Girls are out of their fcking mind !

So here I am after 30+ days of no PMO and this weeks been busy but today had a lot of free time and felt like coming out of flatline cause urges came back triggered by beautiful girls(my FB friend posted her and her firend pictures) pics on FB. So I felt like I need to do something. Opted for choice to be social and wrote 2 girls on dating site offering to meet. _ No replys despite that we been chatting few sentences today. Then messaged one friend from FB with who been chatting for few weeks and I met her on Tinder. Asked Dont she wanna meet today? And she was like what do suggest? She lives in other city and I know only cinema there so thats what I told her. And she was like - "Why do you suggest cinema for a date and telling that you dont know anything else is a bad flight of fantazy."

Just feel like fck it, feeling like giving up on girls from internet. They starting act worse than princeses. Just being so determinent and wanting to meet girls but finding just girls that dont want anything and are flakey really kills mood and hope. I now really start to understand guys who are in their thirties, who have given up on girls and accepted life to live alone for the end of the days. Sometimes just too much shit is taken from girls to recover. Even warrior heart can be killed with shit like this.

Oh no! Don't give up on girls! There are plenty of nice sweet kind-hearted girls out there. Just a few b*tches came your way and you want to give up? No! Have some faith;] I understand it's like saying "all men are pigs" after having your heart broken, but they are not all like that and definitely not all girls are like these you've just described. Keep your head up and don't give up;]

And some guys are too sensitive. I accidentally blew off a guy and he is all hurt and stuff. Men who gets the girl mans up.

I always thought Tinder was the hit for sex site? Does your sister know any nice girls for you?

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Originally Posted by lovebroken [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I always thought Tinder was the hit for sex site? Does your sister know any nice girls for you?

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My sister told me to sit alone and stink after I told her this problem with girls.

Told a friend about girls and he said - live and die with dogs at least they will love you. I told him that dogs need their shit to be collected, but after girls you dont have to collect shit, potty training is great after all. But really I wish girls would stop shitting in my soul.

I'm sure this is going to show my age, but what is PMO and what did the girl mean by "a bad flight of fantazy"? I also thought that Tinder was an app for casual sex hookups. What kind of girl do you expect to meet from that? Also, chatting on FB is very impersonal. It's easy to just type things.

I don't think you are looking in the right places.Have you tried legitimate dating sites? What exactly are you looking for in a girl? And I don't agree with totallyomgxo that a man can be too sensitive. It IS hurtful to be blown off, accidentally or not.

I been talking about nofap site before and PMO is a term from there - it means Porn Masturbation Orgasm. Im on 36 streak now and plan to reach next goal 60 days, then 90 days and so on. Total long term goal for me is 365 and 500 days without PMO. There a lot of benefits and it really is a healthy chance from sinful lifestyle.

I really been thinking that tinder is a real dating app. Maybe in US and UK its a app for sex but here I been meeting girls who I think want actually date too not just sex. None of two girls I met on tinder wanted sex on first or second date.

I dont think dating sites are real place to find a decent healthy thinking girl at all. Just troubled girls and trash. Or girls that will never respond. Really luck is rare there.

Guys can be sensitive but its a good think as long as you are not sensitive because you are alcoholic or on drugs. We have feelings too and just because we are men doesnt mean we should take shit or dont care. As more man cry as more heart he have.

P.S. I dont know what that stupid bitch meant with saying - bad fantazy flight. She unfriented me on FB today and didnt even reply my last message. One shit less in my world.

LOL. Thanks for the explanation. But guess what? What is nofap site? I think getting rid of porn is a good idea because it is totally unrealistic regarding how a sexual relationship should be and I think very disrespectful and degrading towards women. As far as masturbation, do you regard that as "a sinful lifestyle"? I guess that is a very personal decision. I think my husband would die if he couldn't masturbate.

You didn't answer my question about what you are looking for in a girl. I guess I can't really comment on dating sites since I am involved and have never used one. Times are different now then they were for me. eHarmony and Match.com seem pretty legit, but I'm just going by the commercials.

Nofab site is a website called nofap.com thats dedicated to pmo addicted guys of all ages. Also theres a lot of guys who are in relationship and pm have done damage to their relationship. For example P damages mind and M makes penis unsensitive.

