Is it ok to get a boner when making out? If not, any ways to avoid it, if so, what do I do? We both are saving ouselves for marriage but finding other ways to have some fun ;) Need help, oh yeah and my username, not mine.
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Is it ok to get a boner when making out? If not, any ways to avoid it, if so, what do I do? We both are saving ouselves for marriage but finding other ways to have some fun ;) Need help, oh yeah and my username, not mine.
sometimes they like it :D
If you want to avoid the boner, stop making out. That should make it easier.
Well, I personally love it when a guy gets boner. However, I'm not saving myself for marriage, so I don't have to issue much self restraint.
In your case......I think you're just going to have to live with it. Either that, or like Vashti said.....don't make out.
can i ask. if this happens to u lot. what exacty do u do? do u make sue she cant feel it or what
this happens with me cause the girl im with now ripped my piercings out....
and for some reason that was erotic... O.O
was it painfull though? lmao
If you want to avoid a boner close your eyes when kissing her and think you are kissing your mom.lol:P
what did u do? pull away or just stand there. did she even feel it?
It might be a bit....uncomfortable in a romantic situation. Obviously in a raunchy situation, it would help a lot. It's nice to know when you're aroused when someone is trying to arouse you, but in the other cases it might be a bit off putting. Just a personal opinion, though.
man, i think its normal to have a boner.
make out=boner=so what?
i think they would be xcited to know u were aroused
its a good thing to be aroused when making out, I would be worried if you weren't!
I'm not sure I've ever made out without getting a boner. I've also never had a girl mind it at all, like said above they tend to like it (if they even notice it if we're not going that far)
Most all men will get a boner when making out. Most all girls like it too. It lets a girl know that she is doing her job. DO NOT be ashamed of getting a boner when making out! Totally normal! ;)
let's put it this way: if you get a boner when you are making out, and the girl likes it, she is good to go. if she doesn't like it, move back and say something like "i think we're moving to fast" or something like that. she will then think that you are mr. sensitive or something.
of course, this won't work with all girls ^_^ to each his own ^_^
You crack me up. XDQuote:
Originally Posted by vashti
Anyway, the boner? Don't be your own boner, and use it. While you're making out, thrust and move it into dry sex.
If you cum in your pants, I swear to God...
pure hardcore....XDQuote:
Anyway, the boner? Don't be your own boner, and use it. While you're making out, thrust and move it into dry sex.
If you cum in your pants, I swear to God...
:evil: Yeah, there ain't nofin wrong wif it. Ya man, most girls dig that it's that much of a turn on. I know swuftygirl does. *wink, wink.... nudge, nudge.... *
But ya, I do know what you're talking about. If you're not wanting to go any further than making out, it would make it rough.
You can't control it.
lol... funny thread *gets serious*
you know when you get a woody(sorry i feel uncomfortable using the word) you tend to stretch your weiner right? dont stretch it and the process of you getting a woody will go REAL slow
heh. a girl i dated about 6 months ago- when we had been going out for like a week, we were both on an extended field trip over a weekend, and we snuck out of our hotel rooms and made out in the stair well- when we decided it was about that time to head back to our rooms (like 2 am... we liked making out lol) we stood up and i noticed i was freakin stabbing her with a hardon. lol. i was just kinda like 'ehhh...' and she just smiled slightly awkwardly. a week later i got a handjob. lol.
getting a boner while making out is not abnormal at all. i pretty much get a boner near every time a girl and i make out.
I like it. It's a turn on.
But I suppose it could be a little annoying if you're both saving yourselves for marriage. I don't have any tips unfortunately!!
well ask her man, cause sometimes they will say "you are such a horndog, you just want sex" or sometime they will say "oh you are turning me on"
I think my feelings would be hurt if he DIDN'T get a woody.
Your boner is involuntary, so if she has a problem with it, tell her to jerk you off so it'll go away.
when i kiss girls they seem to love it when i get hard, very often they pull me closer so they can feel it against them even more.
really cause i just got a bigger boner :oQuote:
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But what if that isn't enough? I mean, it keeps coming up again.Quote:
Originally Posted by Frasbee [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Basically, very often I even have to walk with a boner, its a bit embarrassing.
All that thinking about America must really fuel your boners, Boobie.
my last gf didn't care, tended to grab it. current one doesn't ever seem to notice, i think she does just doesn't care.
Yes, I guess so, I really like to **** America, you know.Quote:
Originally Posted by doppelgaenger [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
My last gf, if I got a boner while we were making out while sitting down, she would stroke it through my jeans or whatever I was wearing. Or if we were standing she'd like for me to pull her closer so she could feel it pressed against her. God damn was that girl ever sexual! lol damn i miss her.Quote:
Originally Posted by Pietomb [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
And the last person I kissed (whom I was working on) was a virgin and wasn't going to change that pre-marraige.. But she also enjoyed when I got a boner while making out. Completely natural and I don't see why a girl should find that to be a problem. Now, if you had a boner while she was telling you about her problems, that'd be an issue! LOL
The reason why men don't walk around with boners all the time is because they learn not to.
I get hard when women cry.
Haha, I had one of those too, but sadly thats the only thing I miss because she was a bitch in the end. There's plenty more women that would do that and enjoy it.Quote:
Originally Posted by soulsurvivor23 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I find it funny when women get upset or offended by a boner. It should be a compliment, not an insult.
Jerk it 3 times before the making out :P
Of course it's ok to get an erection when you make out.Quote:
Originally Posted by Suburban8incher [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
It means you are sexualy attracted to her. That's a good thing.
You're human aren't you?
You think girls don't get wet when they make out?
Generally, the boner (aka erection) works to your advantage. She feels it; its involuntary excitement on your part, like was said earlier. The woman gets interested in it and takes a look or a feel and you both smile at each other. And then, well, you are no longer saving yourself for marriage.
geez its normal to have a boner because its a natural reaction. You will egt turned on when you are kissing because your body works it self up for the next stage (which you won't do until you married).
It shouldn't be off putting to the girl because she knows that you find her attractive.
Is that actually one of the nonverbal cues to initiate sex?Quote:
Originally Posted by CAM [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Anyways to the OP- it depends on how old you are. A lot of girls under 18 are a bunch of innocent prudes who would probably call you creepy for getting an erection while making out. A REAL woman knows its whats supposed to happen
As I recall, the "average" age of first sex in the US (at least) is now 15 or 16 y/o. But, yes, it depends how old you are and I wouldn't recommend doing anything until you (and her) are of legal consenting age.Quote:
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