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7 or 8, i don't know her personality, so it might be higher if i did.
Exterior is what gets you, to talk to the girl, but she has be someone
that you can relate too and makes you happy whenever you see them.
I would say 6.5
Um... why?
I hate how guys do that... Its ridiculous, pointless, stupid, offensive, immature, nasty, insulting etc etc. Im glad men where i come from are not usually so childish and disrespectful.
hey, he made this post, not sure why it's even a thread.
Looks are just there, so you have incentive to talk to the person, what they say is another story.
The girl might be beautiful, but if she acts clueless, or just spews random sentences that don't make sense, i don't know how people can tolerate her, she would drive me crazy ...
and i would be just saying " ah hmmm " , sure , okay "
In my mind i would be saying, just get me out of here, how can i be polite that i have stuff to do.
Well i still think its cruel-see some random girl on the street and laugh with your mate while giving her a 1. Its just plain nasty. Or giving a girl a 10 who has no brain or personality is pointless.
It doesnt make sense to me. Its just shallow
And im guessing 5 is average- so what makes a girl a 10? Presumably fake tan, fake eyelashes, fake teeth, fake hair extensions etc etc.
My guess is most women stripped bare are barely above average in the fake world we live in and ive never looked at someone and thought that person is UGLY!
Its just shallow.
Now dont get me wrong ive nothing against makeup etc. I too like to look my best but i dont think looks are that important that you need to actually rate someone out of ten
Ummm...I will say 7.5? She has a cute face but a little overweight.
I couldn't give a toss about the rating of a girl.
But I am surprised at the number of people visiting random URL posted online by a stranger. Stuff like this is why my hubby ends up fixing the neighbour's computers.
==> 6.5 <==
Photo quality is poor.
6.0 (5 becose she is ok but 1 for hot body un first picture) could be 8 but smile lacks confidence or strenght.
How the **** do you know that?
Seriously, this is what's wrong with rating pictures.
Ratings are fair; society tells us if we are attractive and we as a society decide if others are. And if the uggos don't like it, they can move to join primitive, indigenous cultures where their God awful traits are perceived (wrongly) as attractive.
Haha.....you dont understand men very well. We all do this....besides it fun :) Now if I would say that to her face it would be ridiculous, pointless, stupid, offensive, immature, nasty, insultingQuote:
Originally Posted by michelle23 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
She gets a 7
Girls do it too.
Can I ask you all to give a little reason behind your rating? :)Quote:
Originally Posted by surfhb2 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I asked my bf and a few other people have they ever done that and they all said no.. I think it is an american thing. I am not american...
Girls definitely don't do it where I come from btw. Assigning a number to a person based just on their looks is offensive and cruel - surfhb you think girls don't realize when guys are "judging" them from across the street with their friends? It IS cruel and offensive. I guess it's human nature though. I hate it when my guy friends do it with girls that pass by. I feel sorry for the girl whether she gets a "high grade" or not. It's objectifying, it's like you're reducing a person to just her looks. Which is also REALLY stupid: once you get to spend time with a person, you may realize you have great sexual tension/chemistry even though you didn't like them at first glance.
michelle23, maybe your bf and the other guys you've asked have told you they don't do it because they sensed you wouldn't have liked it? It's a possibility. If they really don't do it, it gives me hope :-).
Nah seriously-they don't do it. I used to hang out with a whole bunch of lads as a teenager and they never did that. We used to be one big group of close friends-we spent lots of time together. I never once heard any boy/man do that here...
If they think a girl is hot-they would point it out but they wouldn't rate her out of ten. And if they thought a girl was unattractive-they would normally say nothing and keep it to themselves unless they heard she had a crush on one of them-he'd make a face and say "not my cup of tea"
I LOVE Irish men :) They are also proven to be the most faithful lol so find yourself an Irish boy searock :D
Oh, okay... actually this is what "good guys" do here, too :-). It's only the ignorant, obnoxious guys who actually snigger and point to their friends when they see a girl they aren't attracted to. Most of the guys I knew in high school would do that, and I loathed them for it. Not the guys I hang out with now, thankfully :-).Quote:
Originally Posted by michelle23 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I've actually always been intrigued by Irish men :-P! If I ever break up (which I hope I don't) I will maybe try to get myself one ;-). Out of curiosity, what proof is there that they're the most faithful?Quote:
I LOVE Irish men :) They are also proven to be the most faithful lol so find yourself an Irish boy searock :D
lol there's not much "proof". its more a cultural thing and the way they are brought up. There are obviously plenty of bad ones but the majority are great :)
Comedian Maeve Higgins went undercover and found that our attached men are not as easy to seduce as some might believe.
Dressed as a traffic warden, Maeve, 24, went out on the streets of Dublin, offering to rip up ?25 parking fines in return for a date. Her victims were unaware that cameras were filming their reactions.
But after spending eight days on the city streets and issuing countless fines, she only found one man willing to give her his phone number.
Maeve explained her ruse, saying: "I acted as this really desperate parking warden who would issue parking fines for stupid reasons and then look for a date to rip it up.
"One guy looked for my details to complain about a ticket and I pretended that I thought he was looking for my personal phone number and was more than willing to give it to him. He nearly died.
