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So I recently met this woman at a nightclub, when I approached her I knew she was older maybe 26-27, but when we we're talking she revealed she was 36.. With 4 kids 15 the oldest. Anyway we exchanged numbers (she asked for mine). She seems quite interested in me, and she is pretty. I'm sure this would be just a short term thing, me and her probably both know that. This wont be a Demi Moore, Ashton Kutcher. So should I get to know her?
If you like her why shouldn't you get to know her? If it is only a short term thing and you are both ok with that then what's the problem?
Yeah your right, it's worth it not like there's any harm to this.
Thanks for the input.
The harm would come if her kids know about it. Do NOT meet the kids, no matter what. Hopefully, she won't let you near them.
youre 25 and shes 36?
ya dirty bstd
Count again, silly.Quote:
Originally Posted by iamaninnocentma [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
36-14=22
As the forum den monther... I say No.Quote:
Originally Posted by Ckb02 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
She will screw you up and spit you out and you'll never be able to look at a women your own age the same again. Find someone your own age and leave her and her children alone. She had a kid when she was 21 and now she's looking to re-live her lost youth. Don't let her ruin yours. I think if you were ready to take on a cougar, there would be no need for this thread and you'd be balls deep by now.
yeah fair enough. I hate threads that involve math. Too many numbers in the op. thought she was 26/27, really shes 36, 14 years older, 3 kids, one is 15. Last bird i pumped, i didnt even know her name. This fanny wants her life story and hes not even seen a tit. What happenned to getting drunk and waking up in a strangers house with an alsation licking your balls in the morning. Fck, i miss my youth.Quote:
Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
How old are you?Quote:
Originally Posted by iamaninnocentma [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
If you have to ask, you aren't ready. She'll shred you, Cub. I agree with Wakeup.
Dude, I wouldn't give a woman in her mid 30's the time of day in my 20's. For god sakes, enjoy the hot, young pussy that you have access to at this point in your life. Why on earth would you waste your time on someone whose ex got sick of screwing her and has 4 brats constantly around.
... lol ... You assume he got sick of screwing her ~ humph!Quote:
Originally Posted by haxan [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
It's the way the world turns (for better or worse). Women who have kids with a man are in it for the long haul 'in general'. 'In general' it's the man who gets bored with the lack of attention (because mom's with the kids all of the time), or perhaps finds a better option (in his mind) and strays, breaking up the family. Not many women decide to leave a man on a whim and raise 4 kids on her own. Men, sometimes, will leave on a whim. Just the way it is.Quote:
Originally Posted by Wakeup [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Tiger Woods and his ex are a good, albeit high profile example. There isn't a Denny's waitress (or many women in general) on earth that look like Elin, but sure as shit, Tiger wanted to screw them. Go figure.
Anyway, to break it down for the OP. If she's good looking, I'll assume he's good looking (though that may not be the case). Therefore, I'd assume he's attracting hot 22 year olds, as well as hot 36 year olds. There is no hot 36 year old woman with a shoe full of kids who can compete on any level with a hot 22 year old with no baggage and a carefree life. She wouldn't even be on the radar.
Really?!? Gawd....women in their 30s are sooo much better in the sack its ridiculousQuote:
Originally Posted by haxan [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
On *any* level? Surely you are kidding. The only thing a 22 year old has to offer is a younger body.Quote:
Originally Posted by haxan [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
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HaHaHa!!! Sorry bro....That statement is pure inexperience...Quote:
Originally Posted by haxan [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Post of the Month
In what way, any way, would the 36 yr old woman with 4 kids compete with the same version of herself at 22, no kids, living life carefree?Quote:
Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Nothing against her, but she can't compete with a hot 22 year old. If it's his best option though, may as well exercise it. Literally :-)
Huh? Gotta explain this one. Should be good, hahaha.Quote:
Originally Posted by surfhb [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
You would need experience sleeping with women in thier 20s and 30s to understand
Your views will change once you get older though
C'mon man you can't cop out now, you made the statement. I'm waiting for my epiphany.Quote:
Originally Posted by surfhb [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Thanks for all the input.. I see people are torn on this, but I've decided I will see her.. It's really no big deal. I have a lot of experience with woman; some of you assume I don't but that's cool opinions are meant to be heard. This is just a significantly older woman than I, so I was just wondering. (Next oldest was 8yrs older.) So I've got this it was mainly the children part I was worried about, however that doesn't even phase me anymore... Once again thanks for all the input on the subject being!
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Originally Posted by haxan [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
How would I possibly explain the difference in sleeping with a 22 yr old vs. 36 year old?? Great sex takes practice, practice, practice....something most 22 year old women don't have.
