Ladies and gentleman of the forum, how old are you and how many people have you slept with?
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Ladies and gentleman of the forum, how old are you and how many people have you slept with?
I am a guy who proudly owns an astonishing sex history of.....0. Yup, at 23 it is amazing how much college sex I'm NOT having. Back in high school, I was one real zeta male. Yup...Girls, numbers, sex stories..I had NONE of which to speak about.
23, 2 guys
46. somewhere between 15-20
Ya I'm 49.....It was such a long time ago I can't be too sure. I have been with my guy since I was 26 so it would be between the age of 15 to 25. I think basilandthyme and I are about the same.....15 to 20 ish.
25 - I've been with 11 guys.
OK, I'm the only guy who's answered...Girls can have sex whenever they want. Man, they got it easy.
I'm not a man-whore but I have slept with 12 women.
35, just 1
of course they do. But on the other hand there is a difference between sex and relationship. They definetely cannot have relationship with whoever they like, despite sex. And if they have too many partners you know what they say... Despite men ( men with many pertners are considered for playboys).Quote:
Originally Posted by YoungCosmo [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
As for me: 25 - 3
also never trust woman when they talk about their partnes because: "If I was drunk and dont remeber exactly what happend, nothing happend. If I slept with more than one guy at the same time (same night or multiple relatoship - count as 1. if he is cheating and I do it only for revenge dont count that. Bad sex - no sex... etc.... Sounds funny but this is how it really works. Every psychologist tells you that. Reason is women are able to incredebly believe their own lies. They think slightly different than us, men.
And now watch as they are gonna react. You will see what I mean.
I'm 31 and somewhere in the neighborhood of 25...I would need to make a list. But, almost all of them I did many times ;). Never, been into the one night stand thing and if I was my number would probably be closer to 35-40.
It has nothing to do with sex.... it's a psychological disorder called Delusional Disorder or referred as DD. People in general can, most certainly, believe their own lies. This disorder does presents in otherwise healthy people, and some of the signs of this disorder are believing in logical fantasies or lies (Things that COULD actually happen), constructing lies that have a profound influence on their lives (extreme or life altering scenarios or issues), and becoming overly emotionally invested in the lie (they react more strongly than a person who has actually experienced the same scenario, and they will become overly emotional or secretive if they are questioned).
i wouldnt consider him a playboy-whatever that is. huge turn off for me.Quote:
Originally Posted by Sportsman [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
as for the other thing you said- that could be a man or woman-its not a gender issue-its a personality disorder and not all eomen make those bs excuses
That is to be respected and admired!Quote:
Originally Posted by VerticalMoon [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
That's missin out.Quote:
Originally Posted by toknow [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
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Originally Posted by smackie9 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Wow...what in hell is going on here?
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Originally Posted by smackie9 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
no, it calls women. But on the other hand us men we are not that better. Ask any ordinary man what does he think of his attractivenes towards other women in his social circle, I.E. how many women does he thinks would like to sleep with him. If those women knew his answer, most of them would laught. When it comes to sexual and relatonship matter, we rarely want to know the truth ( See Mechaelle23 - "I dont like playboys - itīs either liar or E.T. allien ). Or my thread where I mentioned "As women get older they are naturaly losing their attractivenes" - itīs like telling special low self-esteem kids that they are not that "special", just disabled.
Well how does it feel, ninnies, telling the "opinion nobody is interested in". You know, despite you I DO have not only experience but also know a thing or two about human behavior, since it is in my job description. Be so kind and stop telling people your point of view, expecially when you are not asked for and more expecially, when you know sh*t about relationships. If you really knew something, you would not give it away on anonymous relationship forum where no one can actually see your fat but* or ugly face or wierd personlity what is exact thing why you are all lonely and have nothing to do. (Perhabs the only exception is that Ann who really do seem to know a thing or two and that is exact reason why she doesnīt write novels about self developement).
C ya all!
My picture is posted on my profile dear. I have nothing to hide.
Some retard needed to pick on people needlessly to boost his self esteem, and make himself believe he's an intellectual.....it seems he has convinced himself he is lol.Quote:
Originally Posted by YoungCosmo [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Sex with someone you're not in love with means nothing. So, it's not missing out on anything. Once you've had one, unless you're in love with the person, everyone of them are pretty much the same, with slight variations. And the more people you've had, the more similar they become. Doesn't matter the green color variation, the grass is still green. The only truly beautiful body is that of your true love, why would you want anything else.Quote:
Originally Posted by smackie9 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
That's BS. Sex is always awesome...I imagine. Sex if it means nothing can still get pretty hot. Being able to have sex indicates being a person of value, too.