"Nearly all the men opted to pay the fine rather than meet me for a drink."
Maeve also disguised herself as a hotel inspector and tried to chat up waiters, barmen and managers.
"They were really faithful too. I'd come on really strong but they would just say they were taken."
But she was not embarrassed by her failed attempts.
"I wasn't embarrassed, but I felt sorry for a lot of the men because they looked so uncomfortable. You could literally see their faces dropping."
If a group of guys were hanging out and one said: "Hey, on a scale of 1 to 10 what would you give her?" , there's not a man in the world who would say:
"omg! That's so cruel and offensive"
Mature guys don't go around rating women all day ( thats just dumb and immature) but the point is we're ****ing pigs sometimes when we get around the boys. women just don't get to hear it
The point is that "good guys" don't even ask such a question.
I just think it doesn't make much sense on a number scale... to me I base it on being cute, hot, good looking, sexy, etc. like a guy can be cute in some ways but I might not necessarily think he was "hot"... but I couldn't just assign a number to them. I definitely rate guys in my head but the whole number thing doesn't make sense to me. plus everyone has different opinions, some of my friends will think a guy is drop dead gorgeous and I look at him like, what is she thinking?! haha
Ya the whole rating IS just men seeking approval off thur friends to ensure its ok to actually ask her out lol coz its the worst thing in the world if his ego is bruised coz one of his friends gave her a 5 lmfao!!
Oh little boys never really grow up do they and they used to think men were the more intelligent species ;)
Yeah, you "Twilight" loving, "Glee"-watching, Katy Perry-worshipping materialistic broads are totally smarter. I mean, Darwin, and Plato and Einstein and Jesus and George Lucas are all women, right?Quote:
Originally Posted by michelle23 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
bullsh*t!!!Quote:
Originally Posted by searock [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Haha i dont watch gkee, i think twilight is a bit ridiculous and over the top, i earn my own money and am far from materialistic and i cant remember what else you just said lol.
It was a jobe, take a pill
YES! And we are the worst for comparing other females.....the cattiness! Like "OH! did you see that? She thinks she is all that!" "Did you have a look at those boobs? so fake!" "What a slut!" "She wears wayyyyy too much blush!"Quote:
Originally Posted by Love'sReject [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I've never met a girl who actually rated a guy using numbers. In my experience, only immature high school guys rated girls using numbers. Otherwise they do as michelle23 said - they point out when they see a woman they find attractive, and they don't say anything when they see a woman they don't find attractive. Only immature (or curious maybe) guys ask their friends if they think the girl they like is "hot". The point is not whether your friends think she's hot, it's whether YOU think she's hot.
Smackie is also right - lots of women judge other women based on looks.
As for this thread: either the girl in the picture is also the OP, or it's her bf/date/guy who is thinking about dating her. Either way s/he must be pretty insecure.
We rate people subconsciously. Maybe not with numbers but with "I'd hit that", to "they are not to bad" to "no way!" We all have our own personal categories....it's natural thing to do.....we are sexual creatures, we are going to look!
As for the girl in the picture, I rate her as a 7 or 8. She could use a nose job, but a nose like that is common for the South Asian race. So she would be rated a 9-10 in the eyes of South Asian men. Culture and race really plays a big role in what we find as attractive. Some like junk in the trunk you know what I mean....
Yeah, because Europe is SOOOO progressive, no one is really intact with their human nature..Goodness. I wish I could live among such enlightened human beings.
I agree that to a certain extent we all judge others but some of us dont feel the need to point it out if we think someone is attractive/unattractive.
I have never had a crush/infatuated by someone i merely looked at once or twice. My crush started when i knew a little about the actual person
everyone has a type- my type is generally a person who takes pride in their appearance and makes an effort to look good. I dont care about eye colour, hair colour, skin colour etc. Muscle is also great :)
U make NO sense. Have you ever been to europe lovesreject
The number rating system became popular in North America because of a movie that came out in 1979 called 10. 10 meaning the character's (Dudley Moore) ideal woman (Bo Derick). http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0078721/
It was a very popular movie. Almost every girl everywhere went out and got that cornrow hairstyle.
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I saw that film. Pretty good (and yes, the Wikipedia made sure to acknowledge its cultural significance).
That movie was talked about for years. I liked it too...pretty funny.
I agree, we all do that in our minds. But only immature guys say it out loud with an air of self-satisfaction and machismo, and only very insecure guys need their friends' "approval" in order to feel good about themselves. I mean, I don't care whether my friends think my bf is "hot" or not... he's the hottest man alive TO ME, that's all that matters.Quote:
Originally Posted by smackie9 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
About the use of numbers to rate people: it may be because of that movie (I'd never heard of it so maybe it really is just a north american thing), but it's still immature and offensive IMO. It's one thing to say "Wow, that girl is really attractive", it's quite another to say "That girl is a 9". In one case you're complimenting the appearance of a person, in the other case you're reducing the person to their looks, so you're basically objectifying her.
Also, "rating" someone you see for the first time really doesn't mean anything even in terms of attraction... you need to talk and interact with someone (even just once) in order to be able to understand whether you're actually attracted to them.