Why do girls run away and avoid you after you tell them you like them?

So there's this one girl. I asked her out once. Then through mms I told her I like her and I think she is pretty and really easygoing. Her response was I am very flattered that is really sweet of you. You are an awesome guy, but ...... And once I was walking after that just to talk to her, but I noticed she ran away from me when I was walking in her direction and when I was leaving I bumped into her again and she ran the other way and avoided me again. Like she literally ran away from me when I walked towards her anytime that day. Another time I made eye contact with her and she walked fast away from me. I was entering and she was leaving. Why is she acting like this??? Why do girls do this????

Why do guys think that because one girl does something, then ALL girls do the same thing?

I can pretty much tell you 100% she's not into you. She's trying to avoid you because she knows how you feel

She is likely very young, she doesn't like you "that way" and is too embarrassed to tell you in person. Just let it go, stop trying to approach her.

1 of my friends asked what's happening between you and than me. She apparently said according to my friend that she thinks I am a cool dude, but she does not feel same way about me. She said she just wants to be friends. Another of my friend is good friends with her, so I told him say good stuff about me and he said will do. I talked to him and he said yea she thinks your a cool dude, but she said she just wants to be friends and nothing more than that. She has me blocked on a social media, so my 1st friend I was talking about messaged her saying what is going on and that is what she said.

Seems like you know how she feels then.

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Originally Posted by searock [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

She is likely very young, she doesn't like you "that way" and is too embarrassed to tell you in person. Just let it go, stop trying to approach her.

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Yea I have not approached her or talked to her since that.

If shes that chlidish and not even approaching you and telling you how she feels because she just wants to be "friends" i dont think she is in even worth your friendship :D

Send her a message telling her its OK just to say hi and walk past and that she doesn't have to run away from you.

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Originally Posted by bekho [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Send her a message telling her its OK just to say hi and walk past and that she doesn't have to run away from you.

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Yea all this happened in the winter, and no communication between us since that. Have not even said a word to each other since that. Recently there is this kid who goes to my school. I am not really great friends with him, but I know him and he was in one of my classes last year. I bumped into him in the hallways and he said that she says hey! I know there group of friends hang out a lot. I guess that means she was thinking about me. Who knows if she feels bad or not about all this??? Another time I looked in her direction, and she just gave me a friendly smile. She still has me blocked on the social media still.

better off staying away from these gal who are indecisive and probably just playin you with your heart.. they sound like they are not serious and just want to play

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Originally Posted by madeeel [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

better off staying away from these gal who are indecisive and probably just playin you with your heart.. they sound like they are not serious and just want to play

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What you mean by the word "play"????

The girl, friend zoned you. You have to remember young girls do like attention from guys and if you are gullible enough to give them attention they will take it. They will say and do things to keep the attention that may look like interest, and that means mixed signals. As soon as they are faced with the fact they captured your heart, they realize they have gone too far with it and it's time to ditch you. They don't always do this intentionally because they are still learning about male/female relationships and attraction. They are only thinking about their thoughts and feelings and don't know about how guys are feeling. Incidents like this is a learning process on both sides. She will be more aware of what she is doing, and you should understand that you don't give a girl that amount of attention if you are not in a relationship.

I hate the girl now and just can't stand her anymore. Whenever I do bump into her or look at her I just turn my head the other way and can't look without being pissed or sad.

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Originally Posted by edwardsla [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

If shes that chlidish and not even approaching you and telling you how she feels because she just wants to be "friends" i dont think she is in even worth your friendship :D

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I want to feel like I at least have a good friend in her rather than someone who doesn't acknowledge me and doesn't know that I even exist.

Also I get a jealous when she lifts and shows interest in other guys while I feel disrespected like the running away she did from me at one point.

Why do you wana be friends? Shes not interested so just move on. Staying friends with someone in the hope they will change their mind is stupid. She wont change her mind

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Can admin ban helper please? Theres no report button??