Those could be good dating sites, but in US. Im from Latvia and only international stuff we have is tinder.

[MENTION=85802]Snow White[/MENTION] if you asking what Im looking for in a girl then firstly I want a lot of communication like chatting and phone calls and someone who keep her word like dont change plans about meeting and actually have time to meet. Im not okay to be in last place for a girl. Want to be important. Also want a girl who dont drinks and preferably dont smokes and to who sex is not important but who can freely talk about it.A girl who like kissing and cuddling.

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Originally Posted by pcmaster [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

So here I am after 30+ days of no PMO and this weeks been busy but today had a lot of free time and felt like coming out of flatline cause urges came back triggered by beautiful girls(my FB friend posted her and her firend pictures) pics on FB. So I felt like I need to do something. Opted for choice to be social and wrote 2 girls on dating site offering to meet. _ No replys despite that we been chatting few sentences today. Then messaged one friend from FB with who been chatting for few weeks and I met her on Tinder. Asked Dont she wanna meet today? And she was like what do suggest? She lives in other city and I know only cinema there so thats what I told her. And she was like - "Why do you suggest cinema for a date and telling that you dont know anything else is a bad flight of fantazy."

Just feel like fck it, feeling like giving up on girls from internet. They starting act worse than princeses. Just being so determinent and wanting to meet girls but finding just girls that dont want anything and are flakey really kills mood and hope. I now really start to understand guys who are in their thirties, who have given up on girls and accepted life to live alone for the end of the days. Sometimes just too much shit is taken from girls to recover. Even warrior heart can be killed with shit like this.

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As you know, I have had the same kind of experiences lately, I took a break from dating for several weeks and am now going to try more in person stuff as apposed to online as I just have not had any luck online lately and I think I ignore more everyday opportunities than I should. Women are nutty, that's a given, but good luck to us both in finding a "mostly sane" girl for us both my friend.

Thanks for reply man. I really started to understand how you felt after all this shit with girls.

You are right theres just too much real life opportunities and girls on dating sites are mostly insane, girls with huge problems and so on, yet by all the attention they are getting they get fooled like they are worth something when in fact they are just low quality material.

Girls out there in real life are in much healthier state of mind. At least I hope so.Once I become confident enough I will go and talk with two girls in shops I wanted to talk for a long time but never had balls yet. Really doing the right thing lately and confidence is building.

Yea, I know what you mean and it is tough to find the right moment and method to strike up conversation with strangers; definitely not an easy thing to do without seeming like a creeper to them or something...

Let's both experiment with this and see if "in person" met girls are any better than the online met ones. I sure hope they are better as well...

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Originally Posted by pcmaster [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

My sister told me to sit alone and stink after I told her this problem with girls.

Told a friend about girls and he said - live and die with dogs at least they will love you. I told him that dogs need their shit to be collected, but after girls you dont have to collect shit, potty training is great after all. But really I wish girls would stop shitting in my soul.

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It's not the girls doing shit to you
It's you doing the same shit that makes them

If someone can repeatedly get positive results with the same dating site you use and you can not then chances are you doing it wrong.
That's what logics and statistics tell us

You could be right because I felt crazy if even my sis turned back on me. Think I need to go on long walks to sort out my mind.

This is why i've always advocated living a great life on your own and having a blast on your own. That's the best life (and revenge) and it is also what makes you the most attractive you that they start coing around.
Then you can, if you want, play the game back at them and be picky about them. Feels great!

So in the end.. the real answer is, "don't care about what others do, say, think, or treat you..." - just go be kick ass on your own and life will be great... the rest will take care of itself.

Thats good advice California man. I really starting to rock more and more on my own, just think maybe girl would feel better than my hand and really want to find passion in relationships. As this motivates me the most - relationships.

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Originally Posted by pcmaster [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Thats good advice California man. I really starting to rock more and more on my own, just think maybe girl would feel better than my hand and really want to find passion in relationships. As this motivates me the most - relationships.

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California man? Think you mean Canadian man?... lol

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Originally Posted by CleanCut [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

California man? Think you mean Canadian man?... lol

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Was thinking hes from Sanfrancisco in Californija since its says, Francisco CA.

Yea, maybe so, just said that because he has the Canadian flag selected for his country flag...