I think I was just an asshole

been with my gf for about 5 months. before me she was with a guy for over a year...they broke up though after he walked out on her...

i sa whim the other day at my work and i told her..she was like what was he there for and i told her

i said "i wanted to walk up to him ans shake his hand and say "you are an asshole for what you did to her, but thank you"

does that sound mean? i meant it as like....your an *** for hurting her but you hurting her gave me the chance to be with her..ya know?

like hey thanks for being an asshole, cuz now shes with a great guy in me

I wonder if you should even have mentioned it at all. Opening up (hopefully) closed wounds..

Agree with YC. Was probably best not mentioned at all. As far as what you wanted to say to him, I think it makes you sound really childish. Kind of like "Nya Nya, I got the girl"

basil has a very good point: just keep that thought internal. The guy might pound you to the ground for your bragging. Guys who are real douchebags will still act possessive of girls who are not theirs.

yea i regret saying it now. she didnt seem upset ot anything, but i still shouldnt have said it.

and like, the reaosn i thought of that what t say, is because it really pisses me off what he did to her

Mark, before you get too worried about what he did to her, don't forget that there's two sides to every story ;)

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Originally Posted by basilandthyme [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Mark, before you get too worried about what he did to her, don't forget that there's two sides to every story ;)

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he left her to go back to his ex

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Originally Posted by markmac [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

he left her to go back to his ex

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At least he broke up with her first.

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Originally Posted by YoungCosmo [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I wonder if you should even have mentioned it at all. Opening up (hopefully) closed wounds..

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Holy shit! Something intelligent out of LR's mouth. :O

I wouldn't of brought up an ex at all, but no harm
Done it sounds like so whatever :)

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Originally Posted by markmac [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

he left her to go back to his ex

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And how many warning signs did your girlfriend miss? (rhetorical question)

its in the past-leave it there. s**t happens but it happens for a reason. They obviously were not right for each other and she is with you now so enjoy what you have together and forget about exes.

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Originally Posted by michelle23 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

its in the past-leave it there. s**t happens but it happens for a reason. They obviously were not right for each other and she is with you now so enjoy what you have together and forget about exes.

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i do enjoy what we have together, and i know i shouldnt have told her, but i did for some reaosn. i just dont want her to misunderstand what i said

i dont think its that bad.

i mean it looks like you were saying "i'm glad to have you" to your girlfriend

remember before you call somebody an asshole, you only know one side of the story. Maybe he walked out on her because she was sleeping with the entire grill line at your local McDonalds. Just sayin, leave it alone unless you know both sides

i should have said this... I THOUGHT of doing it in my head..like i didnt really wanna do it..i just inamgiend it

we have tallked today so we seem fine

she prolly thought u were being funny