Does she want to have sex??

There is this girl (who has a boyfriend btw), and we have been very close friends for a long time. Recently we were hanging out and we ended up making out for a good 2 hours. The next night she came over again and we made out again for hours. Both nights all she said was how amazing i was and how she wished that the night would never end. Also, she let me grab her breasts and her butt and she was grinding on top of me. I know these seem like sure signs that she wants to go further but it's just weird because she has a boyfriend and me and her have always been just friends until now.

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Originally Posted by Greekniko23 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

...she has a boyfriend...

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Whaaaatt....???

If you are open to her doing this to you also....go ahead, it should feel weird, its wrong

No, she doesn't. If she did, she would have pushed for it. Or, she might, but knows she shouldn't. She may be ready to break it off with her boyfriend.

Like Superfantastich said, it's wrong. You should probably tread carefully and just...not. If you do keep up with it, be ready for your friendship to end.

he isn't responsible for her cheating on her BF...
he is single, if she wants to cheat on him, fine
but he's just in love...

@ the OP......Are you as thick as two short planks?

I love sluts! God bless em!

Nothing wrong with making out or even having sex with someone who has a boyfriend. Because the other dude is only a boyfriend...not husband or anything of that nature.
As long as there is no marital commitment, any girl is fair game. Boyfriends are kinda like Netflix DVDs.... you watch it, and when you are done, return it. If you like it
a whole lot, you keep it. You are always allowed to watch other DVDs as long as you are a Netflix member.

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Originally Posted by Kaius [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Nothing wrong with making out or even having sex with someone who has a boyfriend. Because the other dude is only a boyfriend...not husband or anything of that nature.
As long as there is no marital commitment, any girl is fair game. Boyfriends are kinda like Netflix DVDs.... you watch it, and when you are done, return it. If you like it
a whole lot, you keep it. You are always allowed to watch other DVDs as long as you are a Netflix member.

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I would agree with that. Funny that people would equate a marriage commitment and a BF/GF commitment. Not even close.

However, there's not reason to cheat or be in any kind of commitment if youre happy

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Originally Posted by Kaius [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Nothing wrong with making out or even having sex with someone who has a boyfriend. Because the other dude is only a boyfriend...not husband or anything of that nature.
As long as there is no marital commitment, any girl is fair game. Boyfriends are kinda like Netflix DVDs.... you watch it, and when you are done, return it. If you like it
a whole lot, you keep it. You are always allowed to watch other DVDs as long as you are a Netflix member.

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So when does a woman cease being 'fair game'? Is it when she's putting her wedding dress on? Is it when she is walking down the aisle? Is it when she says I do?

I hope your next girlfriend cheats on you. And when you are sitting there heartbroken someone says "it's ok dude, you weren't married, she was fair game"

She has a boyfriend... lay off her.

If she wants to cheat, don't be the guy she cheats with. Because you wouldn't like it if you were the boyfriend being cheated on, would you?

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Originally Posted by MaidenMinx [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

So when does a woman cease being 'fair game'? Is it when she's putting her wedding dress on? Is it when she is walking down the aisle? Is it when she says I do?

I hope your next girlfriend cheats on you. And when you are sitting there heartbroken someone says "it's ok dude, you weren't married, she was fair game"

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Well said.. Don't care what others think. A relationship needs commitment. It comes naturally, and if you love that person, it really isn't that hard. Yeah some of em just yell out proud saying how every woman who isn't married is fair game. Then when their girlfriends cheat on them, they end up sobbing and in the broken hearts forum. Don't do unto others what you do not wish to be done unto you. Or your gf for that matter.

Morals...

It isnt right to make out with a women that is in a relationship and even more so to have sex with her, however this is not your fault, so for the questions sake i believe that she is showing all the signs that she would take it further. Even though it is wrong.

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Originally Posted by MaidenMinx [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

So when does a woman cease being 'fair game'? Is it when she's putting her wedding dress on? Is it when she is walking down the aisle? Is it when she says I do?

I hope your next girlfriend cheats on you. And when you are sitting there heartbroken someone says "it's ok dude, you weren't married, she was fair game"

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An engagement is a commitment. You can't approach someone who is engaged... That is wrong.
There is no such thing as "cheating" when you are only BF/GF. That's the whole idea behind dating....no commitment.

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Originally Posted by Dune [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Well said.. Don't care what others think. A relationship needs commitment. It comes naturally, and if you love that person, it really isn't that hard. Yeah some of em just yell out proud saying how every woman who isn't married is fair game. Then when their girlfriends cheat on them, they end up sobbing and in the broken hearts forum. Don't do unto others what you do not wish to be done unto you. Or your gf for that matter.

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A "girlfriend" is allowed to date other guys. It's her right. There is no commitment when you are only dating. It's not "cheating"...it's "choosing".
For the men who can't commit to marriage, they should be worried. If the woman chooses to stay, that's fine.... but she has every right to date
someone else and not being called a whore. After all, there is NO COMMITMENT when merely dating.

I'm sorry but I so completely disagree.

Regardless of whether or not jewelry or vows have been exchanged, once the terms boyfriend and girlfriend come into play that is a promise of monogamy unless both people have agreed to an open relationship.

Some people never intend on getting married. I was with hubby for 5 years before he proposed. I'm sure if either of us had strayed in that time we wouldn't be married now.

I state again, I hope you are cheated on one day by a girl friend. I hope when you go to propose to a girl she says "sorry, I've been sleeping around and you just aren't my first choice. Bye"

I say smash the bejesus out of her! If you haven't already.

Next time, just whip it out.

Follow your gut feeling.
If it feel wrong, then it is, don't push further.

A lot of people define "dating" differently than being in a committed, relationship that isn't marriage. I'm one of them. Dating to us was the 3 or 4 dates we went on to get to know if each of us is a suitable partner. During these 3 or 4 dates I did see other men. After our 4 dates we decided yes, we will commit as an official bf/ gf monogamous couple. Since then, there is commitment, and this came long before the ring ever did.

So while you, Kaius think it's acceptable to whore around anytime before the ring without breaking any commitment I assure you, this is not common thinking.

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Originally Posted by Drumzzz [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

he isn't responsible for her cheating on her BF...
he is single, if she wants to cheat on him, fine
but he's just in love...

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lolzzz.

He is an enabler and he enables her to cheat. If ALL enablers stopped enabling if they just said: "back off douche, you are in a relationship with someone else" then cheating wouldn't exist. Well, there is always the liars that say they're single but are actually married or in a committed, (supposidly) exclusive relationship and are addicted to strange, then it's up to their "target" to suss them out before jumping into their beds. Being tricked into it is one thing. Volunteering to enable a cheater to cheat is yet another.

You're illogical thought process does nothing to help the OP when he is "in love" but she never leaves the boyfriend and stagnates his ability to find a girl who is actually single and available to love him back and not just fk him while totally fking with his head.

Op: Tell her if she's interested in pursuing what is obviously a mutual attraction that she knows where you are and she can contact you when she breaks up with the poor chump who thinks she's being faithful to him. Then, don't hold your breath waiting for her because she more than likely wants her cake and eat it too. Don't help with that.

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Originally Posted by Kaius [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

An engagement is a commitment. You can't approach someone who is engaged... That is wrong.
There is no such thing as "cheating" when you are only BF/GF. That's the whole idea behind dating....no commitment.

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Oh and btw: You DON'T call someone you are just dating your boyfriend or your girlfriend. You've committed to them and have agreed to be EXCLUSIVE if you've given each other the title.