I know this topic has been raised before, but someone enlighten me.. am I right here or what??
OK, I’m catholic. I started going to a “Christian” church with a friend I've known for a while who kept telling me about all the hot chicks that went there. I have heard it called “Pentacostal” as well. Anyways I’m going back to my regular catholic church. Here’s why.
Everyone at the Christian church are around my age: 25 – 35 and single. There is a normal demographic at my regular catholic church.
People just seem to go there in order to hang-out at the end and try to pick each other up. People at my other church just leave.
My friend is looking for a good “Christian” girl. He really is a boring guy to go out with on the weekend. He doesn’t have the balls to approach women, but he is constantly checking them out – pointing out hot girls etc.. IMO he’s totally confused and doesn’t know what he wants. He wants to get laid but ..oh no.. that’s not living like a good Christian. IMO .. dude’s gonna have some serious regrets when he’s 60.
He makes meeting girls such a big issue, when a carefree attitude is what is truly attractive.
Every girl I have met at the church are virgins. But they seem to be so preoccupied by sex. To them its all about “making out” ie. kissing. That’s fine for them. They are satisfied with that. But I’m not down with barriers being thrown up in my face. So I just walk away.
But what about the other guys at that church? I think they’re all being played. I think the women are calling the shots, setting the limits, controlling the show - and they will continue to do so when they are married.
As for the guys I’ve met – I’ve never met such f***ed up people in my life. They are all single. They all want to be players. They try to be players – nice cars, clothes etc..
But they aren’t players – they can’t be because they are so hung up about being model “Christians”. Players play the game - and they know at least that getting in the sack is part of the deal. These guys are all seriously frustrated and don’t really know what they want.
I don’t think they should be going out trying to meet women on Friday and Saturday nights because they won’t find their Christian girls. But they do go out, and they just keep getting frustrated. The only place they should go is to their church on Sunday morning – which is exactly where they end up going. Good luck.
Since going to that church, I have “made out” with three girls. They are all pretty hot, and they are all virgins and believe me, they will all be virgins until they married. After going relatively far with one of them, she made me feel guilty later. We didn’t go all the way, but according to her it was crossing the line. Of course at the time she thought it was great. I dropped it like a hot potato. Sorry but I don’t need to keep feeling like I did something wrong, when really it was like a walk in the park compared to other girls that I have been in relationships with.
So you're reading this and thinking that I just want to get laid all the time. Thats not the case - I get very deeply involved when I'm in a relationship. I've just seen some stuff that I think is strange as a result of going to this church.
