"goodbye" email?

Hi all.

i wanted to ask you women, whether or not you accept it these days i dunno, what should one say in an email to break off all contact with someone?
obviously id love for them to chase me but I know that isn't going to happen.
yes she is probably better off without me cos im butt ugly...blah blah but lets be serious for a minute.

what would you write, or say, to someone who you dont want to see anymore or who was wasting alot of your time with false hopes? and "move on" isn't the answer here either, for those cheap and unrealistic answerers ;)

so please - what would you say or write? That's all im asking!

thanks

Dear X - thank you so much for the wonderful time we have shared. But I've decided its best if I didn't see you anymore. I wish you all the very best in life. Please don't contact me ever again.

Sincerely,
Y

lol. thanks.

what about more than that? surely one deserves to write much more than just that? no? they gotta be told how it feels! its only fair, no?

Why say anything? Just don't talk to them anymore. Zero Contact... That will give the message loud and clear.

Are you trying to manipulate an outcome or something? Is that why you want to be smarmy?

well I normally do that but I also believe people deserve the truth and need to know. its not good just "keeping it in" as they say you know? doesnt do good.
they messed me around, they need to know but they still from time to time text once in a while or email once in a while. i just need to set it straight and slap them with a smelly fish as they deserve it. far too much crap and too many people playing games.

Write this:

Dear ________

I am sick of your carrot-dangling and game playing. It's exhausting, and I have decided it would be better for me to find someone that is a better match for me. I wish you good luck in your romantic life, and please don't call me anymore.

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Originally Posted by Tech [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

well I normally do that but I also believe people deserve the truth and need to know. its not good just "keeping it in" as they say you know? doesnt do good.
they messed me around, they need to know but they still from time to time text once in a while or email once in a while. i just need to set it straight and slap them with a smelly fish as they deserve it. far too much crap and too many people playing games.

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Vashti point is that this person deserves ABSOLUTELY NO contact from you ever... Loud and clear!!!

/agree with wakeup, don't bother with anything. The only reason you write it is that somewhere down inside you hope for a response. Forget hope, forget goodbye, just walk away.

Honestly? I think its damned cowardly to break off w/someone by email. Why not just post you hate her on Facebook?

Imagine that it takes you two minutes to write an email. You could be doing something useful with your time instead.

lol thanks for the responses.

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Originally Posted by IndiReloaded [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Dear X - thank you so much for the wonderful time we have shared. But I've decided its best if I didn't see you anymore. I wish you all the very best in life. Please don't contact me ever again.

Sincerely,
Y

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Let me add to it with this:

"I wish I had the balls to do this face to face, but I don't, so a pathetic email will have to do."

Seriously, that's a ball-less way to go about it. Additionally, why do you tell her how it feels? Why are you trying to hurt her? She do something to you and you feel the need to hurt her back?

actually this is how its done these days apperently. same with women not returning calls or playing games.... ball-less.
at least I have the decency to think about things like this and to be decent and somewhat professional about it. i actually have morals and ethics, unlike most people today.

people just need to know things and its their own fault for messing things up and they must know about it rather than crying all the time "oh why cant I..... blah blah"


but seriously that response with that attitude, its no wonder there are alot of "hurt" people around and who dont take things seriously but like to waste time and mess around.
seriously replies only please

How old are you?

old and mature enough by the seems of it here *rollseyes*

That was a serious question but you are determined to be a turd so you took it as an affront. It's getting easier to see why you got fkd around and now you're looking for some kind of revenge. You've got the preconceived attitude
of a spoiled brat or a jaded jerk.

Care to answer how old you are. Your age makes a difference in how I would respond to your further need to get back at whoever strung you along.

BTW: Keep in mind that you are the one who allowed yourself to be strung along by continuing where it was obvious that continuing was futile.

really if you are going to be abusive and judgemental then stay out of the thread. clearly you have no experiencee, respect or decency. you are probably a "player"...and what.. 21? 20?
turd

Clearly you are unstable.

yes of course. the easy option for you, isnt it? touched a nerve close to home, eh?
ive always been straight to the point with a single purpose. you on the other hand want to start a flame war - childish and irresponsible. clearly you have issues. people always want to start something and avoid the original question. you are a prime example. moron

jeez. why even bother i dunno

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Originally Posted by Tech [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

actually this is how its done these days apperently. same with women not returning calls or playing games.... ball-less.
at least I have the decency to think about things like this and to be decent and somewhat professional about it. i actually have morals and ethics, unlike most people today.

people just need to know things and its their own fault for messing things up and they must know about it rather than crying all the time "oh why cant I..... blah blah"


but seriously that response with that attitude, its no wonder there are alot of "hurt" people around and who dont take things seriously but like to waste time and mess around.
seriously replies only please

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Actually, I don't think that "this is how it's done these days", but I won't beat a dead horse.

I DO think that you disregard your own contribution to this failed relationship. You might want to explore that aspect, or you will be doomed to repeat your own behaviors.

These are still my favorite kinds of threads.

I wouldn't do it in an email. Communication is much stronger in person.

Jaime

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Originally Posted by Tech [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

yes of course. the easy option for you, isnt it? touched a nerve close to home, eh?
ive always been straight to the point with a single purpose. you on the other hand want to start a flame war - childish and irresponsible. clearly you have issues. people always want to start something and avoid the original question. you are a prime example. moron

jeez. why even bother i dunno

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Check out post 4. I gave you perfectly good advice way back there. The nerve is your own that's been touched and it's quite plain why whoever you want to send this "goodbye email' to has distanced themselves from you.

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Originally Posted by Tech [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

actually this is how its done these days apperently. same with women not returning calls or playing games.... ball-less.
at least I have the decency to think about things like this and to be decent and somewhat professional about it. i actually have morals and ethics, unlike most people today.

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Youre out of touch or either really inexperience in relationships.....this crap is the norm in the dating world....till you find the right someone :)

Idiots and lack of class happens with all ages. Doesn't matter how old the OP is, just that he lacks manners therefore, that is the type of girl he will attract until he improves. Shrug.

you do see the irony in what you are saying there?

I've been at the receiving end of this type of crap and it ain't nice or funny. It was done to me to teach me a lesson for something really silly that I did, rather than confronting me and having it out.
I now have the opinion of this person that they are lower than the scum that lives on the bottom of a pond.
If you want no more contact just do that, don't turn someone into a stalker by leading them and saying "I don't want to hear from you again" and then any email you may receive after that you could accuse her of harrassing you. Not nice.

If she is worthh it she will come to you without any silly games. If you really don't want contact, Just don't have any contact. Blank her. :)