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I have been going out with my dear Anthony for one year and a couple of months. I love him to death and for the most part I enjoy having sex with him. Just lately I've really been wanting to expierment with other people. Is this just a faze that will pass? Should I consider taking action?
It depends on if this is fantasy or if you really want to try. Most people go through a faze like this, and it does pass. If you care for him you should give it some careful thought if you do decide to go through with it. You might just need to spice things up with him, being in a rut will bring these thoughts.Quote:
Originally Posted by meowwoofmoose
But if the urge remains strong, I'd say go for it. You certainly don't want to look back one day with regret of having not done what you wanted.
Just make sure you break it off with the poor guy before you do.
Dont cheat on him! Leave him first! and Dont use that but I love him excuse cause if ya did you wouldnt be wanting to screw other dudes anyway lol.....
I say just spice things up too... every relationship goes through a time where youre not really getting satisfied sexually... just stick through it if you love him.
And I've been going out with MY dear Anthony for a long time but even though you get those thoughts, and in my case, dreams - you should not even be considering doing that if you love him that much. Never do it. You want to be with him for the rest of your life, not anyone else.
You know it's "phase", not "faze"...
Frasbee if that bothers you you should check out the First Date help post lol.... ya...
Oh this is nothing.
We've had some wack job posts in 'ere, where the 3 paragraphs was turned into one long sentence of net speak.
I've seen a few like that... makes it hard to read them.
What are you asking us if you should experiment behind his back? thats called cheating and it leads to a failed relationship.
yea, that.Quote:
Originally Posted by Snipaa
Dear god no. I would never consider cheating on him. I don't really know what it is I want. I thank everyone for trying to help me out. I am starting to think that my problem isn't that I wan't to have sex with another person, I just don't want to have sex with him. I don't know why I am suddenly feeling this way but hopefully these feelings won't last.
Ask what his views are on swingers
AAAAAAAAAAAAHAHAHAHA. oh geez. that was great...
swingers oh thats a nice clean way to go lol
Spice it up then....and the desire will return.
I felt like that with my last boyfriend. I enjoyed sex with him but wanted to see if it felt different or was more exciting with someone else. So I did. I broke it off with him. It turns out that I didn't really love him after all, and that I was just fooled into thinking I did becuase he was the first person I have properly had sex with. But that was me. I think it was just about sex with him anyhow, as with my new guy it is on a lot of different levels...
I don't know why but that above just annoys the living hell out of me.Quote:
Originally Posted by girlygirl2005
it did me too...
For some off reason I visualized a blonde chick in a honda civic with the flowers over the rear view mirror saying that while smacking her gum..
Is that mean?