Why men cheat

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15-10-13, 05:24 AM
BackUpOrGetStng

Why men cheat

Here it is ladies. The definitive guide. Looks like science thinks it's not our fault.

http://living.msn.com/love-relationships/love-sex/why-men-cheat
15-10-13, 05:50 AM
Starnique

Oh f uck, I swear I've heard it all.

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15-10-13, 06:05 AM
IndiReloaded

Really? Partners of women who make more money are more likely to cheat??

Any hypotheses why this might be?
15-10-13, 06:14 AM
BackUpOrGetStng

Insecurity makes sense I think? The whole they don't think they're good enough, so they preemptively cheat because they think their partner will leave them mentality or something along those lines would be my guess. Or maybe the wife isn't around as much and the guy gets lonely.
15-10-13, 06:29 AM
Starnique

If a guy told me that his reason for cheating on me was because he was insecure and worried about me leaving or something may go wrong , I'd really go off on him. He needs to be going off of my actions and loyalty towards him.

Now, if someone is married and the wife isn't taking care of him or giving him sex, making sure he's satisfied and her husband is lonely and she don't care, then I can understand. No, I don't condone the cheating because its other things he can do to work on it but realistically, I get it. I feel as though a wife or gf shouldn't neglect her position because what you wont do, another chic will so don't leave room for anybody else to come in.
15-10-13, 06:33 AM
IndiReloaded

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Originally Posted by BackUpOrGetStng [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Insecurity makes sense I think? The whole they don't think they're good enough, so they preemptively cheat because they think their partner will leave them mentality or something along those lines would be my guess. Or maybe the wife isn't around as much and the guy gets lonely.

Those 2 reasons make sense to me. It's interesting, even though I'm a professional my SO still loves the attention I give him. Its not easy finding time for everything though.
15-10-13, 06:35 AM
IndiReloaded

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Originally Posted by Starnique [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I feel as though a wife or gf shouldn't neglect her position because what you wont do, another chic will so don't leave room for anybody else to come in.

Well, I don't know this is as true for the younger generation but certainly I have friends who are successful professionals whose husbands cheated b/c they were too busy. Of course, the men tended to be egotistical pricks. These ones in particular like the idea of a beautiful, successful career wife but still want the little lady at home cooking in the kitchen. Can't get both, unless one marries and executive chef, lol.
15-10-13, 07:00 AM
BackUpOrGetStng

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Can't get both, unless one marries and executive chef, lol.

I see what you did there.
15-10-13, 07:06 AM
IndiReloaded

Yep. I'm thinking Christeta Comeford. :)
15-10-13, 07:13 AM
BackUpOrGetStng

Filipino's definitely know how to cook.
15-10-13, 08:27 AM
Wakeup

They really now how to be good nannies too. O.o
16-10-13, 04:58 AM
BackUpOrGetStng

Wash the sand out your snatch. I was just saying I like Filipino food.

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16-10-13, 08:10 AM
okwhat2013

I'm male and don't cheat. So quit generalizing, and no, I can't count all the times I could of, it depends on the person and his/her integrity. Women cheat a lot to, so whatever
16-10-13, 09:36 AM
Wakeup

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Wash the sand out your snatch. I was just saying I like Filipino food.

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Don't tell me what to do. m'kay! I'm saying they make good nannies too.
17-10-13, 02:48 AM
BackUpOrGetStng

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I'm male and don't cheat. So quit generalizing, and no, I can't count all the times I could of, it depends on the person and his/her integrity. Women cheat a lot to, so whatever

No one was generalizing, you dipshit. I never said all men cheat. The article just shows that scientifically, cheating is not men's fault. I never said all men cheat. The article just shows that scientifically, cheating is not men's fault when they do it.
17-10-13, 03:26 AM
mollymari

and the little head said to the big head, yada yada yada.
Hey folks, maybe the thing is before any cheating may happen, gee, talk to your other half and tell them your feeling neglect or whatever it is on your mind. I don't understand how anyone can claim that cheating is scientifically not the fault of the person doing it. I mean, come on, really? If he puts his 'beaker' into someone else, then he's put his beaker into someone else. Yah, that'd be on him, all the way. If man feels the needs, he could talk to his parter first about it before going off and doing the 'do' with someone else. If the two can't solve it, could be a compatibility issue.
Hey, we're always going to have moments that test us. Question is, how do we deal with it.