My ex!!!

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15-12-12, 01:01 AM
frenchy

My ex!!!

My Ex..keep calling me and ask me what i do all the time...then he goes from his house to my house at like 3 am to see if i am at my place and then he goes to the place of the guy i see...and then he ask me questions the next am (where did you sleep last night) I said i was at my place...it is not his business really where i spend the night...the he turn around and call me a liar and dishonest because he said he pass by my place and my truck was not there but was at the guy I see...

What should i said to that...inside me i am not really lying to him i am not with him..its defenetly not his business.. but now i feel guilty that i said something wrong...who is in the wrong here me because i did not tell him where i was ....????
15-12-12, 01:15 AM
Wakeup

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Originally Posted by frenchy [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

My Ex..keep calling me and ask me what i do all the time...then he goes from his house to my house at like 3 am to see if i am at my place and then he goes to the place of the guy i see...and then he ask me questions the next am (where did you sleep last night) I said i was at my place...it is not his business really where i spend the night...the he turn around and call me a liar and dishonest because he said he pass by my place and my truck was not there but was at the guy I see...

What should i said to that...inside me i am not really lying to him i am not with him..its defenetly not his business.. but now i feel guilty that i said something wrong...who is in the wrong here me because i did not tell him where i was ....????

frenchy: Just stop talking to this man altogether. Period!
15-12-12, 01:27 AM
frenchy

You talking about my ex....????
15-12-12, 01:30 AM
Fruitsss

maybe he see and know that u r kind of a softy. and that he can do that kind of stuff with u withut u having any backbone.like its sick what he do, and why do u even answer his calls talk to him and tell him where u was or not.
u r feeding his sick behavior. stop being nice i mean stupiddddddddddddddddddddddd

its over so u have notting to do wth him and his calls
15-12-12, 01:36 AM
VincenzoG91

Frenchy, you are being stalked. Get a restraining order or buy a gun, and don't talk to the ex anymore. Your ex is at the very least acting both stupid and a little bit crazy. The situation might escalate, so you need to take action.
15-12-12, 01:37 AM
frenchy

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Originally Posted by Fruitsss [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

maybe he see and know that u r kind of a softy. and that he can do that kind of stuff with u withut u having any backbone.like its sick what he do, and why do u even answer his calls talk to him and tell him where u was or not.
u r feeding his sick behavior. stop being nice i mean stupiddddddddddddddddddddddd

its over so u have notting to do wth him and his calls

Yes i really think that he know how to manipulate me...he alway has...even that i am not with him he still does...i got pity for him this is why i answer when he called me...but I know I am been stupid by answering his call because he's very weird...he will be nice and then he will turn on my and told me that because he can't stand that I lied to him....he said now if case that in a year from you come knocking at my door because you want to get back with me i will never trust you because you lied about been there with someone else..he said its not the fact that you with an other men..because we not together its the fact that you lied about it..l..when you get caught...(I don't get it why he goes that...he just makes me so mad)

He even went to say outside this guy window one night to see what we were doing...
15-12-12, 01:41 AM
frenchy

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Originally Posted by VincenzoG91 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Frenchy, you are being stalked. Get a restraining order or buy a gun, and don't talk to the ex anymore. Your ex is at the very least acting both stupid and a little bit crazy. The situation might escalate, so you need to take action.

Two weeks ago he sad by this guy bedroom window for hours i think watching ...because my son told me he left at like 4 am and when i woke up to leave the place he was outside i saw him pass with his truck and the walking toward the guy house...

We can't buy gun here in Canada....

I just don't get it why he need to know where i am and why he need me to tell him that yes i was with this guy that night...
15-12-12, 01:44 AM
Wakeup

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Originally Posted by frenchy [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

You talking about my ex....????

Yes... who tf else would I be talking about? DO NOT TALK TO HIM ANYMORE. He's your ex and you owe him no explanation whatsoever. Everytime you talk to him you encourage him to say something else to you. Stop encouraging him and do not respond to any form of contact he gives to you. zero.