Well, there are physical advantages to having sex (with or without love). There was a thread about this a while back. Almost all humans are capable of sex. It is not an act reserved only for those who are in love, partnered, coupled, married, whatever.
Nah, not always.Quote:
Originally Posted by YoungCosmo [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
True.Quote:
Sex if it means nothing can still get pretty hot.
...failing to think of an instance in which the greatest pleasure in the world isn't awesome. Nope, it's always awesome.
That's because you've never had bad sex (or sex at all)... you'll know when it happens. But yeah, in general, it's pretty awesome :-).Quote:
Originally Posted by YoungCosmo [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Lol, bad sex is still good. After all..it's SEX! One can always be positive after having sex.
I can think of at least a couple of times I had bad sex and wish it never happened.Quote:
Originally Posted by YoungCosmo [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Maybe you attractive people who can get sex take it for granted..
That's a load. I've had incredible sexual experiences with strangers and guys I wasn't in love with, and I have had crappy sex with guys I was in love with....so your theory is out the window. It might have been your experience, but it hasn't been mine, and I probably speak for the majority of sexually experienced on here that sex is not just an experience....but it's also something that takes skill to make it good.Quote:
Originally Posted by toknow [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
28 and like LR....0 :( I totally feel you bro, it sucks being in this position. Life is so unfair to fukk some of us over in the gene pool like this...so unfair :(
Just kidding. I'm in the double digits somewhere, I think close to 20.
...not cool, bro. :(
Alright, I'll edit...didn't mean to offend. It was meant to be in good fun.
Rofl, I was just messing. I actually guffawed at it.
Well....in that case I guess it can go right back up then :lol:
So nobody ever answered when I asked what sex smells like...Any answer for that?
I'm 19 and I have only slept with 1 person
Don't tell me what I like and what I don't like. I don't care about your theories or what you read in a book. I have my own mind and when I say I don't like something-I mean I don't like it!Quote:
Originally Posted by Sportsman [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
We could say the exact same thing to you.Quote:
Originally Posted by Sportsman [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
lol if you met me in person-you wouldnt be saying that sweetie. Must be a sad lonely life for you since you feel the need to put others down with all your bs theories. Have fun with that btw coz nobody caresQuote:
Originally Posted by Sportsman [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
And if you really had all this "experience" and knew so much about human behavior-you would know that stereotypes are a load of crap and you cant put the whole human race into one or two categories as we are ALL different
I am 23 years old and I've only slept with 2 guys, and I was in love with both of them.
I was your age, almost 24, my first time. I'm not sure what advice I'd give. I'd had a few relationships, but brief and far between, and no confidence in myself (something I still struggle with.) At least one of those (she was older, I was 18, she was 21) She kept talking about her religiously conservative upbringing and how she wouldn't do anything until marriage but then wanted to get in bed and kiss and cuddle, and to this day I think she wanted me to make a move, but I was afraid to offend her. She ended up leaving me for a 28 year old (that he had a graduate degree and good job didn't hurt his prospects) and they've been married now for almost 28 years.Quote:
Originally Posted by YoungCosmo [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
So at 23 I finally decided I was almost finished with college and wanted to have a relationship and sex, so I made a conscious effort to find those. I started going out with my friends to clubs, and talking to girls. Met one, got a phone number. We started seeing each other. Led to a lot of making out, oral sex, pretty much everything but actual intercourse (though one time maybe brief penetration, we were pretty drunk)... and wasn't going anywhere long term. Then a friend set me up on a blind date with his girlfriend's friend and that date ended up sleeping with me and that was it.. Alcohol helped fuel my confidence and sense of humor and lower her resolve (and make her think my jokes were funny) and we got a room and spent the night and started hooking up regularly. We ended up living together and married almost 20 years, with 2 kids.
I'm not saying my way was anything close to ideal. On the other hand, while my number of partners is not much (3 since my divorce), my sex life since then has been pretty good. My partners have enjoyed it (unless they're mad at me, then to every woman you're the worst lover ever LOL) greatly (usually!), I keep fit and pretty healthy. I've done pretty much every 'normal' thing and position and been pretty adventurous (still no mile high club, but some other pretty wild places.) Starting later than most of your friends, or waiting for the "one" and making a go of spending your life with that one person isn't a bad thing (the latter didn't work out for me, but there's nothing wrong with it.)
YC, you seem like a guy who is willing to take anything with two legs and a vagina, maybe an ass would do the work too. LOLQuote:
Originally Posted by YoungCosmo [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I've faked it more than many times to end bad sex and can state not all SEX is good, LOL TRUST Me.