how do you know when you found that right person?
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how do you know when you found that right person?
I would probably say from a woman's point of view, when he can so all the nasty human things people do, in front of you and you don't mind, when he isn't home in time and you get worried, when you think that you can live without him, then realize you don't want to. When you step back and see the stupid goofy things, and think they are the greatest. When you want to be with him all the time, even if he is on the toilet. When you accept the ugliest things about him, and sometimes even like them. When you want the best for them, and feel pity for them like when they have a bad day.
Most of all, when he or she gives you holds you and gives you all of their attention, you forget everything else in the world. Like it is only the 2 of you in the whole world. After years of being together.
u never know........ that is the beauty of it......
in the country called love people are not blind,.......they choose to walk with eyes shut and let their emotions do all the work.........and they wouldnt have it any other way.
u just know that u have found her.........how and why i dont know and neither do i care to know. u just know
Hussain
...And then she dumps you.Quote:
Originally Posted by mhussain
Back to reality-ville!
haha.
The fact is, there is no such thing as true love.
This only happens in Hollywood.
sorry...
bohemian donut....i would be very glad to know what u have against me?
Hussain
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Originally Posted by mhussain
hahahahahahha
he's just calling it as he sees it, saying things no one else has the balls to say. ahhhhhhhhh.......mean, but funny......rofl
Its not mean. It is The Reality(TM).Quote:
Originally Posted by inkeepingsecret
i know i know....... Just feel bad for the guyQuote:
Originally Posted by Dibididamn
Hmmm
Love is such a tricky emotion.
I'll tell you this. If you think about her night and day, no matter where
you are. If you are sad when you are apart, and happiest when you are together. If everything you do seems to reflect something of her, and
you realize that everything you are doing is somehow for her. Then yes...you are in love.
thats a good way to describe it.Quote:
Originally Posted by Apache
True love only happens in the matrix guys, then reality is that there is no true love :stuckup:
The Matrix is everything, and it is nothing....Quote:
Originally Posted by kellie_skye
Oh but true love does exist. The question is will it last?
But if it doesn't just know that you will find it again.
After having my heart broken severely by my true love
years ago, I learned that you have more than
one soul mate walking the earth, more than one person
who you can love. Consider yourself lucky if you find one
of them. And Consider yourself blessed if you find a second.
Its not that the first wasn't true, it just wasn't meant to last.
But I am truly in love now...
Matrix? god I hope your not talking about that stupid movie. The producers of that movie are faggots who can not create their own original story...stealing Descartes theory is low.Quote:
Originally Posted by kellie_skye
It's funny... people post around on the forums that there is "The one" for everyone, after it doesn't work out they come out with more bullshit that there is more than 1 in this world for you. Wouldn't it be easier just to say it doesn't exist?Quote:
Originally Posted by Apache
Who said the producers ripped it from Descartes theory? I'm pretty sure the movies were depicted from the comics...Quote:
Originally Posted by Only-virgins
Life is an illusion...and full of them too. Its much easier to go throughQuote:
Originally Posted by Kiechi
life accepting this rather than the hard reality you propose. Think about it.
Peace
Weak-minded fools Muahahahahahahaha! :goofy:Quote:
Originally Posted by Apache
Stop with that matrix bullshit, this is reality whether there are humans here to percieve it or not.
As pessimistic as it sounds, I do not believe in true love. And I don't believe that you can love just one person forever. It's all illusion, I don't think that is actually possible to stay with one for all your life.
Well...its possible...but does it happen and how often is another thing. My parents were together since childhood and still are. They are in their 50's. They were each others first lovers and last(so far). Everyones situation is different.Quote:
Originally Posted by Chii 288
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Originally Posted by Chii 288
Eat it.
I'm a romantic so I believe in the notion of one love, true love.
I just don't believe that one should seek it because it it was meant to be, then it will be. If you seek it, you might just end up going from person to person with a lot of disappointment or end up being devoted to someone you think is "the one" when he/she really isn't.
Thank you.Quote:
Originally Posted by Frasbee
Would it hurt that much without the last sentence?
Only-virgins, I guess I need to experience it myself to believe it thoroughly, I'm very sceptic when it comes to love. You never know, they say.
When you find true love, you won't have to ask...you'll know. And it does exist...don't pay attention to the morons on here...they're the ones that you want to stay away from.
