Maple, if that's your way of thinking, it's time to move out of high school and in to the world of being a woman. The type of man that a pussy holds power over and can be used as a tool, is the type of man that an attractive, intelligent, accomplished woman would have no interest in physically or otherwise.
A 'man' who is attractive and successful in life has absolutely zero shortage of pussy available, there's actually quite an abundance. The thing is, a man, a woman, know that having great sex together is a given. It's the last thing I would worry about when I meet someone that I find attractive and am getting to know. When we hit the bedroom, amazing sex will be a given (it's not that hard to teach or accomplish when you're really into each other).
People that have something to offer the other are looking for things like Indi stated, personal values. I want to see how someone conducts themselves, how they interact with others, their personality, ethics and morals. Those are the things that keep it moving forward, not pussy or cock.
I'm sure you could find a few women I've dated in the past, that perhaps we gave in to some great physical chemistry, had sex, and then I didn't pursue the relationship any further. They would probably tell you that they gave up their 'pussy power' as you call it, too soon. I will tell you that ya the sex was great, but there were things about their personality or behavior that turned me off of the relationship, not the fact that I made a conquest of their pussy and moved on.
Don't paint yourself into a corner with that juvenile mindset.