually riding to the meeting that moment. Or I could have talked to her about her bike. It was the perfect set up...I feel like I missed a perfect opportunity. Blah...
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Just wanted to jump in & agree w/Neo on this, 1AJ.Quote:
Originally Posted by NeoSeminole [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Honestly, a lot of women nowadays aren't so enamoured with finding their 'equal' anyway. What I mean by that is simply that high-powered types come w/their own baggage of a sort. If I were to ever get a second go, I think I'd pick a nice garbageman or tradesperson.
1averagejoe, you had nothing to lose and everything to gain by striking up a conversation with her. What's the worst that could have happened? You two become acquainted with each other? The horror! Learn from this experience and don't make the same mistake again.
I KNOW!!! I was exhausted and not thinking...I actually would have if I was thinking straight, which is why I'm beating my head against the wall right now. It was the perfect situation.Quote:
Originally Posted by NeoSeminole [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
It's good that you experienced this loss.
Now you know how rare opportunities are and much it sucks when you just let them slip, you surely won't let the next one escape.
Always stay sharp, opportunities come anywhere and everywhere but they don't come often.
I think I might start exposing myself to women. I'll start an Expose Log.
You can start here, CB. That ought to get your numbers up pretty quickly. :DQuote:
Originally Posted by Charlie Boy II [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
You know...next Monday I'm going riding and I'm going to see if that girl takes that same route at roughly the same time again, I'll wait on the side for a while. From the looks of it she looked like she was commuting by bike to school. If she does maybe I can strike up a conversation with her.
1averagejoe, it's been 2 weeks since you updated your log. Why haven't you approached any girls?
You want the truth or do you want a lie?
I've been busy with school.
I'm a pansy.
what have you done for school? are you doing better than everyone else?
I'm not asking you to find a girlfriend. All you have to do is talk to a girl. It only takes a few min. of your time at most.
Alright alright, I'll try...it's just not easy for me I guess.
Blah. :sad2:
hence the reason why I want you to approach girls. The only way for you to become better at something is to practice - not run away from it (until the day we can plug into the matrix and download what we need to know). All I want is for you to approach random girls to build your confidence in talking to them and post your experiences here. That's it! I will do my best to offer constructive criticism to help you become more successful.
Knowing how and actually doing it are two different things for me...
Maybe I should take a couple shots before, that tends to always relax me when it comes to socializing and opening up. lol
Practice does not always make perfect.
adam250 says:
"Practice does not always make perfect."
f*ck off fagg*t.