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Wow, talk about multi Tasking , haha. Hey , a couple of times when me and my girlfriend have made out, shed pulled my hand downstairs, and to be honest i could use some advice on how i should go about fingering. And anything to make her feel REALLY good for that matter.
I would greatly appriciate some replys , thanx ;) :)
~Spice
uh, one thing.. start with 1 finger..
the first time i fingered my ex, i think i really hurt her.. i tried to put in 2 fingers and it was really dry, and she didn't let me touch her private for like 2 weeks.. :P
I think there was a thread a while ago with certain techniques. I like mine, and so do some others on the board (females who agreed that it's good), but you should get some pointers there.
here you go. It links to other threads too. Enjoy.
[url=http://www.loveforum.net/showthread.php?s=&threadid=1231&forumid=9]CLICK HERE FOR FINGERING FUN![/url]
I love it when my bf fingers me while we're making out. :D
i think it depends on if you're gonna go all the way or not, otherwise, what's the point?
Tip: Suck your finger first and rub some spit on it before you go cramming your finger up in her...how would you like it if your chick was trying to jerk you off with a dry rubber glove on?
Tip 2: This has nothing to do with my fisting post but....a baby can squeeze out of there so you 2 finger thing is fine...you just have to wet it up a bit..
Tip 3: Why use a finger when you have a mouth? Get down there and show her what being a woman is all about...There are a few tricks you can do like the ABC with the tongue or ring the bell and check the oil....She won't tell you if you suck unless you bit her...(bite rules apply to women aswell)
Fact: Girls and Guys will not say stop unless there is EXTREAM PAIN from oral...most of us are just happy to have something besides our own hand or toy down there...(i.e. pocket pussy or dildo)
As far as multitasking...don't think about it so much and you should do fine...and ask her what she likes because you know your having a good time...make sure she is too...or else like PandaCivic says...whats the point...
You have to EASE your way in too. It will hurt if she's not used to something as big as two fingers going in. So you have to go slowly and gently.Quote:
This has nothing to do with my fisting post but....a baby can squeeze out of there so you 2 finger thing is fine...you just have to wet it up a bit..
You are one nasty mother ****er, you know that? Between sucking on the toes and now this shit?! Damn!:PQuote:
or ring the bell and check the oil....
ROFL!!!!!!! :lol:
being that you are new to this... just make sure she's lubricated when you stick your finger in. if not, there will be a lot of friction and it will be an unpleasant feeling. raverboy
Agreein' to that.. Hmmm.. :D
It was my B-day Yesterday.. WoooT.. :)
not saying stick your finger in her booty if thats what your thinking...but some chicks are into that too...Quote:
Originally posted by sfalexi
You are one nasty mother ****er, you know that? Between sucking on the toes and now this shit?! Damn!:P
Hell no I ain't.. :P
SOME chicks...not all...
hey wzup everyone, great forum
well this is wut me and my girl did...i've been going out with her over 2 and 1/2 years
my girl don't mind me using 2 fingers.....in fact......i used 4 fingers before
before you "start" fingering, rub her pussy until she gets wet
and then you start fingering
its much easier than sucking your own fingers :D
don't just finger.......while doing it, make your palm facing up
take your fingers and start rubbing the top
thats where they will feel everything
tell your girl, to let you explore, and trust me
they'll let you, cuz later on they won't want you to stop
thats my 2cents
Great advice WhiteXFlamez~~ :) ;)
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Originally posted by KaWaiiSkYe
Great advice WhiteXFlamez~~ :) ;)
thanks, i know what girls want best :)
today, i juss had sex :goofy: :smug:
i got more than what i expected
do this,
first kiss the lips go down to neck, breast and then pussy
eat your way in :lol:
slap the ass a bit, tap the pussy a lot
go back to eating......juss do the cycle a lil bit
then at last do the fingering from my instructions
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its much easier than sucking your own fingers
don't just finger.......while doing it, make your palm facing up
take your fingers and start rubbing the top
thats where they will feel everything
after that.....she'll give you head/blowjob like no other.....but make sure you kiss her in the lips, it shows more passion
which i believe you guys discussed about this in another thread
well after that juss go on wit the sex
i don't think i need to tell you how to do that now ;)
Hell. If any guy did that to me they'll have the best blowjob they'll ever experienced in their lifes. LOL~ ;) :D :goofy:
you talkin about my advice??? :)
Fingering is a essential part of lovemaking. If you have a problem with dryness at the start, use a good lube. You will find that the ladies natural juces will soon take over if you do the job right. DONT BE ROUGH at this 1st stage gentle massage to start and then start slipping a finger in once she starts to open up. You can tell if you are on the button. she will open her legs wider and start to lift her pelvic region up to meet the thrusting of your finger[s] now is the time to bring your cock into the picture. When you have done your thing, remember the lady is still on a high. Dont just roll over, use your fingers again. If she has your semen in her she will be very responsive to fingering. This is probably the best way to bring her to orgasim. Try it. Its a bit messy but a hell of a lot of fun for both of you. Enjoy.:french: :love:
my type of fingering (using your thumb) doesn't allow you to make out while you do it, because usually the girl has to either stand on her knees and elbows (doggie) or lie on her side (spoon). but she sure loves it!!!
It's also the best way to produce offspring. So I think I'll stick to the NON-semen lubes, thank you.Quote:
When you have done your thing, remember the lady is still on a high. Dont just roll over, use your fingers again. If she has your semen in her she will be very responsive to fingering. This is probably the best way to bring her to orgasim.
Alexi
Point taken Alexi, Ive got a permanent partner. You are a lot safer to use a condom if you havent!. However still try to get your lady to a proper climax if you can .Just use plenty of lube instead of semen. Tip-- make sure your lube is warm, Nothing will get your girl out of the mood faster than a handfull of cold goo on a hot pussy.:horror:
Yep I'm talkin' about your Advice baby ;)Quote:
Originally posted by WhiteXFlamez
you talkin about my advice??? :)
You can show me anytime, anywhere babezZ :D ;)