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Originally Posted by michelle23 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Can admin ban helper please? Theres no report button??

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I think loveadmin included Helper deliberately... it's advertising, helps fund the site. It is REALLY annoying though!

Lol I reported myself to report him. Oh well :)

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Originally Posted by michelle23 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Why do you wana be friends? Shes not interested so just move on. Staying friends with someone in the hope they will change their mind is stupid. She wont change her mind

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Can admin ban helper please? Theres no report button??

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. I do have friends who have gotten turned down by à girl and now they are dating the girl. I let go and Am moving on. I mean I wouldnt mind keeping her in my life though maybe as a friend idk. I Hope i can at least feel like I have à good friend and friend in her.

Uh! Why put yourself through that torture? Youll never get over her if you stay "friends". You do realize that there is billions of girls in the world, don't you?? Dont put yourself in the friendzone just so you can watch her with someone else. Shes not into you. Move on already. You will meet someone else

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Originally Posted by searock [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I think loveadmin included Helper deliberately... it's advertising, helps fund the site. It is REALLY annoying though!

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Confirmed, we have no control over the user or its actions.

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Lets get back to the topic guys.

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Originally Posted by michelle23 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Uh! Why put yourself through that torture? Youll never get over her if you stay "friends". You do realize that there is billions of girls in the world, don't you?? Dont put yourself in the friendzone just so you can watch her with someone else. Shes not into you. Move on already. You will meet someone else

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Yea i let go and have moved on. In that time I will find and talk to some new Girls. But still I wouldnt mind just having her in my life as a friend while I talk to new and other Girls. She still has me blocked on the social media and waiting for her to unblock me.

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Originally Posted by fredrickboss23 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

So there's this one girl. I asked her out once. Then through mms I told her I like her and I think she is pretty and really easygoing. Her response was I am very flattered that is really sweet of you. You are an awesome guy, but ...... And once I was walking after that just to talk to her, but I noticed she ran away from me when I was walking in her direction and when I was leaving I bumped into her again and she ran the other way and avoided me again. Like she literally ran away from me when I walked towards her anytime that day. Another time I made eye contact with her and she walked fast away from me. I was entering and she was leaving. Why is she acting like this??? Why do girls do this????

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Dear OP,

That would be 'girl' not 'girls'... Isolated incident. They do not 'all' do this.

Yes it is unfortunate she is unable to simply deal with you with a degree of common courtesy but I wouldn't allow that to jade your impression of the female race on a whole.
Perhaps she is very young and new to boys attentions and knows not how to handle it. OR, maybe, she's just not that into you.

So you could learn from this and wait for a better fit.
Don't get jaded and for goodness sake, try not to put everyone in one basket.

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Originally Posted by fredrickboss23 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

So there's this one girl. I asked her out once. Then through mms I told her I like her and I think she is pretty and really easygoing. Her response was I am very flattered that is really sweet of you. You are an awesome guy, but ...... And once I was walking after that just to talk to her, but I noticed she ran away from me when I was walking in her direction and when I was leaving I bumped into her again and she ran the other way and avoided me again. Like she literally ran away from me when I walked towards her anytime that day. Another time I made eye contact with her and she walked fast away from me. I was entering and she was leaving. Why is she acting like this??? Why do girls do this????

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That doesn't normally happen unless a girl is not feeling you the way you're feeling her. It's like "oh shit. lets me keep my distance."

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Originally Posted by fredrickboss23 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Yea i let go and have moved on. In that time I will find and talk to some new Girls. But still I wouldnt mind just having her in my life as a friend while I talk to new and other Girls. She still has me blocked on the social media and waiting for her to unblock me.

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If you did let go and moved on, then you wouldn't be a foolish shlep hoping she will unblock you.

Also to add to my first post I told the girl I like you I think your pretty and easygoing, I want to hang out with you. Now that she has me blocked and I see her post stuff like hey if anyone wants to see a movie or hang let me know and I see other people favorite that it just makes me kind of upset and empty inside.