Save every text, every email, every voice mail and put your phone on record if he comes to you in person so that you have proof that he's harassing you. I suspect he'll stop soon enough if you stop enabling him to do what he's been doing. He's not even your "ex" per se because all you two were was FB's so stop this cycle and quit talking to him altogether.
15-12-12, 01:53 AM
VincenzoG91

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Originally Posted by frenchy [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

We can't buy gun here in Canada....

Sure you can. You just need a permit. I would have recommended pepper spray or a taser, but those are restricted in Canada.
15-12-12, 01:57 AM
Fruitsss

he is a psychopath. break any communication with him; if u keep talking like u r so nice and he so sad so u have to talk to him police will not take u serious when it get worse, he is sick minded. run or shut up and take it
15-12-12, 01:58 AM
Fruitsss

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Originally Posted by VincenzoG91 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Sure you can. You just need a permit. I would have recommended pepper spray or a taser, but those are restricted in Canada.

thats not right. thanx to guns america is how it is today fools killing others any time thet want to and then shut themselfs
15-12-12, 02:03 AM
VincenzoG91

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Originally Posted by Fruitsss [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

thats not right. thanx to guns america is how it is today fools killing others any time thet want to and then shut themselfs

I'm not a big fan of guns, not even close. I'm very much in favor of gun control. But this ex sounds like a potentially dangerous creep, and his behavior might improve after seeing a gun pointed in his face.
15-12-12, 02:34 AM
BlueberryCookie

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Originally Posted by frenchy [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

My Ex..keep calling me and ask me what i do all the time...then he goes from his house to my house at like 3 am to see if i am at my place and then he goes to the place of the guy i see...and then he ask me questions the next am (where did you sleep last night) I said i was at my place...it is not his business really where i spend the night...the he turn around and call me a liar and dishonest because he said he pass by my place and my truck was not there but was at the guy I see...

What should i said to that...inside me i am not really lying to him i am not with him..its defenetly not his business.. but now i feel guilty that i said something wrong...who is in the wrong here me because i did not tell him where i was ....????

I think since you broke up already, it is none of your ex's business. He should respect your space and privacy. Have you made it clear to him that both of you have broken up?
15-12-12, 03:16 AM
frenchy

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Originally Posted by Wakeup [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Yes... who tf else would I be talking about? DO NOT TALK TO HIM ANYMORE. He's your ex and you owe him no explanation whatsoever. Everytime you talk to him you encourage him to say something else to you. Stop encouraging him and do not respond to any form of contact he gives to you. zero.

Save every text, every email, every voice mail and put your phone on record if he comes to you in person so that you have proof that he's harassing you. I suspect he'll stop soon enough if you stop enabling him to do what he's been doing. He's not even your "ex" per se because all you two were was FB's so stop this cycle and quit talking to him altogether.

I told him I will change my number cause he keep putting me down...and telling me that I am just good for one thing only...he has no clue what i want right now in life...after been with him for 24 years i don't want to be in a relationship anymore...not for a while...so its not his business who i see or who i go to bed with as long as the 2 peoples that are involve know what they involve with....Its just not his business...

What i don't understand is that...he call me a slut...because I sleep with that guy and we are fb...but for some reason I find really annoying that everytime a girl sleep with some guy they are slut...but when a men does its ok...well not all men think like that don't get me wrong...but he's one of them thats for sure...

The guy that is spying on me is my ex the one I was with for 24 years!!! Not the FB guy... The 24 yrs (is the one) who spy on me and the FB guy!!!!
15-12-12, 03:21 AM
frenchy

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Originally Posted by BlueberryCookie [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I think since you broke up already, it is none of your ex's business. He should respect your space and privacy. Have you made it clear to him that both of you have broken up?

Yes i did I made it very clair...that I had no more feeling for him, that I did not want to be in a relationship with him at all....but he keep asking me all those questions like (who do you like more me or the other guy, what does he have more then me, are you moving in with him, is he better then me, who are you more comfortable with me or him.....) I told him I won't answers his questions...they make no sence..first i said..i left you so why do you ask me who i rather be with you or him...that a crazy questions.... I get so stress out that sometime i get those kind of feeling in my troath that someone is choking me or my jaw is so tight.....
15-12-12, 03:22 AM
frenchy

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Originally Posted by VincenzoG91 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Sure you can. You just need a permit. I would have recommended pepper spray or a taser, but those are restricted in Canada.

