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I was reading an article online today, and it said the average man lasts 3 minutes after penetration... I thought maybe it was just that one article, so I searched for stats elsewhere. Sure enough everything I read pointed to 2-5 minutes.
I had to get a few female perspectives on this. In your experience, do men really only last about that long after foreplay is over? I call that a quickie... a quick quickie at that. :detective
2-5 minutes? So I guess I should be surprised by the typical 10-15 minutes I've encountered in the past... (20-30 minutes on very rare occasions)
Yes, I would consider 2-5 minutes to be a quickie.
Yup, you guys all think you are studs and think that 3 minutes is the same as an hour. :D
ummmmmm thats nothing
iv gone for 2 hours before. no joke
Me too. Although not often, especially when I was younger. But that is precisely my point.Quote:
Originally Posted by blackzj52 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Marathons are cool and all... but what's the average for you?Quote:
Originally Posted by blackzj52 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
hehe i did it everytime i had the house alone to myself with my ex
average? id have to say atleast half an hour if not moreQuote:
Originally Posted by Aeradalia [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
2 hours is too long.
for a lot of women yes, but it depends. An ex of mine, demanded at least 90 minutes...:PQuote:
Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
heh she didnt think so.Quote:
Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
i mixed it up a big. she never stopped loving
then we both completely crashed after
very well worth it
It shouldn't take 90 minutes to get the job done.
Not if you use the time wisely... ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
lucky. i used to put my ex down after she had 2-3 orgasms cuz id whipe her out.Quote:
Originally Posted by The Godfather [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
so i just began to spread them out, and keep making her want one more and more and jsut teasing her.
it was awesome
its not a matter of getting the job done, its a matter of enjoying it while is going on :PQuote:
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i like the way you thinkQuote:
Originally Posted by Aeradalia [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Novices.
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Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Sex is about enjoyment... right? Or did I miss something in the brochure? I could care less if it took 5 minutes or 5 hours... as long as we both had fun.Quote:
Originally Posted by blackzj52 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
It doesn't... you can get the "job done" in 5 minutes with the right techniques. But some women like to come 2...3...7 times.Quote:
Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Even 2, 3 or 7 times shouldn't take that long. I've had 4 orgasms in 35 minutes.
You all must have a lot of free time on your hands.
sex is more than just orgasms. Besides, you miss the point that the man in that 90 minute session only comes once...Quote:
Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Different strokes for different folks (pun intended). Each person is different. Sometimes I may orgasm 3 or 4 times in 30 minutes... other times I may only orgasm once. And on exceptionally rare times (about as often as a blue moon), I may go for 8 hours (with short breaks) one night and sleep like the dead for the next few days (ah... love vacation days).Quote:
Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Very true... though sometimes, with a little patience a guy may come a few times before he's been satiated (which is always delightful).Quote:
Originally Posted by The Godfather [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Indeed... now I want sex. Great.Quote:
Originally Posted by Aeradalia [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I could go forever. Assuming I didn't run out of energy. I don't have an orgasm unless I consciously work toward it. I like longer sessions. But we change positions, try different stuff and take breathers. I'm not steadily pounding the girl for 30+ minutes. I imagine that would be rather uncomfortable for her. And Vash? If you had 4 orgasms in 35 minutes wouldn't it be nice to have 12 in 90?
Do those men last 2-3 minutes because they can't help themselves or because they just don't give a damn?
I might try it just to see if I could have that many, but because they decrease in intensity, so I can't imagine maintaining interest that long. Also, it WOULD be uncomfortable after a while.Quote:
Originally Posted by Gribble [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
My mate's mate went for 3 hours while he was drunk and his foreskin was like stuck down like he was circumsized, I saw a pic and it was disgusting! My average is roughly 20-30 minutes. My girlfriend comes quickly so I need to tease and drag it out ;)
2-3 minutes what a bunch of duds!
In the beginning with my ex it was 4 mins, cause he was a virgin, but after that it could continue for hours <3. Hours with foreplay as well.
oh geez. lol.
Think it's mainly due to "oh shit, I'm thise close aaaahheeeelrea...dy Damn, sorry". Kind of thing.Quote:
Originally Posted by Gribble [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Not realising being close, yet continueing then suddenly being close :). Ofcourse there's always guy who don't give a damn though.
Doesn't refractory period play a role also?
After busting a nut my first time in bed I intend on changing condoms and jumping back into action
I must admit after 3 months I do it without. I'm very punctual with my anti birth pil as I really don't want kids. Cleaning it out as soon as he's done. IF he comes inside.Quote:
Originally Posted by DoesntMatter [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Though, that's been 2 years. Poor future boyfriend ;(.
I tried this but my dick was so sensitive afterwards, I had to wait a good half hour before hittin' it again, after that lets just say it was a long night.Quote:
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Originally Posted by Gribble [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
There ARE other things to be doing besides having sex. :surprisedQuote:
Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
30 - 40 minutes is usual for us. I don't mean dinner, cuddling etc before tho.
Longer just usually means someone is getting sore/bored. I suppose one could read a book while the other finishes. ;)
It all depends upon the day.
And when the last time I had sex.
have a few drinks or put on a rubber and you'll last a lot longer.
raverboy
i could make my ex have one reallllll fast.. after foreplay, i could put her down with one in under a minute or 2. if i wanted that is. i did it once or twice, but it wasnt as much fun
omg black i want you so bad now.
I am afraid many men who posted here are, I bet, lousy liars... :D
Meh, I think as long as you're good with how long it goes then great. Much of it for seems to depend upon environmental variables. Temp of room, whether I have water available to drink during the act, amount of and types of foreplay performed upon me.
I'd say 10-15 minutes on average, but if drinking or what not it can go much longer. At that point friction tends to become an issue... Etc.
When I was anti-depressents I'd go 2+ hours w/out finishing. Very frustrating.
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Originally Posted by Aeradalia [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Taking recent events into account... I stand corrected. Though it may have been the excitement and 'newness' of the situation... but he went for about an hour and a half.... each time --- 3 times total that night. I was tired, sore, and very happy. :DQuote:
Originally Posted by blackzj52 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
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Originally Posted by The Godfather [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Umm, foreplay is not penentration. Which time frame are you talking about here?
Also, I've never heard that, but I don't know, I'm a virgin, but how long do you last masturbating? That ought to give you an idea of what your stamina is.