This place has very few threads.. -_-" so..
Any tips on how to be more confdent for the shy and not-so-confident?
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This place has very few threads.. -_-" so..
Any tips on how to be more confdent for the shy and not-so-confident?
Practice Practice Practice
And exactly how/what do you supose people should practise?Quote:
Originally Posted by Frasbee [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
It depends what you want to be confident in. Do you want to be confident within yourself or when it comes to approaching girls/boys?
Depends.
But it is practice.
Start with push ups.
Start with push ups, and then move on to interactions with strangers, like the grocery clerk or the bus driver. Start saying hi when you don't have to.
if somebody gives you a compliment, say thank you! a lot of people don't, they're like "oh it's nothing", etc.
Holy crap Giga, you're 38??
Did you think I could have packed all the stuff I've been through in my life into less time than that?Quote:
Originally Posted by Frasbee [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
That's just it though.Quote:
Originally Posted by Gigabitch [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
As I mentioned before.
I really don't know much about yours or Vash's past.
Don't know what brought you to where you are today.
It would be an irresponsible use of bandwidth to tell you the whole story of how I went from Bitch to Megabitch to Gigabitch.
Hmmm. Maybe you could put together a 20 questions thread with the things you most want to know about everyone here. For instance, one question could be:
Describe your parents in three words.
My answer would definitely NOT be "Ozzie and Harriet"
Anyway, I'd do it myself, but I have to go now and take my barking lunatic mother out to lunch for her birthday.
C-ya.
20 questions, eh?
I don't like such formalities.
Then again, it's not easy to talk with you guys one on one in here...
I dunno, I might come up with somethin'.
I love you. :love:Quote:
Originally Posted by Gigabitch [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Be confident with yourself. Simple as.Quote:
Originally Posted by mahouyuki [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Just do it. Nike style.
To be honest, I used to be really lacking in self-confidence.
One method that worked extremely well for me, was to consistently joke about being better than everyone else.
That way, most people don't take it offensively, but then I still voice confidence.
Mantras really do work. Just say something to prop up your ego over and over while meditating.
Watch the positive changes! They will happen! Reality is a manifestation of belief!
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One method that worked extremely well for me, was to consistently joke about being better than everyone else.
That way, most people don't take it offensively, but then I still voice confidence.
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That could backfire and make people think that you've got a huge ego...?
[QUOTE=mahouyuki;220747]Which it does. The above method isn't too bad but I don't advise you to constantly keep reinserting that your better than everyone.Quote:
Originally Posted by Cyrus255 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Is there anything about yourself that you don't feel so confident about?
Umm.... Im ultra shy around ppl i dont kno... and even ppl that i do kno but just not really close to them
How to over come shynessQuote:
Originally Posted by mahouyuki [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
1. Make it a point to express what you feel or think at least once a day with friends or family even though you're shy, your shyness won't bite. Try to do the same with a complete stranger 1 a week.
2. When looking at mirrors make to compliment yourself out loud or in your head. Say things you would tell someone you love or deeply care about.
3. Understand that you can only be yourself. Know what you want and try to make up your mind quicker but stay very precautious. Its always best to be safe then sorry.
Shyness can be something that you have complete control over if you know how to take care of yourself and find courage in the truth. See the links bellow for further advice.
Something I found. Hope it helps.