Kissing and suckling at the breasts

I did some research and found out some things about couples where the husband kisses and suckles at the breasts:

1. When ever a girl's breasts ache or are sensitive, everytime the guy worked on them for even 15 minutes, the girl's discomfort was alleviated.

2. If done regularly enough and with great passion, a woman's breasts will over the course of few weeks, grow in breast size, even in their mid-20's.

3. A girl will sometimes even begin producing milk, even if they aren't pregnant.

4. A girl in such a relationship has talked about looking forward to "breast sessions" with their partner.

5. All the couples who do this have talked about how their relationship went to a whole other level emotionally and physically, and in at least two unrelated stories, there was mention of the wife experience this sensation that she knows what her husband is feeling.

6. Several of the women in the stories I have read have mentioned that after the breast act, that they experienced immediately being aroused, "being wet". Being ready for sex after a passionate breast session appeared to be a common occurrence in these couples, one even mentioned being "unexpectedly welcome" to it after the act.

7. The youngest couple I read about had just turned 18 at the time of their writing and had been practicing it through out their teens.

8. Several of the woman have said that it's very, very different from breast feeding a baby, which is non-sexual and calm. While the one they do for their husbands, their breasts are sometimes sexually aroused or sensitive during the acts, and the production of milk that can occur from these acts is in response to the husbands love for her.

I ended up researching this when I was looking up if guys kiss their partners breasts and eventually found many stories about breast suckling and personal anecdotes through out the internet. I think this side of breasts is something not well known and indicates that the dual nature of breasts isn't limited to just how it looks, but in its function as well.

What do you think about kissing and suckling at the breast as an act of love?

For all you couples out there, I can only hope you find new and more passionate ways to express your affection for each other. I only bring this to you so you can know of another method to get closer to the person you love.

The breasts and nipples are very sensitive. Some men and women can orgasm this way. I get aroused when my bf plays with my nipples. I think its normal. I have heard that many women orgasm while breast feeding too. Its part of the bonding process and there is nothing sexual about it

Ah, I see, I read that woman aren't able to orgasm while breastfeeding a baby because of the way the baby bites the breast. While the way a man does will indicate to the breast that the act is sexual and be put into arousal mode.

I'll have to do more research on this, my hypothesis is that the woman who orgasms when breast feeding a baby might have just had sex with their husband minutes beforehand, thus their breasts are still in a wildly aroused state.

If this hypothesis is correct, a woman should at least abstain from sex while breastfeeding a baby or put the breast milk in a bottle if they are still wildly aroused from their husband.

I do have a theory that too much sex will put the body into "emergency" mode and might be the cause of abnormallly high libido's. The emergency mode might stem from an instinct that babies need to be made immediately due to some external factor that no longer exists in modern times.

Or did you mean that a woman orgasms while breast feeding her husband with milk because I did read of that in one anecdotal story.

And the reason I say abstain is because I have a theory that when men "can't feel" any attraction to their wife, it's not because they got tired of them, rather, its a temporary function of the male body after having had too much sex, where the body shuts its arousal down, believing that the woman might be pregnant and to protect her from harm. Guys should instead enjoy this "lack of sexual attraction" and build upon their emotional and spiritual relationship with their partner until their libido returns.

Kind of makes me sad when people break up because the "chemical" isn't there anymore when its actually taking a break to allow the partners non-sex time together and to develop other aspects of their relationship that aren't sexually based, such as friendship.

LOL I dont know where you are getting your info from.

Oxytocin is the female bonding hormone which is released upon orgasm during sex or sexual contact. It may even be released during sex without any orgasm. It helps build an emotional bond and trust to her partner.

The same hormone is released during child birth and breast feeding which helps mother and baby bond. Some women orgasm during child birth and during breast feeding.

There is nothing "wrong" with it. Its natural and all part of the process of love and bonding.

The same hormone is present in men as well as the hormone vasopressin which also promotes bonding to his partner and his children. I have heard of men becoming semi-aroused when holding their newborn and it disturbs and confused him. Again it is just part of the bonding process. The hormones get confused sometimes. It doesn't mean he is perverted.

