Me and my girlfriend have started trying to have sex. We're both 18. She's way too tight. I fingered her to loosen her up and it doesn't work. 1 finger is ok with her, 2 is pushing it she says it's uncomfortable. She gets really wet and slippery but nothing past my head will go in. I rub her clit and she loves that, she gets incredibly wet fast.
She says I'm too big and that the head is really stretching her and hurting her.
I tried going REALLY slow and kissing her to relax her and just thrusting at a minimal level to get some more lube so it would go in smoother but it doesn't work. After my head it just won't go in, no matter how wet she is.
If just the head goes in, am i still a virgin?
I'm thinking of buying some lube to help us with this.
Any other suggestions?