I'm in love with a married woman
So, I know I'm in a real pickle but I'd like to get this out... Perhaps it will help to read what other people have to say and I can get the strength to put this all behind me.
This last Saturday I had a party at my house. A whole bunch of people showed up and it was a lot of fun. One of the people that attended was a married woman that I'm very attracted to. At a previous party we had gotten to talking and had a really good time. I thought she sort of was attracted to me too. Well, this last Saturday I was getting some seriously strong signals from her that she was very interested me. We had a really good time but I did something you all will most likely think I shouldn't have done.
At one point in the night I saw the opportunity to kiss her, intimately. Of course, I was nervous because I really didn't know how she would respond. Well, she kissed me back and we spent the rest of the night finding situations where her husband was around so we could kiss some more. The thing that makes feel really bad is that we were being extremely secretive about it!
Anyway, I know I should not persue this woman but my heart tells me otherwise. I know I need to break my own heart and perhaps I can gather strength and courage to do what I know I must do. I would really appreciate your thoughts on my situation, positive or negative.
In Love with a married man!!!
I would like some input from anyone. I am in love with a married man. We are both married. My marriage has been in trouble for several years now. I have stuck by my husband because of his illness and we have a small child. This man is married and his wife has lived in another state for 3 yrs now. They only see each other every few months. I have been seeing him for almost a year now and really do love him. He is on my mind constantly. He emails me about 5 times a day, and calls me every day. He recently went on trip with wife and their grown children to another country, and he called me twice from the other country. He has even found a computer and emailed me twice while with his wife. I have told him once that I loved him, and he said "I know, and I am fighting it!" Just what does this mean?? I would walk away from my marriage today to be with him, but I dont know if he would do the same. He tells me he thinks the world of me, and recently while we were in a public place, the song,"when a man loves a woman" came on, and he starred at me till the song ended. Then he said, "this is so hard!" Does this guy love me and just really scared, or have I fallen for someone that just wants sex? I mean he looked for ways to contact me when he was out of the country!!!
Really love this man but dont want to pressure him, in fear of losing him all together. Please tell me what you think!! Respect your opinion!
Heres my story its a real crazy one need some advice
Well Im the Single guy shes a Married women who hasnt worn her ring since the day we met i fell totaly head over heals in love not some fake love like were i worry about her think about her all the time accept her for who she is bad and good she has 2 kids (i know thats messed up) and i love them and the are getting attached to me she told me she has had divorce papers written up but there still married and hasnt gone any further then getting papers she told me and i beleive she loves me and wants to be with me but she is starting to act distant and less effectionate i confront her about this and she says she is having trouble deciding between me and her husband to me this sounds wierd because if you truly love somone how can you be with somone else love somone else like she says she loves me i understand the kids are involved it makes leaving him hard but if she stays with him she would have to tell him about me or she would be living with her husband with this deep dark secrete i think that she loves me wants to be with me but leaving her husband and putting the kids through this is to much to bare my question is this is it better to keep the family together where a marriage is based on a lie and is totaly bullshit or leave him be happy with me its a tough one and before i get all this crap about hey just leave her shes married I HAVE TRIED REally HARD I TOLD HER TO GO WITH HIM THE KIDS NEED A DAD SHE JUST SAYS I LOVE YOU I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO AND KEEPS TREATING ME LESS AND LESS EFFECTIONATE i think all this stress and crazy situation is making her unable to feel for cause of the guilt i asked her to marry me she said yes without even blinking and then she wouldnt wear the ring because she is still married and people who see it i have been trying to let her go stop talking to her but i cant i feel weak i even tried being a striaght asshole to get her to leave me that didnt work it hurts me so much to think of a future without her but seeing her hurting because of this decision hurts alot too soooo people hit me with your best shot.:(