i think in general people need to ****en toughen up and suck it up every now and then, i grew up in a warzone and even after the war, i got bashed on a weekly basis for my ethnicity, went to a juvenile home and then rehab - and all this before the age of 16, have i had a tough life?? not really, i consider myself quite lucky, i have a fully functioning body, loving parents, food in my stomach and a roof to sleep under, everyone has bumps and bruises in their life, just be grateful they are not as bad as other poeple's