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and if so how did it feel.i once had this pretty girl ask me out but i said no because i already had to girls at the time didn't see the need for another one lol .2 weeks later i ran into her at the gym we worked out together ,and talk for about 3 hours. so after seeing her play tennis i thought about asking her out and i did and she said no.
Yeah, being dumped can be one of the worst feelings in the world, depending on your feelings towards the person, your experience, your personality etc...
But what you describe isn't so much of a dumping, more a rejection before you even start. Guess that can still knock you a little, but lets face it at the time you had 2 other girls going out with you at the same time??? Count yourself lucky for being able to pull that off I would. :D
^ Yup. Gaddes you were rejected, not dumped.
I got played once. I think that's worse than being dumped, but I'm not sure.
It was incredibly humiliating and made me feel worthless.
my first girlfriend dumped me because i stroked her leg on the first date and i guess that intimidated her or something.
every girl after that i have dumped because they all lied/cheated to me. ****ing amerika.
i feel for ya. just about every relationship i've been in i got played bigtime.Quote:
Originally Posted by Gigabitch [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I've been dumped AND played......hurt like hell at the time, but I can tell you for sure that it made me one helluva stronger person in the end.
Now I'm not to be messed with!
The guy who did it is a radio DJ here in Santa Fe. Occasionally, I hear his voice on the radio and it makes me feel really sad. I'm not sure if you can ever truly get over being treated badly, not completely.Quote:
Originally Posted by lilwing [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Still can't figure out what motivates such things. He chased me like a dog after a rabbit for six months, and as soon as he got what he wanted, vanished like a puff of smoke.
damn giga... that would make me sad too :(
Your ex was SUCH an idiot.Quote:
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so was d.j. ****ass.Quote:
Originally Posted by Gigabitch [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Nope strangely enough, i have always done the dumping, was a bit cruel in the past and would do it just for fun, nowadays i just seem to be real picky personality wise, i seem to find little flaws within a week or two and convince myself that they are beneath me, so always dump them straight away
Giga: some guys are just like that - they have no intention of having a realtionship, just want a new pussy to ****, and sadly females these days seem so quick to give it up, thats its getting easier and easier to play girls, at least in your case it took months, most of my mates who are very good at what they do need a maximum of 20 mins - and at least you learnt your ****ing lesson, but some of these bitches today just dont get it
i thought since this was the intimate forum, the title was gonna be continued ...
i thought it was going to be "have you ever been Dumped ... on?"
gaddes ... u weird me out.
lolololololololollololoololollollolQuote:
Originally Posted by tooxshort [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
:D
I've never been dumped. I seem to attract the guys that want to stick around. I had a cheating boyfriend, though... even he wanted to stay together.
Only once personally.. too bad it was the only one I cared about :(
ALLEGED!!!!Quote:
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Edit: Got dumped in year eight that I totally forgot about till just now, and by this chick at uni but I well and truly deserved that. Most of the time, for me, the gloss has well and truly rubbed off by the three month mark. I've also been known to do a pre-emptive dump to make sure it's me that leaves the relationship covered in glory and not her.
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Originally Posted by Charlie Boy II [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
yea.
Yes i think we have all been dump at one time
[QUOTE=LoveTwist;267671]Yeah, being dumped can be one of the worst feelings in the world, depending on your feelings towards the person, your experience, your personality etc...
But what you describe isn't so much of a dumping, more a rejection before you even start.
Well as quoted its more a rejection than being dumped in your case!
ive been dumped once, and it was painful, confusing and utterly terrible as we were both still in love and talking about moving in together like two days before he left me (he was in a personal crisis and didnt want me to hold on to him).
Its taken me something like nearly 5 years to completely get over him, always been feeling odd and confused and bruised even if I was seeing other guys in those years. In my case I tell you, it wasnt easy at all.