I hate being 5'3 and almost 21. I feel so unmanly. I might as well kill myself, because no girl will want me.
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I hate being 5'3 and almost 21. I feel so unmanly. I might as well kill myself, because no girl will want me.
There are people in the world right now who are starving to death. Children who are being abused. Who've just lost a loved one in an accident. Who are dire pain from an incurable disease. Don't complain about your lot while there are plenty of others who have it way worse than you do.
Meanwhile, there are other people with significant disabilities who find love and success despite being different to everyone else.
Stop feeling sorry for yourself
But my doctor said my x-ray will probably show the plates in my hand have fused, so I won't grow anymore.
My life sucks.
Do you realize there are females in the world shorter than 5'3", right? If you're so focused on being taller than you mate, date petite women.
You're likfe sucks because you're 5'3" ? You ARE pathetic! And not because of your height! Get some confidence, grow a pair of balls, and go out there and find the type of woman you want! My mother is gorgeous, 5'11, slim, looks no older than 35 even though she's almost 50, and her bf is 5'4 and nothing special, but he is extremely confident in himself, and his personality radiates across the room!! Get a clue.
Move to Emerald City... I even think the LollyPop Guild is hiring.
What do you mean with this? Who is LollyPop guild and how to join them?Quote:
Originally Posted by Wakeup [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Dude there are plenty girls out there under 5'3
Oh sure everybody who says this thinks saying this gives them free license to whine on their own. All you glass is half full types ALWAYS think you're morally superior and that acknowledging those tragedies makes you so righteous. And like I said before, it apparently means to you people that your sorrows are far more special and valid, even when they're over similarly small things. Did you ever stop to think everyone has some cross to bear?Quote:
Originally Posted by basilandthyme [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
It does make it harder to find a woman, but there are shorter women out there. And seriously if a woman rejects you because of height she's not worth it anyway.
Awwwww I'm sorry OP. How about some funny jokes to cheer you up?
Why did the man seek counseling after finger banging a midget? Cuz he never thought he'd stoop so low!
What do you call a Mexican midget? A paragraph cuz he's too short to be an essay!
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Spirits lifted yet?
I might as well kill myself.
Even if you are a loser, then don't show the world that you are a big loser by behaving in such manner. I would advice you to follow a quote "Fake It Till You Make It". This works for me. Try to behave in such a way around girls that you already have 2 to 3 girlfriends and you don't want them. They might feel that you have really got something and would think of dating you. Remember that no girl wants to date a loser. Best of Luck.
Most peeps hate their lives, not enough money, or respect, love life issues, family issues, bills after bills. Ya just get on with it, you know.
YC, yes my life does have hurdles - but the advice I give also applies to me: plenty of people have problems way worse than mine. Instead of whining, I count my blessings.Quote:
Originally Posted by YoungCosmo [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Besides, nobody likes a whiner.
Don't think it's working.Quote:
Originally Posted by dickriculous [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Oh, come on, boy. Don't be so frustrated.
As male, we should try to improve our inner cultivation instead of appearance.
Here is another example of someone else having it worst than the OP with his ''I won't get any girls because I'm short'':
Is anyone aware of the Jacqueline Saburrido case? If not, here goes my brief description:
It's about a Venezuela girl that was studying in the US. When she was 19, she was in the car with friend and suddenly the car got hit by a drunk driver. Unfortunately for her, she was trapped in the vehicle while it caught fire. By the time they got here out and took her to the burn unit center, she was already with 2nd-3rd degrees burns over 60% of her body. She's been disfigured for life ever since and right now she must be in her early 30's. Poor woman...now I wonder how is she going through life knowing she won't ever be able to form a relationship, probably never have a child and is limited to other things. I give her credits for not giving up and forgiving the drunk driver (the guy was 17/18 at the time) who changed her life forever.
If you want to know more about her, you can check the link at:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jacqueline_Saburido
Could I be short because I didn't eat many vegetables as a kid?
only if they were fake vegetables that you didn't eat.
no, i didn't eat mine either and I am close to 5'11. it's just your genetic makeup.Quote:
Originally Posted by VG_Addict [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I grew half an inch in the last few weeks. I guess I won't grow anymore, though.
