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Girls, do you enjoy good morning texts?
if you are dating a guy do you enjoy getting "good morning" texts from him everyday? or is it better to surprise her with them? I use to do them everyday with my girlfriend but there was a couple of times where she didnt reply so I kind of backed off them, but I think from now on i'll just do it on random days to like surprise her, like it will mena something.
i just think doing it everyday loses it's menaing
getting good morning texts would annoy the crap outta me
It depends on what is written on them. If every single morning they say something cheesy like "Good morning princess, how are you today? Missing your beautiful smile xx" then yes, annoying (because they would be forced after a while). If they say something practical like "Good morning, sleep well? I am doing this and this, you? At what time shall we meet for lunch? :-)" then it's ok.
It totally depends on the girl, though. Why don't you ASK your girlfriend if she likes morning texts, rather than guessing or asking a bunch of strangers on a forum?
I agree with the poster above.. I would find cutesy good morning messages annoying. Cute every once in awhile but definetly not every day. Me and my bf live together but when were separated for some reason we just text "hi how ru?" But I remember in the beginning, like in the honeymoon stage, I loved anything he ever texted me hehe. :)
text her good morning beautiful
cant remember the last time I got a good morning text lol. Maybe in the beginning of a relationship its okay. I prefer phonecalls after being with someone for awhile. Texting is fun at the start
Interesting. I would actually find a good morning text sweet because it would make me smile. However dnt do it everyday, because she will get used to it and not appreciate them as much. It's psychological :) give her time to miss your text and it will mean more to her then :)
I think if you feel like sending them, you should. It will wear off eventually on its own. Chances are, if you want to send it, she wants to read it. And if she doesn't, she'll text back and you'll know.
Doing it every day would not only seem forced, but if for some reason you miss some days, it would break the norm and make it seem like something's wrong. It's kind of an unnecessary thing.
Basic ones sometimes are certainly nice, though.
i been doing it like 3-4 day snow
I love them. :)
Any form of thinking about another is nice to get. I prefer a quick call more than a text tho.Quote:
Originally Posted by markitdown [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I used to text my girlfriend everyday
= high maintenance... yeah quality hey ?Quote:
Originally Posted by sadbunnyface [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Haha, how is that high maintenance to have a preference on comms? I like to hear I love you, not read it, because it means more. Not like I get that, so. I make calls instead of texts.Quote:
Originally Posted by rafterman [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Ya know, maybe its a generational thing and at 42 I am just some old as fart, but this whole need to be in constant contact with your man/woman through texting seems like a waste of time and energy. I have no problem with texting and even do it myself, but the impression I get is people are relying on texting way to much.
Well I dont have time for all that mumbo jumbo in the morning, What happened in the days with no mobiles ? As said earlier ... It the thought that counts.. <3Quote:
Originally Posted by sadbunnyface [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
This is absolutely correct... alot of relationship issues are caused by all this multi media crap.. fb, texting and so on. Its just another thing to argue about. modern technology is a double edged weapon, so to speak.Quote:
Originally Posted by Am I crazy? [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
you have 739 posts and only thanked 9 times, you are a lousy poster.you're comments/advice are irrelevant.you are clearly a very old man.Quote:
Originally Posted by rafterman [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I think for us in our early 20s, texting is just another form of communication. It's something that comes spontaneously, since we've been communicating this way with each other since we were pre-teens. It would feel strange to not receive a goodnight text from my boyfriend every night (unless we are together obviously) and whenever we don't see each other for over an hour or so, we generally keep in touch via text. It's not like we're in constant communication, it's more like a couple of texts every hour or so, just to keep in touch with each other. It would feel really strange to not have that.
I guess for older generations it's not the same thing, since for them texting is an extra form of communication.
Oh Ha ha ha ha ....... Sorry Skater boy, I'll pick up my game just for you princess. I could'nt stop laughing at this. I cant help but think your comment proved my point entirely.Quote:
Originally Posted by toyboy [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
loove texting :)
Needing texts when you don't see each other for an hour is not constant communication???Quote:
Originally Posted by searock [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I'm all for communication and texting, but egads.
And it's not that older generations view texting as an extra form of communication. We just know the value of actual interpersonal interaction.
I've seen teens sitting next to each other and texting. It's like they completely lack real social skills, and without a phone to hide behind, they are lost.
i would rather text night than morning
Constant communication is when you need to text each other every 5 minutes or so. A couple texts every hour or so isn't constant communication. Also, we can communicate very well in person as well. Texting and communicating effectively in person aren't two mutually exclusive abilities, you know. A lot of people from older generations have trouble understanding this, they view texting as a sub-form of communication that inhibits "real" interpersonal communication... when in fact it actually enhances the totality of communication.Quote:
Originally Posted by namemyname [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Yeah, I prefer texting during the night
Lol, on mumbo jumbo. I prefer landlines to cell phones any day actually. I rarely have mine turned on unless making calls, is why I had to pay extra for Vm'ing. Is the thought that counts, you are right, even if a quick call or text at any point of the day to say you were on my mind, should mean lots. Sometimes if a guy or girl calls or texts too much it will be seen as checking up on, so damned if you do, damned if you don't , imo. I'm currently in freeze out mode, so nada comin my way.Quote:
Originally Posted by rafterman [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]