Yep. If it is love, then you will know.
But what differentiates love from obsession
what differentiates it from a crush
what differentiates it from being a sort of addiction?
How do you tell the difference when they sometimes almost feel like they all could just be.. love...
Each of these is not true love, but true love is all of theseQuote:
Originally Posted by artyemi
Morons? If it does exist, simply... prove it.Quote:
Originally Posted by Backinthesaddle
Because they are. Love leads to obsession...I see nothing wrong with it. How can you love someone and not be obsessed about them? makes no sense to me.Quote:
Originally Posted by artyemi
A great example of a moron...open your eyes and look around you (that is if you can crawl out of your little world)...there are people finding true love everywhere. Look at the little old couples still holding hands, the young couples getting married and raising families...yes, the divorce rate is +-50%, but that means the remaining percentage are staying married.Quote:
Originally Posted by Kiechi
If it doesn't exist, simply...prove it.
There is only one way to prove it...that is to live it. And its a shame that you've never felt it. If you did, you'd be a moron too. Or is it that you are too scared to feel it?Quote:
Originally Posted by Kiechi
Whether or not true love exists depends on your definition of it. It sounds like most here have contradicting definitions - or decide it does/does not exist and then try to define it rather than the reverse.
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Originally Posted by KirstyM
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Originally Posted by raven
Love is:
- A deep desire to know the person you're with and to make them happy.
- Wanting to be there for there for everything.
- A friendship that can overcome all obstacles.
- Craving your partners trust and respect and being willing to earn it no matter what.
- Allowing yourself to be completely vulnerable.
- Wanting to share all your experiences, the good, the bad, and the ugly, with that person.
- A desire to nurture the love you share and make it grow.
- Not superficial. You curl up with that person when they're sick and risk getting sick because they need comfort and attention. You're able to love that person when they gain ten pounds or their face breaks out like crazy. A willingness to be with that person in public despite their physical flaws. Not caring about how much that person spends on you. I could go on.
- When you are able to accept your partner and their personality flaws.
- When you're able to pick your battles and shrug off the trivial stuff.
- When you're want to make compromises for that person in order to make things work.
- When you have faith in their abilities.
- When you want to listen and understand. When you're able to listen without defending yourself and acknowledge the mistakes you've made. When you realize that owning your actions will gain that persons love and respect.
- When you want to know their secrets and dreams.
- When you want them to be able to confide in you. When you are able to not pass judgment based on their past.
- When you don't make that person pay for the mistakes and pain others have caused you.
- A desire to celebrate your partner's successes with them.
- A want to be there for your partner when they need to escape from the world.
- Wanting to know what that person loves to do and a desire to share common interests.
- A desire to be worthy of your partner's love, care, compassion and respect.
Falling in love is easy. It's keeping it and helping it to grow that matters. Two people can never make a relationship work if they allow their love to become stagnant and don't realize the need for growth. When love becomes stagnant between two people they start to take one another for granted. Love thus diminishes. We all want love - when you find it hold on to it and nurture it like a garden. The more you put into it the more you'll get out of it - the fruits you get from it will be so much sweeter. It's cyclical.
I was going through that list and was like "check" "check" "check" "check" then I come onto "When you are able to not pass judgment based on their past." and I am like "Fawk". Past = person. Keep in mind that this might be a good list called "love" for you but my list is different and I am sure that everyones elses list may differ as well.Quote:
Originally Posted by CoconutLover21
virgin, shut up already.
that was a good list. i'd like to add some...
knowing that person will be there when bad things happen in our life.
help another person through their bad stuff.
not putting conditions on the regard for each other.
that is an great list!
I think that was a good list, I agree with misombra's additions too.Quote:
Originally Posted by Only-virgins
What do you mean when you say past equals person? Yes it is your past which has made you but you shouldnt judge people on their past. As long as they have learnt from their mistakes and dont repeat them, that's what matters.
I like the list accept I would just edit and change some things. Alot of the things are good though. Think about what you just said though..you said not to judge someone by their past but..the past is who they are...so ...uhhh...yea...think about that.Quote:
Originally Posted by KirstyM
No, You shut up. I only posted a couple times on this thread.Quote:
Originally Posted by misombra
yes but both posts involved senseless bitching.