He has agreed that he won't be seeing her without other people around. But the problem is that she is very integrated into his life. They will be seeing each other during training (once each week) and in parties (they share many friends). He said he won't be working with her. I said "wow, she is so integrated into your life. Maybe you should marry her". I broke up with him and hanged up the phone. Then, he texted me several messsages and told me that he cares about me more than any friends and that he would do anything to get me back.
I would feel bad if I make him miss his friend's birthday parties or to ban him from training when I know he loves martial arts. What should I do?