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And since then, I developed a crush on him. I hate how I get emotionally attached to guys once they kiss me, why can't I just not care? This guy doesn't even talk to me anymore, but I still think about him. I wish I never had kissed him, do any other people have this same problem I have?
Yeah, that sucks. I have the same problem, but I don't even need to kiss a girl to crush on her. Usually some sort of attention showing on her part is enough.
Sometimes just a glance over the bar or a passing touch from above. That used to be the way years ago when a woman and a man could have a real crush from the looks that are passed towards each other.
Sounds like you haven't kissed many guys before.Quote:
Originally Posted by ashtonkutcher [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I agree with sadie_genie ... you need to get out more.Quote:
Originally Posted by sadie_genie [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I just can remember my first kiss with my ex BF as if I'm floating in the air and can't imagine that I've kissed a guy. But in your situation maybe its just infatuation try to know the guy more.
I disagree.Quote:
Originally Posted by moosegal [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I think it's sweet that you can form a crush so easily, same with 'yet another guy'.
You may imagine it's sweet but I feel how painful and depressing it is.Quote:
Originally Posted by shylove [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
It is a chemical reaction thing, kissing is in many ways more intimate than sex. You can get a real head rush if it's the right person, not unusual to feel emotions for someone you've kissed but remember what you feel may not be the same as him! :)
How about kissing while having sex?Quote:
Originally Posted by codnchips [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I am also similar to you yet another guy. I remember every single kiss with a girl. It means alot to me, i could never kiss just anyone. Dont change andything about yourself or the way you feel OP, because when you meet the right person for you, it will work in your favour.
Stop spreading your doom and gloom all over the place. Life is awesome. Quit pretending it's sucky, and sharing that suck with everyone else.Quote:
Originally Posted by Yet another guy [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Some people are more open with their emotions than others, and I think these people get crushes more easily. Just a theory. I have the occasional crush but nothing annoying, like serial crushes.
i wish i had this issue, ive kissed alot of guys ( wow that sounded bad) but im not a slut i just date a lot. its cute but dont let it get to u so bad. remember that it was just a kiss and start to let it go cause it will eat u up everyday if u keep thinkin about it.Quote:
Originally Posted by ashtonkutcher [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
wow thanks everyone for the replies. Yeah I hate how i can't separate the kiss from the guy. It's been a month and I am trying to forget him because I scared him away, so i'm trying to see someone else. This time i will not kiss him too soon because that leads to attachment
Aren't hormones great?
no hormones suck and yeas I guess i am. That's my problem, i get attached easily, I just cannot kiss someone and not think about them ever again, and that's why i have to take things slow
I'm my 40s, so it can't be all about hormones. But yes, when I was younger, hormones sucked donkey a$$.Quote:
Originally Posted by IndiReloaded [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
you seem to a very emotional person. And you fall in love or have affection with the person whom you kiss. Dont fall in love so early untill you find a right person.
Actually, some people (well, mice) are more prone to addiction, genetically. And love hormones can be addicting and make people crazy. Ref all the middle aged crises and dumping a partner for a 'soulmate'. Age is no barrier to stupidity, Bulrush.Quote:
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Wow, this is just like what just happened to me except I'm a guy and I scared her away. I think you might be onto something here though, it does seem to lead to attachment and heartache if it goes belly up.Quote:
Originally Posted by ashtonkutcher [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Believe me, I am currently feeling that and have felt it before. But one thing I am confident in is that I wouldn't want to do away with the intense (good) emotions that I've had before it has ended. It's like you can't have a good thing without the bad. And I am just hopeful that for every bit of hurt that I feel now, it will just make the joy, happiness and love feeling that much intense when the time and person comes along. :)Quote:
Originally Posted by Yet another guy [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Easier said than done.Quote:
Originally Posted by ambraham [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
To love is to live. Pity the person who has never felt it. What do they have to live for?