Jealous of my boyfriend's amazing past experience with girls

I'm super jealous of my boyfriend because he is from Australia and had sex and relationships and i feel incredibly behind and naiive...

He's had a three-way relationship with two bi girls, and with me being bi i'm extra jealous of that and so curious, he's had sex in the sea, on the beach, in a pool, in the mountains, under a waterfall, on a balcony and its just blowing my MIND... he has shown me photos he took of beautiful naked girls who were 'friends' of his bi girlfriend in his apartment, and a pic of about 10 naked girls standing in a row by his pool... I just see what an amazing sex life he had and... wooow.

But that's not what mainly bothers me, it's mainly the fact that he has done so much and it makes me really jealous and sad to imagine him doing that stuff with other women and gets me wondering about the emotional attachment he had with them... and basically I feel like I am missing out.

To me, the experiences sound so sparkly and deep causing a deep feeling inside me that's craving for the experiences too... but because he has done it all already I feel so behind.

He is older than me, and it really saddens me that I am so naiive and the things he has done seem so 'grown up' and I feel small like a child back to the young days when I wondered what it was like to have sex... that is exactly what I feel like compared.

He says that when we go to Australia together, he will share the same experiences with me but I don't know what to think about that because he's already done them with other women and that makes me feel sad when I haven't and I'm nothing new :(

It's like, I want answers to all my questions because I feel so shady.

What can I say to him to show him how I feel? What should I do? What would you do in this situation?

You're from different generations with vast differences in sexual experience... I don't see this ending well...

stop worrying about it..its like a guy saying to me 'youve had sex with other men and it bothers me' ...yeh, well that aint gonna change so either get over it or move on

Eww 21 and 35! Dear god, no wonder he's got so much experience!

And how on god's green earth have you seen these pictures?!

you just added **** loads more either that or im blind..and girl where does it say the age difference?
He shouldnt of shown you them pics...thats just weird. You shouldnt dwell on what he has done in the past..its about you and him now not him and his ex's..you should have fun and do things you wanna do together not what he has done with ex's.

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Originally Posted by girl68 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

And how on god's green earth have you seen these pictures?!

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He showed her. He's obviously proud of his exploits.

Op, why are you jealous? Why would you want to have so many sexual experiences at that young of an age? I wouldn't mind a boyfriend sharing info about his sexual past with me, but pictures are oversharing IMO.

From what I've read on these forums, men are sometimes turned off by women who've had too many sexual partners so young.

Having so much sex with so many different partners also comes with alot of baggage, diseases, unwanted pregnancy. How do you know he doesn't have that stuff in his past as well?

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Originally Posted by starbuck [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

He showed her. He's obviously proud of his exploits.

Op, why are you jealous? Why would you want to have so many sexual experiences at that young of an age? I wouldn't mind a boyfriend sharing info about his sexual past with me, but pictures are oversharing IMO.

From what I've read on these forums, men are sometimes turned off by women who've had too many sexual partners so young.

Having so much sex also comes with alot of baggage, diseases, unwanted pregnancy. How do you know he doesn't have that stuff in his past as well?

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hummm, I have had lots of sex...doesnt mean ive slept with lots of guys.
Some of us practice safe sex.

She edited the ages out. (I think- I swore I saw it...)

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Originally Posted by qwerty123 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

hummm, I have had lots of sex...doesnt mean ive slept with lots of guys.
Some of us practice safe sex.

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I meant with multiple partners. In one picture he had 10 naked women with him...are we to assume he didn't have sex with them?

If he's proud of his sex life, fine. In turn, she shouldn't be embarrassed by hers or feel unworthy.

I edited my post to clarify.

i didnt see it first time..but i also didnt see what she added in...im confused, i think my mind is playin tricks. its late here..that my excuse.

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Originally Posted by starbuck [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I meant with multiple partners. In one picture he had 10 naked women with him...are we to assume he didn't have sex with them?

If he's proud of his sex life, fine. In turn, she shouldn't be embarrassed by hers or feel unworthy.

I edited my post to clarify.

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ahh i didnt see the '10' im gonna stop posting now..i think thats best lol

Your boyfriend is a moron - not because he had a lot of sex partners, but because he lacks the empathy you need.

Hi im the boyfriend that u call a moron,and u like 2 chat about my old sex life as if i was a slut.well its also ok 2 have female friends and not sleep with them ,and beciedes that is the past and i fell into the situation.
So go ahead and brand me a slut when u dont even know me.u wouldnt like it if people were slagging u off on these sites.

What is so "amazing"? I don't get it.

want me to show you a brand new move or two?

raverboy

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Originally Posted by Only-virgins [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

What is so "amazing"? I don't get it.

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That every thread of hers contradicts the other and she edits the hell out of them :lol:

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Originally Posted by woody 73 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Hi im the boyfriend that u call a moron,and u like 2 chat about my old sex life as if i was a slut.well its also ok 2 have female friends and not sleep with them ,and beciedes that is the past and i fell into the situation.
So go ahead and brand me a slut when u dont even know me.u wouldnt like it if people were slagging u off on these sites.

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Hey psycho. Stop stalking your gf online. Insecure much?

come on, i love hearing both sides of the story.

I wouldn't mind hearing his side if he didn't type as if he were texting.

He's only posted three times, in his girlfriend's threads, calling everyone losers.

I love to hear the other side of the story too, but I get the feeling he's just snooping into her business here. I wouldn't post threads about my bf being bad in bed if I thought he would come on here and read it.

maybe shes a head case and its actually her pretending to be him...otherwise its a bit far fetched.

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Originally Posted by bluesummer [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

He's only posted three times, in his girlfriend's threads, calling everyone losers.

I love to hear the other side of the story too, but I get the feeling he's just snooping into her business here. I wouldn't post threads about my bf being bad in bed if I thought he would come on here and read it.

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Oh no, he posted a personal message on my page :) Lucky me!

I think you are actually being rather rude about all this, I did just want honest, positive replies about what you would do in the situation I described because that is what I asked for, not name bashing and personal judgement such as:

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Originally Posted by girl68 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Eww 21 and 35!

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I have been with my boyfriend for a time and I love him, therefore I have no mind for loosing him.

I wanted to know if there was a way to solve the situation or if anyone has been in a similar situation and has any *sensible* advice.

Viagra?

Well first things first..you need to tell him you have a problem seeing as he doesnt seem to think you do...

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Originally Posted by Primo [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

That every thread of hers contradicts the other and she edits the hell out of them

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I have had a look at your previous threads and this statement is true. You write something, we answer, you edit it, then disregard the advice that was given with the real facts. And not to mention your threads are all over the place. You love him, you don't, you want to dump him, he doesn't let you, he's not a physical match for you, but you don't know why you have sex problems.

You have tons of problems with your bf, yet he thinks the relationship is perfect.

argggggggggghhhhh she edited again for ****s sake

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Originally Posted by woody 73 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Hi im the boyfriend that u call a moron,and u like 2 chat about my old sex life as if i was a slut.well its also ok 2 have female friends and not sleep with them ,and beciedes that is the past and i fell into the situation.
So go ahead and brand me a slut when u dont even know me.u wouldnt like it if people were slagging u off on these sites.

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I don't actually care if you're a slut or not. I care that "U" have the posting skills of a 12-year-old. If you want to elicit respect, use full sentences. You're just making yourself look silly.

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Originally Posted by girl68 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

You have tons of problems with your bf, yet he thinks the relationship is perfect.

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Of course he does. He's adding "sex with girl way too young for me" to his list of sexual experiences.