Ya ..maybe a restraining order would be the best but sometime even if they don't listen they don't do much about it...
15-12-12, 06:23 AM
Wakeup

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Originally Posted by frenchy [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

The guy that is spying on me is my ex the one I was with for 24 years!!! Not the FB guy... The 24 yrs (is the one) who spy on me and the FB guy!!!!

Sorry, I thought you were talking about your FB because I thought you had stopped sleeping with the FB already (which you should because he treats you poorly as well).

Same advice applies though, frenchy. Stop talking to your ex and keep a record of all his attempts at contact. If he's threatened you at all then go to the police and ask them for advice.
15-12-12, 11:55 AM
Fruitsss

Nooo noooo.or u r a troll or u like sick minded pple.cause I dont see any sign that u dont like what your ex is doing or a action of. Someone that dont like it. Or did any move of someone that dont like that.cause all u worry about is bullshit. That he told u. Someone that real dont like whats going on would worry about tips to not even hear about him.or answer the phone to tell him that they will change their numbernthey just do it to stop the bs.so I think u have very low self esteem for keep picking the phone to hear insults. And u kind of like the sick attention. So please stop wastingour time here for real.
11-01-13, 03:06 AM
frenchy

FRUITSSS....could you be a bit more rude the way you talk.....I am not a troll or neither like sick minded people....and I am not just worry about bullshit its maybe bullshit to you because you don't experience that you not in it...so....you have no clue how I feel...and its not bullshit what I am worry about its stuff that I feel so If I can't express how I feel here because you don't like what you read then..I am very sorry you feel that way...

I change my number already and he find it ....from someone else..what do you expect we had a kid together so ....and I no you are wrong there i don't like what he does..and I did call the cops their answer was he is not doing nothing wrong......

Maybe I am wasting your time it does not mean that I waste other people time ..that your choice..

BTW..thanks for the nice WELCOMING to this forum...I really appreciate that...!!!
11-01-13, 03:10 AM
Love'sReject

Don't mind Fruitts (no one really does, nor understand what the hell she's talking about 90% of the time).
11-01-13, 03:17 AM
frenchy

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Originally Posted by Love'sReject [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Don't mind Fruitts (no one really does, nor understand what the hell she's talking about 90% of the time).

ok thank Love's I appreciate that....
11-01-13, 03:26 AM
smackie9

Stalking in Canada is a crime. Here is a link for more info. copy paste. http://www.rcmp-grc.gc.ca/cp-pc/crimhar-eng.htm
11-01-13, 03:43 AM
frenchy

Thanks Smackie....because when I call they told me that there is nothing they can do about it unless he made a threat to you ....I will check your link...he also has stop now...the last time he did was a while ago..and I really freak out on him..but also I am not seeing that FWB guy so I am starting to think that why he keep following me to see if I was going there and I have not being to his mom either....

He's goes an other one in bed with him now...so....that 24 yrs old who told me that he was like her brother to her...she would never go with him and a few days after she in bed with him...I really think they deserve each other...she think she an ass****, he not good and he's a looser...well that what she told me so I back off of him....and he suposely think she is the B of the family and he does not like younger female because he said they play games and he like petite women...she all the opposite of that ...24, play games and pretty round...so...I think they deserve each other...i know for a fact it won,t last it will for a few month..and when he will be tired of her he will go for something else...I just hope the god that he does not contact me...I am waiting for him..he won't like it...trust me!!! Now all I got is anger about all of this that he took me for a good ride...
13-01-13, 12:37 AM
smackie9

Well frenchy, I hope for next time, if you run into a guy with this type of behavior like you ex, you will dump him at the first sign. Never hope they will change, they will not. They are the type that look for women like you so they can control you, with manipulation and abuse.