Hello,
I'm waiting for the answers! Is there a particular meaning? Because I usually don't feel comfortable when my bf does It...
Thanks
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Hello,
I'm waiting for the answers! Is there a particular meaning? Because I usually don't feel comfortable when my bf does It...
Thanks
It probably has to do with how he shows affection. Is he a "touchy" person? Does he like to touch you and be touched? Then one way he shows and feels affection is through touch.
Yes he is quite touchy, he likes the way I touch him he already told me once. The problem is that I gained some weight over my belly though I'm very thin (1m64 and 50kg...) It makes me feel uncomfortable so I don't understand how he can like touching it...
Maybe you're right he wants to show me his affection for me
HE likes you. Why can't YOU like you? And why can't you accept that he likes you for who you are?
Just about everyone gains weight during the winter months, and for most people, it starts in the belly. I do too.
Like you, I think he likes me. Well I know that we all gain weight during the winter months but I m very thin so I kind of feel "disproportionate" :-s Yes you're right, he likes me the way I am...
But when you touch a girl's stomach, wouldn't you be scared that she interpretes it the wrong way? Like she thinks you want a baby?
Hmm, how old are you? It is totally normal to touch eachothers belly. Maybe he likes to turn you on? You don't touch his tummy :-)?
I am 24 and he's 27, well i don't know if it's really a way to turn me on because he does it in a very romantic way and while he touches my belly he holds my right hand and puts it on his heart (beating quite fast) and kisses the other...I usually feel a difference between a guy who touches my belly to turn me on and a guy who does it in a romantic way...
Umm actually I never touch his tummy! :-s I prefer his back it is so sexy!!! LoL
well if he is doing is romantically, he probably just doesn't care or even likes it
"he probably just doesn't care", care about what?
I always fondle my fiancee's belly, and at first she felt a little self-conscious because she thought I was making fun of her post-baby belly.
But that's not the case. I really enjoy touching her body, so I caress her belly and her breasts whenever we are alone. She's used to it
now so she likes it.
No. When he wants a baby, he'll talk about it. Fondling the stomach area, whether putting on some pounds or not, is still a sign that your BF likes you the way you are. You are in a good spot here. Enjoy it.Quote:
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"doesn't care" as in it probably isn't an issue for him as it is for you
Does he grab handfuls of belly fat and jiggle it about?
Does he squish your belly button together and make it sing? Just kidding. :)
I think that touch is his "love language". Look up "love language" on the net. There are different love languages. One is touch, another is buying little gifts, giving compliments, another is spending time with the one you care about. I think there are others. But everyone has their own "love language" which they use to show people they care, and that's how they like to be shown love. So if my love language is compliments, I like to give compliments, and I don't feel loved unless I receive them.
As for misinterpretations, if you communicate, you won't have misinterpretations. If you think he wants a baby, ask him! Then you will know for sure. Maybe he wants eleventy babies!
No, he doesn't do that, he doesn't grab it, he just caresses It, very slowly...why this question?
Thanks for your comment :-))) I'll look the love languages up on the net. He also makes compliments...he already told me that I was magnificent, he asked me not to change...etc.
I agree that the list you mentionned above belong to the love language but how can we be sure wether it's sincere or not?! :-(
Also, he hasn't told me he loves me yet :-( how long does it usually take until the 1st "I love you"? We've been dating for 5 months now (but we live in 2 different towns so we can only see each other on we and not every we)...but you are normally sure of the feelings you have (or not) for your partner after 5 months of relationship right?
Regarding the baby, we already had this conversation and we both don't want any by 30-35. But by the way he acted last we I feel like he's changing his mind and that's why I needed hel understanding It!
Hand on belly is close to vagina......it's a sign of sexual anticipation.
I don't know, because he also does It after we have sex but maybe you're right in the case he does it before
He likes your vagina what can he say lol.
After sex they still want sex hun.
I had a few exes that did the something......nothing to do with babies. I suspect they are thinking about how their penis feels when it's in there and how amazing it is.
LoL why does it absolutely have smthg to do with sex!! Also he often takes my hand and kisses it at the same time, before and after sex, don't tell me it also has smthg to do with sex!!
He is a guy....what else would it be.
Yes but you guys are not all the same, you can have feelings too...otherwise how could you show your feelings to a girl if every sign is related to sex?
Hes touching what he likes, who cares, ive touchs womens bellys before and they ahd gained some weight also, he finds you attractive so deal with it. is'nt that what you want?!
Some guys are comfortable expressing their feelings, but their hormones STILL give them a VERY high sex drive. It's different for every man and varies with age. Even after having sex, he might still be thinking about sex. Hormones do that.Quote:
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It's different for every person.Quote:
how long does it usually take until the 1st "I love you"?
Okay, maybe some of you still think about sex after.
But then I have one question, how can we, girls show you that we love you? For instance when your gf looks at you, how can you tell if she's in love or not? She stares at you? I try to let him know how he makes me feel by giving him a worried look...LoL how would you take this? And he usually stares at me too like for 10 seconds.
I have another question. If you know that your gf really likes you but the feelings are not mutual, you wouldn't waste your time staying with her would you? So you would be more cautious with the signs you give her right? I mean, you wouldn't stare at her, take her hand etc. so as not to give her hope?
I love my wife's belly. She's not thin, but that has nothing to do with it. A woman's belly is SEXY! It's where we lay during sex (ok, about half the time), it's where we lay our head sometimes... it's where you'll carry our baby if you do... a belly is just sexy. It doesn't necessarily mean anything at all beyond that.
Lots of women have nerves from their pelvis that extend into their lower abdominal area. He probably thinks you like it. If you don't, just move his hand to where you want it.
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