How to hide sadness?

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06-08-13, 05:55 AM
academicgirl

How to hide sadness?

I am a very sad person and by showing my sadness, it's not helping my life. There is nothing that anyone can do at this point to overcome my sadness. I know I'll be happier in time, but for the time meaning, I just need to hide my feelings.

I'm good at hiding my feelings, but sometimes, there are days where I really, really show to others that I'm desperately unhappy. I cannot change the way I feel, but I can change the way I come across to others. I need to be seen as happy, even though inside, I'm not like that.

Please, I'm not looking for people who want to know what's making me sad and how to change that. Time will make me happier, but unless time speeds a hell of a lot up - I'm sad, and sad I shall be for the mean time.

Just tell me ways I can appear to be happy, when really I'm not.
06-08-13, 06:05 AM
LatinoHeat

To be honest, you should be asking for ways to become happier...
06-08-13, 06:07 AM
academicgirl

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Originally Posted by LatinoHeat [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

To be honest, you should be asking for ways to become happier...

It will come in time. For now, I just need to hide it.
06-08-13, 06:29 AM
pcmaster

If you looking for a buff then what helps me is completly change food I normaly eat, some libido boosters, good sleep that gives lots of vitality and buying something expensive for myself. Finding a positive thought in mind stick to it and many more follow. The same is with negative ones. What works faster is looking in happy persons eyes, talking, some girls have smile that heals the pain.
06-08-13, 06:50 AM
LatinoHeat

There's been times in my life where I've not been particularly happy, but the best way to get over it is to spend time with people who make you happy, and you enjoy being around. It helps you to forget what's making you sad, and it helps you to create and experience fun moments which you'd not have if you spent your time alone dwelling on your sadness.
06-08-13, 06:53 AM
academicgirl

Thank you PC and Latino

But what if that is not possible?

What if the people who make you happy also make you sad?
06-08-13, 06:56 AM
pcmaster

Have no idea what are you talking about. Can you explain?
06-08-13, 06:57 AM
LatinoHeat

You're making it fricking impossible for people to help you. If you gave people some context then we might be able to suggest stuff..

If you don't know people that make you happy then go and find some. If people are making you sad, tell them why it makes you feel that way, and try to find a way to improve the situation.
06-08-13, 07:02 AM
academicgirl

No, I just want to know how to hide my sadness. That is all.
06-08-13, 07:05 AM
Nice

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Originally Posted by academicgirl [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

No, I just want to know how to hide my sadness. That is all.

Cut your face off. That is the only way.
06-08-13, 01:59 PM
pcmaster

Wear a happy mask.
06-08-13, 02:15 PM
basilandthyme

Exercise and healthy food may help. They can give you a natural high
07-08-13, 09:16 AM
anonymous..

Go and ask your doctor for a script of Bupropion. You're clearly depressed and could use some help, nothing wrong with getting help in life so do it.
08-08-13, 10:03 AM
academicgirl

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Originally Posted by basilandthyme [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Exercise and healthy food may help. They can give you a natural high

Getting started is the hard part

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Originally Posted by anonymous.. [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Go and ask your doctor for a script of Bupropion. You're clearly depressed and could use some help, nothing wrong with getting help in life so do it.

How am I clearly depressed? Are you a doctor?
08-08-13, 11:30 AM
basilandthyme

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Originally Posted by academicgirl [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Getting started is the hard part

Well, you can either get started or continue wallowing in self pity. It's up to you
14-08-13, 08:04 PM
stadt

OP, for somebody so academic, you clearly basic life skills/intelligence.
14-08-13, 08:05 PM
stadt

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Originally Posted by basilandthyme [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Well, you can either get started or continue wallowing in self pity. It's up to you

wow you have plenty of empathy.
14-08-13, 08:45 PM
stadt

It's probably best to analyse what is making you sad. if it's something that can be fixed, then fix it.

What exactly is making you sad? You say in other threads that you feel unattractive. Well, how and why?