There is nothing sexual about it. It is just something that happens sometimes. Type it into google "orgasm while breast feeding" or orgasm while giving birth" you will see hundreds of women have experienced this. Type in orgasmic birth to youtube-you will see home births are becoming extremely popular. They are trying to promote this pleasurable and calm way of giving birth to make the experience easier and less painful on new mothers. The believe that doctors and hospitals make pregnant women feel like patients and women are so tense in this medical environment that it makes childbirth far more painful than it needs to be.

Women are also encouraged to have sex or have an orgasm at home before going to the hospital to give birth as it eases the pain.

Its natural. You should be more open minded about it. It doesn't mean something is wrong

I see, I've never had sex before so I can't say anything, but at the same time, I a male of 28, have not experienced things that science has said men experience even if they are single. For example, I have never had a wet dream, even to this day. I attributed this to my brain never having seen sex or the fact that I have never been physical with a woman.

So although the incidents you say have happened, we can't say it happened because that is what is normal until all the factors possibly involved are accounted for. We don't really have a certain set of males to test against since all the specimen's have been contaminated by porn and masterbation, which mars the results by a lot and thus we can't really know if males get aroused that way

As far as I know, I'm the only guy who hasn't experienced much of what guys do, and the factors different from me to other guys is that I had avoided porn.) I think porn awakens a part of the guy that puts them into a certain mode of living that was rare in the old days, and thus you have many of the guys in this society to the point that it appears to be the norm. I do believe that it is not the "default" of men and women, but rather what happens when you over-accelerate your hormones to the point that these things appear to occur often.

This is all theory, but I am mad at science for not predicting me. For not telling me why I never had a wet dream, and for assuming that every male has it automatically without taking into account all the factors that are the main cause of a wet dream.

That is why I eye other things said by "science" suspiciously and always keep an open mind of the other possibilities which may have existed before most people became tainted with the same stimuli that put their bodies in unnatural states.(I mean, in the old days, there was no way you could have this much sex in your free time, especially when man lived in the wild. A man's brain will think he has lots of sexual partners if his brain is seeing thousands of woman from porn, it will not be able to tell the difference, and begins to over-accelerate a man's libido.)

And I am actually an advocate of natural births, especially water births. I do believe giving birth in water is the intended way of giving birth for a woman. A species that does something similar is the Manta Ray, which jumps out of the water to give live birth to its young in mid-air. I read the reason woman have a hard time in the hospital, is because they are forced to sit on a surface, which compacts their innards, making the likely hood of injury during birth much higher.

I think it is the result of a society that has been unnaturally accelerated sexually by porn or the ability to have more sex than was possible in the wild. So we must take into account that other forms of existences were possible before this and the missing natural elements that have been forgotten due to porn changing the wiring of a males mind at an early age especially.

Science isn't done studying many things, especially something as complex as sexuality. We didn't make it, we didn't invent it, so there are still secrets hidden in it. Different modes that are the result of different lifestyles and different environments. It is why we got a variety of different sexual experiences/reactions from different people, and porn being widespread/sex being available in epidemic amounts correlates with the ease of most people being aroused as the highest occurrence of this type of sexual lifestyle.

That is why I think something is up. So far now, "this" will be the norm as far as people can see with their flawed data, until people discover which early life behaviors and environments lead to this type of thing at adulthood and rediscover things that were the norm between couples in the past. That is my theory and I think such possibilities should be considered by people.

Its not just about the breasts. Women likes getting full attention. Every inch of her body can be massaged and loved.

Its interesting that breats grow bigger when used regulary. I actually noticed when I used to train, my biceps was getting real big after being kissed time by time. Im sure its love that makes things grow.

Thanks for sharing this breast information. So many girls get their breats igonered on this planed. But thanks to you now a little bit less.

Instead of doing research, just ask a woman. I know how a womans body work better then any research. A guy sucking my titts doesn't turn me on to the extreme and neither does kissing them. It feels good, especially under my neck and my nipples stay hard while i'm aroused but I personally like my kisses down low.

Sexual eruption.