Coincidentally, I lost a half inch in the last few weeks.. Things that make you go ... Hmmmmm?
VG, why are you so concerned about your height ?Quote:
Originally Posted by VG_Addict [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I'm only 5'7 and that doesn't stop me, as most girls are between 5'3-5'9 ..
but it's all about the confidence you portray to them.
If your going to whine about being too small, and actually make
it seem obvious, she wont have anything to do with you.
Do you think that by being taller, your a bigger figure and in control ?
Are you going to feel not as dominating beside her ?
She's there to get to know the type of person you are, not how you look, but she will like to talk to you
more by the way you look, but if your conversation skills are lacking, she wont want anything to do with you.
Take care of your priorities, and your still young at 21, life is still for your taking, and let her come to you, and just
go with the opportunities you get, but don't over analyze everything, a girl will see that your nervous.
I think I'd have much more confidence if I were taller.
I still guess I won't grow anymore.
Funny, I'm so much more confident now that I've lost a half inch. Things that make you go, hmmmmm?
You're 5'7. That height for males in the U.S. means meeting the minimum height requirement to enjoy rights set forth in the Constitution.Quote:
Originally Posted by Kromat83 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
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Originally Posted by YoungCosmo [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Minimum height requirement ? LMAO, of course everyone wants to be taller, but this is the height that i have grown too, so i need to make use of it.
I am not pissed because i can't dunk, or be high enough to spike a ball in volleyball.
Height is all genetic, it doesn't determine the type of person you'll be.
You can happy with a taller woman, and she would be the same with
a smaller guy, if there's chemistry and you treat each other right.
First your looks matter, now your height ? you people have more problems to deal with than that.
21 and 23 is still young, act like you don't care, and like the person that you are, and you'll see your confidence sky rocket and people will appreciate you more.
P.S. with all the negativity that you both portray over something silly, no wonder you get the results you get, it's all in your mind, if you have the right mindset, you'll see that you'll be better off.
We try to tell you and suggest ways to improve, but your not listening, so there's no sense in trying.
I grew half an inch in the last few weeks. Could I grow some more?
stop worrying about it. stress might be stunting you. get a hobby, volunteer or something and distract yourself off yourself.
Crystal ball says "no"Quote:
Originally Posted by VG_Addict [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Thanks for wasting my time with shitty advice, guys.
I might as well kill myself.
With your shitty attitude, I doubt most people will care, besides your family and friends.Quote:
Originally Posted by VG_Addict [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Your negativity is what driving you to stay at the same position you are at.
Like I told you, love the person you are and I don't think women don't like you because of your height, but because your making a big deal of it and feels miserable on the outside.
Also goes for attractive women, they think they are all that, but there are some with such a shitty personality, that I am glad I don't need to be around them.
Women like a confident person, and if they see that your lacking it, that is all that matters.
It's not the end of the world, you're sooo young, you have lots of time, you'll find someone, cheer u....p! Now if you're in your 50s, different story
They are born old.Quote:
Originally Posted by paradiseruby [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
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When I feel down I listen to some Les Brown, he's a motivational speaker, and it will bring you back up again. You can find him by googling him. Try it, it works for me please.
Height doesn't matter to some women ,don't loose hope cause you will surely find a right women for you.
1) there are a LOT of guys that are 5 3 that date girls that are also 5 3Quote:
Originally Posted by VG_Addict [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Also ...Google Lee Preist...he's a 5 3 bodybuilder that has fked some of the hottest women around.....my advice...what you lack in height..and there is no denying that you do....make up for in muscles..no biggie...height will only matter if you let it matter. Join a gym...it does wonders for the self esteem...i'm 5 10 and for years and years when i ws powerlifting I wished i was shorter...Bodybuilding and powerlifting is a short mans game..you fill your frame out more completely than someone taller can.
self confidence > a height problem
btw..i'm 5 10 and i've dated some girls in the 6 2 range...i like em tall...the height difference only entered in my mind as..."man..look at her legs!"
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It's actually more that attitude that will turn women off.Quote:
Originally Posted by VG_Addict [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
To be realistic, a lot of women will not consider the OP based purely on height. I'm not trying to be unrealistic. But it's not like he has no shot with anyone at all ever.