your man/woman for cheating even if they came out and told you about it, and that they were sorry?
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your man/woman for cheating even if they came out and told you about it, and that they were sorry?
After I stabbed out her eyes with a bacteria infested pickle fork
If I was serious about the person? Yeah, they'd get another chance. But if I ever had reason to suspect that it was happening again, whether they admitted to anything or not, no amount of apologizing would get them /anywhere/.
no, not on any level could I forgive them
ask wat happened why did he do that, depending on the answer i would make my decision
They say that women are more likely to forgive a one night stand than men are. Men go nuts over physical cheating and women go nuts over emotional cheating.
Agree or disagree?
I guess I disagree, because I would slam his dick in a car door if he cheated on me.
Hell, no I wouldn't forgive that.
I am with gigabitch's methods of resolving cheating too lol
I'd forgive and give a chance for a second time, but I'd probably never forget because you know that person has the capability to cheat because they've done it before.
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Originally Posted by tooxshort [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Hmm, I forgot about physical stuff. I'd have to go with Gigabitch's method if a guy cheated on me just to get a sex fix.
I couldnt forgive. Agreed, slam his dick in the car door. The whole issue arises of trust now. How do you trust him again?
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Originally Posted by tooxshort [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I think it depends on the circmstances. If you are talking about a BOYFRIEND, there is no real incentive to keep a cheater around. You don't have anything really invested.
If you are talking about a HUSBAND, especially when there are children involved, it would depend on whether this was an isolated event, or a lifestyle.
I agree, the forgiving is the easy part. How do you rebuild trust after that? How can you be at peace that they will never do it again after they have so effectively proved you wrong? That's a challenge.Quote:
Originally Posted by squirrley [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Well, I'll bet it's really hard to cheat after getting your dick slammed in a car door...Quote:
Originally Posted by Mishanya [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
The tongue and the fingers will still be working :)Quote:
Originally Posted by Gigabitch [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
And what to do you if the cheater is female?
And hopefully the lesson will be learned. If they stray, they too will be slammed in tha car door.Quote:
Originally Posted by Mishanya [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Superglue her vagina shut. If she wants to retain the use of her other orifices, she'll make sure they don't receive any foreign visitors.Quote:
Originally Posted by Mishanya [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Sounds practical :D
I am a registered Girl Scout.Quote:
Originally Posted by Mishanya [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
And a bitch.
I assume you mean physically unfaithful.For that, I could forgive.I wouldn't hate her or wish she was dead or want to hurt her.But the relationship would be over.If her desire for sex with another person(s) is stronger than her desire to have a relationship with me, then she can take her desire and get on with life.It's not hard to control yourself.And if for some reason she is done with me, isn't satisfied with me, wants out of the relationship, likes someone else, it really doesn't matter.Be an adult.Say something first.No excuse for being "unfaithful".It's really not hard.
Wow, that is pretty forgiving...and I mean that in a bad way. Someone is going to use you for that one day...hell I got ideas just reading it. Anyways, my answer is f*ck no.Quote:
Originally Posted by Moonchild [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
WTF is emotional cheating?Quote:
Originally Posted by tooxshort [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
These days, its a psychologist's mortgage payment.Quote:
Originally Posted by Only-virgins [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
The idea describes someone who has a closer emotional relationship with someone other than their romantic partner. Becomes an issue when this is someone of the opposite sex & they become physically attracted to each other.
Emotional cheating w/a same-sex friend, or a relative (e.g. close siblings) doesn't count b/c of the lack of potential for a physical relationship.
Forgiving a cheater would depend on circumstance for me. Similar to Vash's comment. I also wouldn't forgive a BF for the reasons she said. Forgiving a spouse would depend on circumstance & intent. If you have been a total bitch (or bastard) to your partner for years & only screw them on their birthday, well, I would have to say you've set yourself up for the situation. If this were a habit of a spouse & they refuse to try to address the relationship issues, then I wouldn't. In the end, sex is just sex. Its the trust issues that are important.
Its weird how a lot of ppl won't admit that nothing happens in a vacuum & won't take responsibility for their part in these types of situations.
BTW, I strongly suggest that those thinking about getting married, or being in a committed LTR have the conversation about 'what if one of us was considering cheating' before it happens. You can decide that, if that situation arises, that you will go to your partner and tell them you are having these thoughts before the situation gets out of control.
FWIW
if it was my current S.O i'd be heart broken. i'd drown in my tears. but deep down i think i would want to take him back but i wouldn't be able to knowing what hes done with someone else
I would feel exactly the same way. Something precious would be broken.Quote:
Originally Posted by LostNotFound [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
i dont understand people who can cheat. but then again you can never understand anything until you've experienced it