I like when a guy pays attention to my breasts, but if it was so much that I started producing milk I would probably be turned off by that. That's just me though. It would make me think of breastfeeding my child and that would make things weird and uncomfortable for me.

pcmaster: Yes, I believe in giving full attention. What I find most interesting where the stories of girls who had been stuck at A cup for years going to B or C cup spontaneously over the course of a few weeks. So for those girls who are approaching 20 and think they are stuck at A cup forever, they should be informed that they still have another chance to grow in their 20s(and the other two chances for growth being in pregnancy and again in menopause.)

Starnique: That is true about asking women, and every woman will have some differences in their stories.

AbigailR: I see, that is good. Also on breastfeeding and producing milk, it depends on the woman, I read some stories where the woman's breasts can tell the difference between man and child and react very differently to each. And I read another where a woman feels nothing from breastfeeding at all, no matter who it was. It also takes some women months to produce milk while others only weeks after breast play. One woman said on her first time, that the moment she thought in her head that she wished she could produce milk for her husband, milk starting to trickle out during the breast play.

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pcmaster: Yes, I believe in giving full attention. What I find most interesting where the stories of girls who had been stuck at A cup for years going to B or C cup spontaneously over the course of a few weeks. So for those girls who are approaching 20 and think they are stuck at A cup forever, they should be informed that they still have another chance to grow in their 20s(and the other two chances for growth being in pregnancy and again in menopause.)

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Very true. My boobs were small till 19/20. Then literally doubled in size over a short period of time. Women are still developing up until mid 20's. So are some men. My hips didn't grow wider until age 20 I think even though I hit puberty at 10/11.. Its a long process.

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AbigailR: I see, that is good. Also on breastfeeding and producing milk, it depends on the woman, I read some stories where the woman's breasts can tell the difference between man and child and react very differently to each. And I read another where a woman feels nothing from breastfeeding at all, no matter who it was. It also takes some women months to produce milk while others only weeks after breast play. One woman said on her first time, that the moment she thought in her head that she wished she could produce milk for her husband, milk starting to trickle out during the breast play.

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I find this weird. I wouldn't like a man drinking milk from my breasts. If this did happen during breast play-I would want to stop.

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I have never had a wet dream, even to this day. I attributed this to my brain never having seen sex or the fact that I have never been physical with a woman.

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I don't think that's abnormal. I think sex dreams/wet dreams are rare tbh. Some men probably have them more than others but I doubt many have them very often especially if they masturbate regularly.

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As far as I know, I'm the only guy who hasn't experienced much of what guys do, and the factors different from me to other guys is that I had avoided porn.) I think porn awakens a part of the guy that puts them into a certain mode of living that was rare in the old days, and thus you have many of the guys in this society to the point that it appears to be the norm. I do believe that it is not the "default" of men and women, but rather what happens when you over-accelerate your hormones to the point that these things appear to occur often.

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There's plenty of guys who don't watch porn. My bf doesn't watch it. He has seen it in the past with friends etc but has no interest in it. I agree that porn can warp a young boys brain if he watches too much of it and change how his brain develops and how he views

women.http://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/porn-debate?fullpage=true
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/article-2051902/Men-use-internet-porn-likely-hopeless-bedroom.html

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A man's brain will think he has lots of sexual partners if his brain is seeing thousands of woman from porn, it will not be able to tell the difference, and begins to over-accelerate a man's libido.)

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I dont think there is anything wrong with having regular sex. I have no interest in sleeping around, one night stands or casual sex and I would never date a guy who does but I think in a loving relationship-have as much sex as you both want. Its not hurting anybody and its fun lol. You may have a point though. In my experience-men who watch less porn-usually desire a relationship more than just casual flings. There is an article above about it above. I personally wouldn't trust a guy with a rep for sleeping around. Sex means more than that to me.

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That is why I think something is up. So far now, "this" will be the norm as far as people can see with their flawed data, until people discover which early life behaviors and environments lead to this type of thing at adulthood and rediscover things that were the norm between couples in the past. That is my theory and I think such possibilities should be considered by people.

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People are people. Everyone is different. This is similar to the nature vs nurture debate or monogamy vs polygamy etc. I don't think it really matters what humans were like a million years ago or even a thousand years ago. I think you should be whoever you want to be and find a partner who shares your views, morals, beliefs and life goals. You will find plenty of women who share your view on porn for example.