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Originally Posted by woody [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Dear OP,

That would be 'girl' not 'girls'... Isolated incident. They do not 'all' do this.

Yes it is unfortunate she is unable to simply deal with you with a degree of common courtesy but I wouldn't allow that to jade your impression of the female race on a whole.
Perhaps she is very young and new to boys attentions and knows not how to handle it. OR, maybe, she's just not that into you.

So you could learn from this and wait for a better fit.
Don't get jaded and for goodness sake, try not to put everyone in one basket.

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Yea I should have worded all that better

All good, we've all done that before, grouped people together and forgotten we are, though connected, separate individuals.

Hey man, don't sweat the small stuff like some girl giving the cold shoulder. Consider it a screening device put out by the Universe telling you, "hey, she ain't the one for you" and smile and move on.

When you do meet someone who fits, both you and her will simply and naturally 'flow' into each others arms and it will be beautiful.
Keep your bar high and shine on

I have never had a girl physically run away from me..I think I'd find that amusing.

Ok anyways I think its like a lot of people said..she just isn't into you and doesn't know how to tell you. I'd let her continue running away and find someone else to spend my time on.

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Originally Posted by nico88 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I have never had a girl physically run away from me..I think I'd find that amusing.

Ok anyways I think its like a lot of people said..she just isn't into you and doesn't know how to tell you. I'd let her continue running away and find someone else to spend my time on.

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What you mean by she doesn't know how to tell me? You think she's afraid of hurting my feelings so that is why she runs away?? The science behind running away I don't understand obviously she isn't really into me I get that part.

She obviously doesn't want to interact with you because you make her uncomfortable. Why do you care anyway!

I don't think she's scared of hurting your feelings. I just don't think she's mature enough to handle rejecting a guy face to face so she would rather look like an idiot and run away. And who has time for that shit? Just forget about her.

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Originally Posted by searock [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

She obviously doesn't want to interact with you because you make her uncomfortable. Why do you care anyway!

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How do I make her uncomfortable??? What did I do???

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Originally Posted by fredrickboss23 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

How do I make her uncomfortable??? What did I do???

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You expressed interest in her and it wasn't reciprocated. This does make things very uncomfortable...and a friendship can never go back to the way it was after doing that.

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Originally Posted by basilandthyme [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

You expressed interest in her and it wasn't reciprocated. This does make things very uncomfortable...and a friendship can never go back to the way it was after doing that.

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She said to both my friends she wants to be friends with me, and that's all nothing more than that. She said though she wants to be friends with me. I still would want to keep her in my life as a friend too.

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Originally Posted by fredrickboss23 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

She said to both my friends she wants to be friends with me, and that's all nothing more than that. She said though she wants to be friends with me. I still would want to keep her in my life as a friend too.

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Well her actions are telling you otherwise. The words are just lip-service. Always give a person's actions more credence than their words

For what it's worth, the same thing happened to my daughter when she invited a boy at her school to hang out with her. He barely spoke to her again and the friendship no longer exists. But she now has a fabulous new guy who adores her. Don't waste time on those who don't have time for you.

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Originally Posted by basilandthyme [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Well her actions are telling you otherwise. The words are just lip-service. Always give a person's actions more credence than their words

For what it's worth, the same thing happened to my daughter when she invited a boy at her school to hang out with her. He barely spoke to her again and the friendship no longer exists. But she now has a fabulous new guy who adores her. Don't waste time on those who don't have time for you.

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She also told a kid I knew who I know their group of friends do hang out a lot. She told him to say hey! to me whenever he saw me. Means she was thinking about me when she was with them. I mean who knows maybe she does want to be friends.

Dude, just LET IT GO. Her actions are more important than her words

It's been a good 3 months where she has had me blocked on the social media. Have not spoken a word or anything in that time period. You guys think I should talk to her if I see her and maybe clear it up??? If, so what should I say???