generally i am a very confident person. however, i have become really unconfidnt and genarally really insecure about myself, especially about the way i look. :upset: hmm.
generally i am a very confident person. however, i have become really unconfidnt and genarally really insecure about myself, especially about the way i look. :upset: hmm.
What has changed?
Did you go swimmin' and your dick shrank?
Wait, are you even a guy?
If you're not, did you go swimmin' and your...ovaries shrank?
I think most people underestimate their level of attractiveness. I think I only know of one or two people who are devoid of at least a single redeeming quality.
Anyway, if you are feeling insecure, you ought to try doing some things that make you proud of yourself and boost your confidence. Volunteer work does wonders for low self-esteem.
i've been thinking a lot about what's happend that's made me insecure and i think i know..it was a while ago and i was on the phone to the other half and his mum was around. she didnt know i was on the phone and she started talking to him about me and she made a remark about my appearance, as if to suggest he could of done better. this has affected me more strongly than i would have thought. i feel like pathetic for writing this and for actualy feeling it.
frasbee im female lolQuote:
Originally Posted by Frasbee [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
So his mom is a nasty, evil woman, huh? Well, try not to take it personally. As a mom, I know that lots of us suffer from the "there will never be one good enough for my boy" complex.
You know, I was trying to think of something witty to say back, should you ever find yourself in this position again, but really, I think the best way to handle this is to shame her by saying something like "wow... that really hurt", and say it sincerely. If your boyfriend is a stand-up guy, he will instantly be on your side, and she will be revealed as the bitch she is.
Does he like the way you look?
Truthfully, the girl I'm with, I would have not given a second glance when I first met her.
Actually even now when I look back at pictures of then I still cringe (bad I know) but she admits her short hack job of a hair cut was really ugly.
After she grew her hair out, all the while me getting to know her, I can confidently say that she is the most beautiful girl in the world.
This is why we love you, Fras.
LostNotFound, you can't please everyone. Let me be the first to say, "**** her."
Now repeat after me: "Just because she wants to plant an evil seed doesn't mean I have to water it."
What the hell does his mother know about looks? he obviously is with you. She probably is still stuck in the 1970s fashion lol.
Or maybe she wants him to think you're ugly so she can have you all to herself!!
WTF are you talking about? according to you, you are with a girl that is wanted by half of the United Sates Male population.Quote:
Originally Posted by j_r_l [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Uh I did not get the memo..............Quote:
Originally Posted by The Great OV!!! [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Well, wouldn't that freak you out, OV?Quote:
Originally Posted by The Great OV!!! [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
If she she goes with them, yea...if I trust her and she gives these guys the cold hard stare of rejection..hell no..it makes me feel good then.Quote:
Originally Posted by Gigabitch [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Lost, your bf finds you attractive, and I can guarantee you that he'd find you even more so attractive if you start believing it yourself. Staring in a mirror analysing yourself wont help. It's been shown that it doesn't matter how attractive, women think less of themselves when they look in the mirror. You just gotta do stuff that makes you feel good about yourself, and don't ever hide your body from your bf, that'll just foster the illusion that he wouldn't find you attractive if you showed him.