Husband has been sleeping with men
Hi, I have just registered here as I don't know where else to turn. By accident, I caught my husband lying about where he was, when I quizzed him he just said he'd got to the hotel and fallen asleep, hence he was late for the stag do he was supposed to be going on. Anyway, to cut a long story short, after 24 hours of "there's nothing to tell, I fell asleep" he confesses this morning that he arranged to meet a guy for sex in the hotel and apparently he's been doing it for years via some website!
We were together for about 13 years before getting married. Things weren't great towards the end and we broke up after he slept with a woman at work. He swore it was a mistake and eventually we got back together and got married. We've been married 10 years this year and have one child. Everything was going fine, us against the world kind of thing. We've been through some pretty stressful things together and what's hurting most is he was lying and cheating the entire time! Nothing feels real anymore, I feel like my life is a total sham and everything we've built together means nothing.
I don't know whether to leave and try to build a new life or carry on as we were on the surface, but with no sex - effectively a marriage of convenience. I hate him and love him at the same time and can't imagine my life without him.