ok i see it asked all the time of the girls..... but this ones to the guys. what are some of ur fav. positions when having sex, or does it really matter?!? i was just a bit curious! ;)
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ok i see it asked all the time of the girls..... but this ones to the guys. what are some of ur fav. positions when having sex, or does it really matter?!? i was just a bit curious! ;)
'Missionary' and 'The Crab' are great - Very intimate.
Also any position where i get a good veiw of all the goodies - 'cowgirl', etc...
Man, I gotta stop reading these forums... :shocked:
Or get my end away... :sinister:
doggystyle, missionary, cowgirl
doggistyle when the girl lying flat facing down!!!!!
explain the crab for me?
If we're not rushed for time - especially in the morning - I like to start with the girl on top. In general, she'll have more, and stronger, orgasms this way. If she sits up I can watch her face (especially like it when I can watch her come!) and my hands can get to lots of nice places. If she lays down against me I can feel her breasts against me, and love to feel her hips and mound moving against me.
When it's time for me to come we usually flip to some variant of missionary. It's wonderfully intense for me if she crosses her legs around my backside, and I can feel her thighs against my flanks.
If it's late I like to end in the "spoons" position. I can reach around and finger her if necessary. It's very intimate to drift off to sleep afterward, still coupled and fondling her breasts.
hell yeah! thats what i call a night(daletom) you said all my fav positions and then sum how long r u talking about i might want to do your pattern lol
so do the positions you favor feel better for you or is it just that you like being able to see everything and that's why they are ur favs?
For me it's not just about the visual.
I like positions where my hands are left free to roam...
And it's also about penetration. Ilike to drive it home... :smug:
Hah. I was with my girlfriend again tonight, and this time we had a lotta time to hourselves. Mind you we're still pretty young and all and I'm her first, but I was like you should bend over or get on your hands and knees, and she was like... It seems too much like getting raped. Do any other girls feel or have ever felt that way about having the guy behind you. I'm kinda thinking that its cause it still hurts her when I'm ****in her, but it was just kinda strange to say that.
It just feels like it would be too raunchy for me if a guy told me to bend over. Not one saying i'd fantasize about at night. :shocked:
I figure it takes at least an hour for a really fulfilling sexing; an hour and a half or two is better. (And it's not uncommon to talk or play or eat breakfast for an hour then do it again!) I guess the ideal timing would be something like 30 to 45 minutes of foreplay (lots of pussy eating - love to feel the quivers in her thighs and tummy when she comes!), 15 to perhaps 30 minutes for the actual f***k, and 20 minutes to an hour in afterglow.Quote:
Originally Posted by Darkace
I hear ya daletom, that is the satisfying way to do things. I think one time i was up with my girlfriend from midnight to 4 am, varying between messing around/sex and just talking and cuddling. Tis awesome :).
I personally enjoy positions that please my girlfriend, cuz that turns me on quite a bit. Doggy style is great cuz its easy to reach around for more stimulation for her. I like missionary, but I kinda worry that im crushing her sometimes. It also depends on your height difference. My gf is almost a foot shorter than me, which makes some positions not work :P
The most important sex organ is between the ears - good sex is a complicated mixture of sights, words, sensations, sounds and a kind of "soul connection" that all interact. At various points in the process I want to appreciate the shape or motions of her body, feel the texture of her skin against mine, hear her experience what I expect to shortly experience, or just revel in the sensations of her woman parts eagerly coaxing the fertility from my man parts. That's why I prefer a sequence of positions over one position.Quote:
Originally Posted by abercromqt20
(First, I hope she's never actually been raped.) I'm a guy, not a girl - I usually prefer face-to-face positions, but sometimes I just feel an urge to use a willing, faceless partner for my pleasure alone. Some girls like the rear-entry positions (doggy, spoon, etc) for the same reasons - they don't have to look at the guy, and they know he can't see their face.Quote:
Originally Posted by jb5k1
(Other reasons guys like them are: they can watch their erection slide in and out, and a lady's upturned backside is just sexy to look at - always reminds me of a valentine heart being offered to me. Girls like them because the guy can go pretty deep, which may be good or bad depending on the physiological details of the two people involved.)
It's also neat to give and receive "quickies". Sometimes it's a way to say "You turn me on so much I can't resist.". Other times it's a love-gift that helps one (or both) of you feel relaxed and wanted.Quote:
Originally Posted by kronos51
A lot of guys get great pleasure from pleasing their partners. Many women, unfortunately, have never met one, or simply find it hard to believe that we feel that way.Quote:
I personally enjoy positions that please my girlfriend, cuz that turns me on quite a bit.
Every gal is a little different on this. Some are too sensitive for direct stimulation, others enjoy a rather heavy touch. A few have mental reservations about being fingered while coupled.Quote:
Doggy style is great cuz its easy to reach around for more stimulation for her.
I was taught that "a gentleman takes his weight on arms and knees". Then, after several years of marriage, I discovered that sometimes my wife actually liked to feel me laying full-out on top of her, clasping her to me, during my orgasm. (I'm about 185 lbs and she's around 140 and 4 or 5 inches shorter.) I decided that wasn't too strange - I had ALWAYS liked to feel her like that when she climaxed while on top of me.Quote:
I like missionary, but I kinda worry that im crushing her sometimes. It also depends on your height difference. My gf is almost a foot shorter than me, which makes some positions not work :P
For any combination of body types, some positions work better than others. I'll bet that you and your G/F can have a LOT of fun with the various ways she can sit on your lap, either facing or facing away. Also the variations where you stand up, and hold her under her backside.
now THAT is the way to do itQuote:
Originally Posted by daletom
The Crab, AKA the Lotus:Quote:
Originally Posted by jb5k1
Man is seated, woman sits in his lap, facing him.
Also, any postion + mirror = double the fun ;)
ohhh this is great morning reading! hey aber thanks its nice to know what the guys are thinking! :)
i know!!! they are always asking us what we like best, and i was like hey.. what do you guys like best?!?
Well ok my girlfriend has never been raped. if you wanna get technical she had her cherry popped by some idiots fingers but I'm her first ****. That night I tried to get her on top but she shattered her knee a while ago so she can't really bend it too well. It seems like missionary is gonna haunt me because I haven't done too many positions. I've only ****ed like 4 times, 3 with her.
As far as the "procedure" I guess you could call it. We usually make out for a good while and I'll play with her. That really gets her in the mood and me too cause she's a big moaner. Moaning = hot. We haven't really brought good foreplay into the picture cause frankly, we don't really get a good chance to suck and **** and such. We usually gotta be sneaky about it. So yea, since we can't go down on each other (and we still haven't...) we usually **** for a while. Last nite we had a bit of time but she wasn't in the mood for oral and we ****ed for like just over an hour.
Is it weird that I can last that long. It was like constant sex. We stopped for like 2 minutes to move around and stuff and decided to keep going the way we were. I love it but after a while my arms get really tired and her legs get tired and such. She seems to like it but I'm not sure sometimes. I could always just get off quicker and then continue to play with her if she wanted to. After an hour we had to get some lube out cause she was startin to dry up lol. yea.... long post