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I was just wondering if anyone could help me.....I've been trying to have sex with my bf...I mean he's gotten it in ....eventually, but...I'd really like to know what to do in terms of the fact that it's just bloody difficult for him to get in....because well, I'm just very, very tight, which works well once he gets in there....but getting in there....that's the thing...
Use lots and lots of lube and have him be very gentle. Also what may help, is that if you're not arroused, it can be a very tight fit, too. The vagina will loosen up a bit if you're hot and horny and make it a little easier for your BF to get in you. Also, are you a virgin? Virgins have a thin membrane called the hymen and if that's still intact, it can make it a little hard for your BF to get in too. just masturbate a few times to soften and weaken it a bit and try again. The best way I find is girl on top if this is the case. just staddle and put him in, then just put your body weight into it and it'll pop.
Also, how old are you?
31???????????????
Have the same thing... really ****in annoying it is.
He needs to be well hard, you need to be wet enough then just be gentle and don't stress :D
Thank god for condoms!
I'm usually EXTREMELY wet.....it's just still too tight....if i hadn't had sex for a few months prior to having sex with him, would that make it REALLY tight? The other thing is that he gets hard.....but then in the ardor of trying to get it in...it goes down....which frustrates the hell outa me!!...he's been more than patient and kind about it....lolQuote:
Originally Posted by Thelovedoctor [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I'm 32.....btw
You need to find someone a few sizes smaller and work your way up from there. Perhaps when Lilwang gets back from Europe he can offer his assistance.
LOL!! I'm usually able to take them pretty big...I think it's more to do with the fact that I wasn't active for a while prior to doing it with him.Quote:
Originally Posted by Gribble [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Its not that bad. Finally he gets inside and it's good after.
It's much better than to have a big hole,and make guy feel like he's putting his instrument into a London Underground...
HA HA HA HA :DQuote:
Originally Posted by Pettit-Papillon [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Tell him to take a muffdive.
Chicks dig the micropenis ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by Gribble [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Have you heard of 3 finger dick?
1 finger, 2 finger, 3 finger, dick!
Huh, what's the problem again?Quote:
Originally Posted by elfen31 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
practice losening it up with a vibrator?
Well, at least you know he'll never need extenz. That shit will eff u up
Lube, lube and even more lube... and relax and enjoy... fyi: most guys I know love being in a thight spot....
Like I said, use lots of lube. maske his dick drenched in KY jelly. and no not having sex for a few months will not make it extremely tight, unless you've been doing like excercises to make it tighter.Quote:
Originally Posted by elfen31 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Also, try fingering yourself. Put one finger in for a bit, then do two, then three. Also, tension and anticipation will make you clamp up, so even trying to relax a bit will help immensely.
Ugh, KY sucks. Not only does it stink, but it doesn't last...Quote:
Originally Posted by Thelovedoctor [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Well, you don't have to use that particular brand you know. ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by Lite [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Lol anyone recommend olive oil?
To my experience (experiences and opinions may differ) one of the better, if not the best, lubricant is Muko Lubricating Jelly. It's
bacteriostatic, non-conductive and water soluble. It eases insertion of urdogical catheters, rectal thermometers, enemas, tampons and it lubricates condoms and provides personal lubrication. Plus it's pretty cheap and lasts a lot longer than most of the other lubricants I know.
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Yes, but how does it taste?Quote:
Originally Posted by Yggdrasil [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I recommend Elbow Grease Light personally, though it can be difficult to find in stores.
It's tasteless. Not that I would recommend swallowing a tube.Quote:
Originally Posted by Lite [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
LOL:goofy:;)Quote:
Originally Posted by Gottfried [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
have you tried stretching it out to form a gape?
I've heard that melting some butter in the microwave makes good lube.
i have been with girl who is very tight, just make sure he is fully hard and be on top of him and ease down....