Would you guys consider kissing another girl/guy while being in a serious relationship cheating?
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Would you guys consider kissing another girl/guy while being in a serious relationship cheating?
i just seen you pop up on aim... and without even saying a simple hello. i'm gonna boycott this thread.
raverboy
It's cheating, but it's potentially forgivable.
Hey Illusional, I have to unblock my firewall - couldn't open that damn pop-up :( Don't boycott me!
hahaha.. i'll wait until you unblock your firewall. =)~
raverboy
what about sex?Quote:
Originally Posted by bluesummer
Hell no, that's completely unforgivable. Now that's REALLY cheating on someone and it's unacceptable. If somebody did that to me, regardless of the circumstances, I would kick their slutty ass to the curb. No questions asked. If she kissed somebody else, I would probably break up with her because that's unacceptable behaviour while in a relationship. Hell, I wouldn't tolerate cheating of any kind, sex involved or not. Cheating is cheating if it romantically involves someone other than me.Quote:
what about sex?
And once a cheater, always a cheater.
Too few people never learn that.
Absolutely unforgivable. He cheats, he better be on another continent before I find out.Quote:
Originally Posted by MaRTiaL RaGe
I've never known for sure that a guy was cheating on me, but I'd hate to see what would happen if I ever found something out like that! What are you supposed to do?
Anyone ever get revenge on a cheater and want to share the funny story with us?
If there were more women with your sense of self security and confidence in the world, i'd be a much happier place considerring that they wouldn't tolerate men who disrespect them in the least bit.Quote:
Originally Posted by bluesummer
Are you some male feminist?Quote:
Originally Posted by MaRTiaL RaGe
No, i was just raised right.Quote:
Originally Posted by Frasbee
Damn, you guys think it's cheating then...wow, you guys are pretty rough.
Your scary :horror:Quote:
Originally Posted by bluesummer
On topic:
Yes, I do classify it as cheating. However, in comparison to worse scenarios such as sex, I would deem it as forgivable.
I'm assuming you mean a full-on mouth kiss, then yes, its cheating. I have male friends who hug/kiss my cheeks when we greet or say goodbye. This is totally harmless. Unless you guys would argue otherwise. It's all about intent, IMO. And yes, sex is cheating, duh.
killer.. i guess that you're a cheater huh??
raverboy
Yea, a cheek kiss isn't a big deal.
Duh, that's stupid. Nobody considers a cheek kiss cheating. Forget about a cheek kiss. I'm talking about French kissing for like a minute.
::Fails to see how this is scary::Quote:
Originally Posted by Kiechi
Hm, I guess some guys just find self-security in a woman intimidating. ::shrugs::
Er... scary was in italics...Quote:
Originally Posted by bluesummer
Serious relationship... hell no! If I walked in and saw my girl making out with another guy...it would crush me. It's cheating, no if's about it. That being said, unlike sex, a kiss can be worked over...but still nothing easy.Quote:
Originally Posted by Killerbabe
nah i actually find it attractive.Quote:
Originally Posted by bluesummer
I like scary it kinda turns me on. I think that a kiss is cheating because if you are in a real good relationship you would not need a reason to kiss another guy or girl because the person you are dating is the one you are supposed to be in love with not the other person so kiss the one you love not the other one and if my girlfriend kissed another guy I would kiss his ass and I would forgive her because I love her but I know she would never cheat on me.
it is definatley cheating but i guess depending on the situation shit happens i guess at that point it would be up to the other person top take it or leave it. I would be very upset
any kind of physical intimacy with a person not ur bf/gf is cheating .... there are no excuses for it .. ho wu feel about it may differ but it is cheating ,....
Hussain
If you love who you are with or even just starting to date then this shouldn't even be a question unless they were the one kissing but it seems to me that you were the one that kissed someone else and he got mad. But yes kissing someone else while in a relationship is cheating for sure.Quote:
Originally Posted by Killerbabe
its cheating for definate, anything like evn holding hands with another guy unless they are gay is not fair.
me and my gf were in a nightclub, and i saw another guy and her kissing, dunno why, dunno who, she was drunk, and said he took advantage.. i dont know what to believe.
but well its over and done with, were still together, i forgived her, i guess it means i get a chance if i do something silly..
if i wasnt so mad at the time, i would of gone and found some random bird near her and stuck my tongue down her neck, start rubbing her inner thigh.. see how long it took for my woman to flip
but well im not like that anyway ..
its cheating .. LOL
I'm not so convinced of that anymore...I used to think that. But my perspective has changed now that I'm a bit more "experienced"...Quote:
Originally Posted by mhussain
Have I ever cheated on someone? No, have I been with someone who was cheating? Yup...(ok bad, me, but I knew they were on the verge of the break up anyway and it ended a few days later...)
There is emotional cheating and physical cheating...both bad, both a breach of trust. Is a kiss worth getting in a huff? Nah, its not desirable (necessarily) - but there is a difference between a kiss and sex/alterior emotional attachement...etc.
a kiss is nothing... this coming from a slut of course... but to me a little kiss is nothing... making out.. like french kissing is something... but just a little kiss?.. nada... I kiss my friends goodbye on the lips... we all do it... most of us have someone we're involved with and we still do it and nobody thinks anything of it.
I for once agree with you on something.Quote:
Originally Posted by AmIASleaze
ass/hole... i hate you
Stop referring to yourself like that Jeanie.
why not? everyone else does....
No, actually just the internet tough guy who follows you around in every post you make. Block him or ignore him, but learn to start having some self-respect. If you don't want to be like that, don't be.
It is cheating all the way. Your lips should always land on the person you are committed to and if they can not then you are guilty of cheating.
I'd say that's a little harsh an interpretation. But it's yours so I can't argue with it.
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Originally Posted by whaywardj
I mean an all out french make out kiss for me would be cheating. I only kiss my husband that way and vice versa. ;)
Erm.... I think if ur bf/gf is there and they mite not mind you goin wiv sum1 else, as my bf lets me go wiv my mates! (the girl ones!)
WAY cheating.. you may aswell go have sex with them.
Unless it's a kiss on the cheek to a friend - excused.
I think that anyone who performs an intimate act to another person while they are in a serious relationship is cheating "Unless the person in the relationship is aware ahead of time that it "Could" happen, whether it is kissing up to sex. Also your right, the friendly kiss on the cheek is nothing. But the kiss of passion is a problem. It is pretty black and white if you ask me. I myself am not fond of a relationship where the person tries to justify what is cheating and what isn't. It is pretty simple. A relationship is where two people show each other unconditional love and devotion to one another, not some chick that looks hot because you have your beer goggles on.
I also feel that if someone thinks that it isn't cheating. Then there shouldn't be a problem having the bualls to do it right in front of the person you are in a relationship with. And when you try it, be sure you have head gear and a J-Strap on.