Girlfriend on vacation and I am worried, need some advice please
I dont know if I am paranoid or not but I have been dating my girlfriend for 1.5 years now, We both love each other very much and there isn't one thing we wouldn't do for each other. We are each other's best friend, sure we have had our bumps but who hasn't. This is my first real true gf and only 2nd person I have slept with, pretty surprising. I am 23 and she is 20, we met in college class and we live literally 1 minute from each other. I hardly spend time with my friends and she hardly spends time with her friends because we just want to be with each other. The way we met was pretty much like it was meant to be.. We didn't talk in that class until halfway through the semester. The class was only once a week and I am the person who is always 15minutes early and i sit towards the front while she always sat in the back. But one day my brother got into a car accident and that made me late for class (of all the days and times of the week it just happened to be right at that moment) that day and when i got there the only seat open was the seat next to her. She started convo asked for my facebook and so on. The following week we talked again and she asked if I could hold a parking spot for her, so I said sure Ill wait for you to bring your car around, well to tell you the truth there was plenty of spots left so she didn't need my spot but something told me to wait for her to show up anyway just out of respect. She was shocked to see I drove the same car as her brother and she had the same make as me she then said we need to hang out soon. Later in the week we hung out and like a week later I asked her to be my girlfriend. She is pretty attractive as well so thats another thing. She wanted a promise ring and I bought that for her a few weeks ago, and she wears it on her engagement finger.
Now she went on vacation yesterday with her family to cancun. She went with her mom, brother, and sister. She said her and her brother were going to senor frogs one of the nights and I know how crazy it is over there and i am just worried she will do something stupid. Her brother likes me too but he has cheated on his girlfriend in the past and his sister thinks thats horrible and wrong but hasn't told his gf at all. I am hoping when they go together people will think they are bf/gf. I talked to her before and told her i trust her and told her I was scared because i didn't want anything to happen that would ruin our wonderful relationship. She said she wouldn't do anything and that she promised me everything would be ok. But the temptations that are over there scare the living hell out of me. Since we have been together she went to aruba and the atlantis in bahamas and everything was good, well to my knowledge anyway. Even if something happened in cancun I am not sure if she would tell me or not because she knows I would be done with her so if she did she probably wouldn't tell me. Shes told me in the past she couldn't cheat on me because she would feel guilty about it. I know I am suppose to trust her but I am always wondering.
I have no reason NOT to trust her because she has been faithful, but her bf before me she cheated on 4 times, she claims the kid was a loser didn't respect her they dated for like 9 months so she was dating other people to move on from him and those 4 times she cheated was just kissing, and the 4th time was with me, she told me she was single. Her parents hated her previous bf, but they love me to death.
We talked on her other vacations but racked up a massive cell phone bill from texting and her mom was pissed, and in cancun i can send her texts for free which i have done but it costs 50 cents for every message she sends me. She has texted me once so far she left tuesday and comes back friday
We had a little argument about a week ago and she was mad but she was over it, she also said that she needs this vacation to get away from everyday life and just relax since last one she went on was about a year ago. Between work and school and the argument we got into she's like I just need to get away so I can clear my mind of everyday life, and fact she was on PMSing at beginning of the week to may had added more stress.
I talked to one of my good friends who ive known for 6 years, he has had his fair share of relationships and I usually ask him when im in doubt about something and he is usually right 9 times out of 10. He said he doesn't believe she would cheat on me, but he said anything can happen so you can't rule it out. He has been to cancun himself and he says its pretty wild there especially now since colleges done so alot of kids going to party after graduation.
I have hardly slept the past 2 nights, I don't work so its hard for me to kill time, the only thing i do during the day is go to the gym and fool around with the stock market, so it is kind of hard to kill time. I have no motivation to get out and do something else or go out with my friends or whatever
I know girls say they will never do anything and that they love you and in the end they do stuff anyway.
Any advice from you women/girls out there?