Sorry guys...I think I have to add "suckling" to my list of most hated words. It's up there with "panties"

Michelle23: I see, if you ever see a girl with low self esteem about size, you should tell her your story and tell them the other chances they will get for growth.

I've never been in a relationship, but if was, I'd hope it would be with a girl open to milk feeding. I don't think its weird since the breasts are capable of milk production outside of pregnancy, and the fact that they are activated by stimulation makes me even more sure about doing such an act if I was in a relationship where the girl agreed to this.

As for the "wet dreams", I remember we were shown a program, and it stated with full confidence that it happens to all guys.

I think theres nothing wrong with having regular sex with a partner since in nature, you would be with a partner and our big human brains would allow humans to find ways to do it with their partner without getting them pregnant, but if its with lots of random women or if the brain absorbs a lot of porn beforehand, it will put the brain into an overdrive state and begin to produce arousal constantly to the point that it gets out of control. That is my theory from observation of anecdotal stories.

I see what you mean about the past. But I think it will still have influence on us through our DNA depending on our ancestors and their habits. Although despite that, people will still be able to choose what kind of love life they want, at least those who's will is greater than their genetic impulses. That is my theory.

Basilandthyme: Maybe I should say "Kissing and/or Suckling". I do hope guys who are deserving and with a willing partner get to do it. I don't know if girls suckle though and if they do, somewhere like the neck would be my guess.

I would imagine it is a fetish if a guy really wants to drink a woman's milk. Each to their own. If you and your partner like it-good for you. I, however would not like that. I have an open mind when it comes to sexual experimentation but bf drinking my breast milk is too weird lol.

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I don't think its weird since the breasts are capable of milk production outside of pregnancy,

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Can you please site your source for that. I'd like to read about it.

The only time that appears to happen when there is something abnormal going on in the body.

http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/ate/womenshealth/204181.html

Reposted so it doesn't get lost. I'd like to seriously see his source(s).

Michelle23: I see what you mean.

Wakeup: There are many sources on the internet, nearly countless sources. Especially anecdotal from people's own lives and experience with it.

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20101018021329AAVIKYW

http://adultnursingjourney.blogspot.com/

http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-there-a-way-i-can-induce-lactation.html

http://adultnursingrelationship.wordpress.com/

http://www.stargatelibraries.com/WhyAdultNursing001.html

http://goaskalice.columbia.edu/i-want-breastfeed-my-partner

http://isitnormal.com/story/my-husband-wants-to-milk-me-induce-lactation-is-this-normal-51599/

http://www.landmilkhoney.com/nurscouples.htm

I'm talking about scientific evidence that woman can lactate without hormonal problems or pituatary growths being involved. "Stories from people" mean nothing. This thread is a story from you as well.

So: Any scientific proof about healthy women (without hormonal or pituatary problems or being on certain medications) actually being able to produce milk from massage and physical manipulation?

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I don't think its weird since the breasts are capable of milk production outside of pregnancy,

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I think you've miss-read. A woman can keep producing milk as long as she keeps breast feeding, the more breast feeding (after birth) the more milk will be produced so if men and women are so inclined to "adult feed" then that would have to be under two conditions.

1... She was breast feeding her baby and this adult feeding is taking place while she's STILL lactating or,
2... She has hormonal, pituitary problems or is on certain medication...

None of these conditions are healthy so if she's lactating without ever being pregnant then she should be seeing her doctor to discover why.

Sorry, but I think its an injustice to be saying otherwise and possibly some young girl has problems that she ignores because she's read your "anecdotes"

My apologies, when I said outside pregnancy, I was referring to the method where the husband stimulates the wife's nipples for weeks or months regularly until she begins producing milk, even before ever getting pregnant.

When I found out about this, I was ecstatic(even though I will most likely never get it.) Just knowing it exists is easing.

But yeah, what you said, if a girl is randomly producing milk for no reason(no stimulation of the breasts), then it is due to hormonal imbalance or medication.

