while ****ing your girlfriend or boyfriend?
Me, yes. lmao
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while ****ing your girlfriend or boyfriend?
Me, yes. lmao
Not with my current boyfriend: he's the guy that turns me on the most, thinking about somebody else would make it less fun for me.
With my ex boyfriend, yes, I sometimes fantasized about my current boyfriend. I wasn't happy about it, I felt guilty because of it, but I couldn't help it.
In general, the best sex for me is when I am completely "in the moment", focused on what's happening and nothing else.
Always with everyone one of them. Actually sometimes I just one of my favorite porn scenes through my head.
Yeah I have.
Lmao.Quote:
Originally Posted by smackie9 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Ever yell out the wrong name too?
nah............
When I was with my ex-boyfriend John, yes. It wasn't really until towards the end of our relationship that I started doing it. But every other time with everyone else? Not at all.
No. No man compares to mine
Do you think by that point you were bored with him and the relationship and that was why?Quote:
Originally Posted by Rowen [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
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Originally Posted by michelle23 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
That is what most peeps would kill to hear their partner say about them.
What's the point of being with someone if you don't feel that way about them?Quote:
Originally Posted by Jffs24 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Well I think you should focus all your energy on your partner. It strengthens to bond and sex is so much better that way. Back when I was grieving the loss of a relative, I was kinda like a zombie. Sex was just a release and comforting but I didn't put much into it at the time and I did go through a phase of fantasizing about a stranger. No face, no name lol just a new mysterious man that excited me.. I noticed when I stopped doing that and put all my concentration on my bf that sex was way better, my orgasms became more intense and it was way more passionate.Quote:
Originally Posted by Jffs24 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I wish I could ask my girlfriend this question and know that I would receive an honest answer.
I have fantasized about other women while having sex with an old ****-buddy of mine who had gained a few extra pounds (I also pretty much hated her personality).
Never have I done it in a relationship though or even thought of it.
Ask her anyhow and see what she replies to ya.Quote:
Originally Posted by paze [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Obviously you think she is thinking about others when ****in' you?
Its better not to ask. I mean if she did say yes it would just make you feel like s**t. You don't need to know every little thing that goes on in your partners head. It would just promote insecurity and arguments if you both always told each other who you find attractive.
I don't think there is anything wrong with saying "shes pretty" or "shes an attractive girl" or "hes a good looking guy". However, saying he/she is HOT or that you wana f**k this or that person is pushing it wayyyy too far.
Me and my bf discuss how others look a lot. Example "she looks great for someone who has had 4 kids" or "omg she doesn't look 60, shes freaking gorgeous" or "what is he doing with that girl, she is a b**ch and treats him like dirt, hes a good looking bloke and could do better" etc Neither of us feel jealous or insecure. I know he wouldn't like it though if I said "Charlie Hunnam is f**king gorgeous in green street-sexy man!" Or if he said "that girl across the road is a ride"
I bet every man named John who read that had to stop and take a look at you username and country, just to be sure :)Quote:
Originally Posted by Rowen [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I fantasize about others at times. I don't know if my gf does or not as the subject has not come up but frankly I don't really care, she can think whatever she wants if it gets her off.
We do roleplaying sometimes, which is something pretty much every couple does if they stay together long enough, and what you're doing there is exactly that, pretending that you/your partner/both of you are someone that he/she/both of you are not and even taking it a step further by acting the part out and working it into the sex.
Yes. When you've been with someone for 36 years... George Clooney or Richard Gere has joined us in the sack lol... I'm sure hubby is in like flint with Jane Fonda as well... She's been his Boing girl since he was a teenager and the movie Barbarella came out.
If you young people ever get past the honeymoon stage I'm almost certain someone other then your current will be fatasized about now and again.
Yeah...I don't think most posters here are open minded and experienced enough to hear about the things me and my gf fantasize about and act out for each other in the bedroom but I feel ya on your examples.Quote:
Originally Posted by Wakeup [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Role playing doesnt necessarily have to mean pretending to be someone else. It could be acting out a fantasy too like "lets pretend its our first time" or that we just met -two strangers etc
whatever your comfortable with
I've done it.
Not with my current bf though, but I'm sure he has with me.
Some people need to get a boyfriend who they are actually attracted to. How sad to think of another while doing it.
How sad that your boyfriend actually does it with someone else while thinking of you.Quote:
Originally Posted by fearoflove [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Hm? I don't even have a boyfriend.Quote:
Originally Posted by Wakeup [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Then you're blowing some guy for free? lmao.
I guess the real issue would be, who are you thinking of, and why? For example, you meet someone you think is attractive, you begin to develop feelings for them even though you are in a relationship, and you fantasize about them rather than your partner. This is obviously wrong. On the other hand, you are in a healthy relationship, and you fantasize about Johnny Depp, lol. Clearly different.
Yeah, I used to have fun with those types of fantasies. Then I hit puberty :lol:Quote:
Originally Posted by michelle23 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I'm kind of lost. Who says I am blowing some guy. And its not a freaking transaction, Golddigger.Quote:
Originally Posted by Wakeup [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Yes, that's it. lets all jump on our flying unicorns and fly over a rainbow and then pretend we are virgins In fantasyland with our make believe boyfriends. lol.Quote:
Originally Posted by michelle23 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
*Link to your attention seeking other thread about blowing some guy who's three hours away is snipped* Not going to give attention to your bs.Quote:
Originally Posted by fearoflove [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Oh, and that "for free" has nothing to do with money but rather commitment.
IMO whatever goes on in one's head is nobody's business.
Don't be making assumptions. I wasn't blowing him. I was fantasizing about it. I have more self-control than that.Quote:
Originally Posted by Wakeup [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Sure.. what ever you say.Quote:
Originally Posted by fearoflove [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
tbh with you, yes. and she asked after if i ever did and i lied. :)
you are a prat. get a life and just to clarify pretend its our first time together idiot not that were virgins! Like meeting in a bar, pretending we are strangers and then having a one night stand together-stuff like that.Quote:
Originally Posted by horndog [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Good call....you don't need that drama. I hate those trap questions.Quote:
Originally Posted by Exeter19 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Yep, smackie is right, it was a trap question.
i knew better because if i admitted she would think i thought of that person every time and wouldn't be able to convince her paranoia otherwise.
Or you could have told her you only thought about her once and that most times you only thought about her (your gf).Quote:
Originally Posted by Exeter19 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Does it bother you that your girlfriend fantasizes about other guys while you two have sex? Would it bother you if she did?
Exeter19 don't answer it's a trap question lol.