What's your age? Just curious
Ah huh A 22 year old with tons of experience with women on a relationship advice forum? Good luck....you'll need it. :)Quote:
Originally Posted by Ckb02 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
lol, I'm in my 40's. I've had high school girls (when I was in high school), women in their early 20's, mid 20's, late 20's, 30's, 40's and 50. I have a pretty good sample size to draw from.Quote:
Originally Posted by surfhb [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
There's NOTHING magical that happens to a woman in her 30's sexually. 'Maybe' if she didn't have a great sex life in her youth, or was inhibited, she had a self discovery, became more comfortable with herself and as a result became more sexual and a better lover. That's about it.
What's your experience on it? A lot of the women I had sex with in their early and mid 20's were absolute sex machines. There wasn't any change as time went by, we all just got older (which isn't necessarily a bad thing). Women (of all ages) give themselves completely over to you sexually when they're smitten. It's up to 'you' if they're great in bed :-) They're more than willing participants.
It's all individualistic. The OP's happy. For me (when I was 22), there's nothing the 36 yr old with kids could've done to get my attention, too many way more attractive options.
You made a general statement that said younger women are better in the sack( or at least made a emphatic point of disagreeing with mine).....a generalization I don't believe to be true
Oh man! You're old too...I'm in my 40s as well
Yeah...it's all up to the individual. I loved older girls when I was young
Seriously bro! A 40 something year old guy whos slept with all kinds of women who says a 36 year old with kids cant compete on any level with a 22 year old? Thats a rather odd statement coming from a new age man
I didn't make a generalization like that. I just said that a good looking 36 year old with 4 kids can't compete on any level with a good looking 22 year old with no baggage. The sex is relative. A 22 year old can be just as good or better in bed than a 32 or 42 year old. It all depends on the person and their partner.Quote:
Originally Posted by surfhb [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Now, I see beauty in age. At 22, 36 was just old, especially when hot 20 somethings are at your infinite disposal. Not to mention the 4 kids. To me? What a mess just to get laid. But I don't know the OP, or his options, so it may be a good choice for him. For me @ 22, not in a million years.
Ya man, I'm old enough to have been into goth girls before the word goth was ever around. My friends used to bug me all the time about the 'vampire chicks' I was into ! lol
Older is ok, but damn, it's still old ! :-)
Yep...I totally disagree. Talk about a generalization. I guess my experience is different than yours.....women in their 30s and 40s have more income, emotional and sexual experience, street smarts, ect. Generally that is.Quote:
Originally Posted by haxan [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
In response to my generalized comment that older women in thier 30s are better sex partners....so yeah....its was kind of a blanket statement.Quote:
Originally Posted by haxan [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
The OPs issue aside....I just think its strange that a 40 year old man would say a women in thier 30s and 40s cant compete in any way with a younger 20 something woman.....but whatever.
Sure....but in general...across the board..... I dont believe younger girls are better in the sack and I explained whyQuote:
Originally Posted by haxan [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
To clarify, my statements were from a 22 year old pov (which the OP is).Quote:
Originally Posted by surfhb [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
A hot 36 yr old (divorcee I'm assuming) with more kids than the old lady who lived in a shoe, most certainly can't compete with a hot 22 year old chick when it comes to snagging a 22 yr old guy on any level. Game over. Period, the end.
Now, for a 30ish to 40 something yr old guy who maybe has a couple of kids also, she'd be a much better fit, have more to offer than a 22 yr old for sure.
OK....got it. Was a getting worried there broQuote:
Originally Posted by haxan [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
You should be careful what you are saying about tiger woods, haxan. It was never proved that he cheated on his wife with those hoes. Its because of people like you that believe everything in the media, that tiger cant get his swing back. fckn racists.
Who cares, the thanks is back!
@ Haxan - I agree, age IS, chelovek. But nothing could convince me to sleep with a 22 year old boy compared to a mature man. Maybe women are wired different. Depends if you are talking sex or relationship. Older men who date young women often find them hot, but boring (or tempermental). If they come with the intelligence of a soap bubble or they like drama, well, mbe appeals to a guy who enjoys being someone's daddy. Different strokes, etc.
even tho i thanked you for your post, i still think its mostly lies. no offence.
No offense that I'm not offended. Mbe I would sleep w/a 22 year old if I could get one interested in my old, 40-something self. LOL. I could try riding a horse through campus like lady godiva, I guess.
I love your posts. I'm thinking of thanking every one just to peeve off some of the other posters.
yeah spam thanking ftw. and you should try that horse thing.Quote:
Originally Posted by IndiReloaded [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
jason will be fuming about this new thanking system.
No offense to the OP or his lady friend, but a 36yr old woman with a houseful of kids and 22 yr old unencumbered guy getting together = her and/or him being emotionally and/or physically challenged within their peer group.Quote:
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