Also, I don't have the time to find a scientific study on nipple stimulation leading to milk production. I probably won't have time to look for sometime. But to me, the fact that a woman can produce milk in response to her husbands passionate kissing of the breasts leads me to believe that the milk was also made for the husband during times when there are no children. It is also very difficult for a baby with a non-pregnant women to cause her to lactate as a baby will get upset and give up if no milk is produced from the suckling.

Only the husband who would kiss out of passion and devotion would get milk through this method.

This is the quickest articles I could find that aren't anecdotes.

http://www.wisegeek.org/how-can-i-induce-lactation.htm

So yes, I think its an injustice to ignore the hidden mechanisms found in humans due to silly cultural beliefs created before a person was born by people who may not have been ruled by flaw set of ideals at the time such cultural spanning beliefs were made. To me, cultures that think breastfeeding is only for kids are the same as flat earthers or people who thought the sun revolved around the earth.

The missing aspects of the relationship between man and women need to be rediscovered for the betterment of mankind.

Also, a husband breastfeeding from the wife doesn't have to be sexual, it can be solely for emotional bonding and nothing more.

On a last note, I am pretty sure some scientific evidence is cited in some of the links I linked above as well as testimony from healthy women experiencing this. I apologize that I don't have the time to search it out. I don't know if scientific textbooks out there don't have any information on this, if it might be outdated, or if the studies are still new and awaiting official publication, or proper studies on this haven't been done yet. Science isn't perfection, and it is still researching and updating all the time. New stuff is still getting to the public all the time and old information is constantly becoming obsolete due to new studies.

My hunch is that it's real and a little known but major mechanism of breast function. Of course, If I am wrong, then I will return to my old thinking on breasts, but if its true and scientifically proven, then I will be happy for all the pairs out there who enjoy such an act in their relationship as its another thing to add to the many acts man and woman can share together.

I have read that men can produce milk too. Even one case when wife didnt had milk after baby were born but miraciously husband had so he was breastfeeding.

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Also, a husband breastfeeding from the wife doesn't have to be sexual, it can be solely for emotional bonding and nothing more.

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LOL !! People are strange...

I just want to say that its really great to read lay people requesting 'reputable science' sources. I feel like this is a victory for the forces of critical thinking.

Of course, the next problem is how non-professionals decide something is reputable (since even professionals argue) but its a wonderful thing to see, all the same.

Carry on. I don't think I'll add anything to this discussion. :)

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Also, I don't have the time to find a scientific study on nipple stimulation leading to milk production. I probably won't have time to look for sometime. But to me, the fact that a woman can produce milk in response to her husbands passionate kissing of the breasts leads me to believe that the milk was also made for the husband during times when there are no children. It is also very difficult for a baby with a non-pregnant women to cause her to lactate as a baby will get upset and give up if no milk is produced from the suckling.

Only the husband who would kiss out of passion and devotion would get milk through this method.

This is the quickest articles I could find that aren't anecdotes.

http://www.wisegeek.org/how-can-i-induce-lactation.htm

My hunch is that it's real and a little known but major mechanism of breast function.

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Its a neat idea. In my experience, if you can imagine it, you can often find evidence for it.

Anyway, the phenomenon you are describing is called "galactorrhea". Google it, I don't have time to explain. But if a woman you know has this, send her to see a physician immediately.

I apologize for any dismay I may have caused, but I am just really excited at the possibility of breasts having some undiscovered, hidden function which could improve human romantic relationships.

I accidentally found it when I was bored and decided to search for stories about wether or not its true that girls will sometimes have their breasts randomly grow in their 20's after reading about it a long time ago. Somehow I ended up reading stories about breast kissing and from that ended up reading a large amount of stories stating that breasts can produce milk between couples that do a lot of breast suckling.

Ah, Galactorhea, according to the definition, it is sometimes benign, and sometimes caused by excessive nipple stimulation. I see. Although some of the anecdotes I read don't match up with the possible causes listed, but I am no scientist, so I will refrain from saying any absolute statements until a proper scientific study can be conducted by a well-funded group. Most are busy studying more pressing biological issues, so I guess for now, it will have to wait.

If the girl likes it I say go for it.