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Hi,so I have a class with this girl that I like a lot, she's pretty, nice and friendly. At first I did not talk to her, but about a few weeks ago, I rlly started to like, so I went up to her and started talking to her, but the problem is that idk how to make her interested in me. Also, I was wondering if someone can tell me how to ask for a girl's number, it would help me a lot. Thank You!
You can't make her interested in you, just be yourself and if she likes you as you that is all you can do, don't force it or act like someone different. Give her your phone number and hopefully she will offer hers in return or at least call you and then you get hers as well.
Ya dude you can't MAKE her like you....it's all natural selection. But you lessen your chances if you get are all nervous and insecure. Confidence usually gets the girl.
You have balls right? Dont give her your number....ask for hers.
"Hey....do you want to go see a movie? Can I get your number?" Works great!
I would ask her bluntly, but the problem is that I only met for a few weeks and if I ask her really early, she might not let me have her nnubmber, and I wanted to know her better by talking to her in real life and then asking for her number, but all of your advice gives me ideas on how to ask her for it. Also, I realize that I just have to be myself
Movie for a first date? Bad idea dude!Quote:
Originally Posted by surfhb [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I always found a good way of getting to know a woman better is to go on a date. Forget all the phone number bullshit. Do you want to spend time with her or just waste your time talking on the phone. ASK HER FOR A DATE. Then you'll soon find out if she's interested. If she's interested good. If she's not then you've wasted the least amount of time and since none of us is immortal time is a precious thing and far too good to waste.
Exactly, attractive girls often give out their number to a lot of guys. Its a defensive mechanism to get rid of them. They can shut you down on the phone easier than in person.
Ask for her to go for a coffee on the spot or even a meal if you grow a pair.
Bullshit! It's a fvcking movie date....people have been doing them for first dates for years with great success. Besides, it was just a simple example of what to sayQuote:
Originally Posted by MrLoyal [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I don't agree. A date is to get to know someone. How can you do that in a movie theatre?
You talk before and after the movie. Lol
I decided to ask her bluntly for her phone on Monday, if it goes well, she'll give it to me but if she doesn't then we can still be friends, I hope
We can still be friends? You pussy - do you want to shag this woman or not?Quote:
Originally Posted by DarkTruth [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Nah, this gives you what, ten minutes either side? Its a bad idea face it.Quote:
Originally Posted by surfhb [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Oh yes.....I never spend more then 10 minutes with someone before and after watching a movie...youre rightQuote:
Originally Posted by MrLoyal [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Its just my opinion, take it or leave it. Do you argue with every opinion you disagree with on the forum?
Only if they are lameQuote:
Originally Posted by MrLoyal [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Me too, which is why I had to argue with you. Your dating advice is poo!Quote:
Originally Posted by surfhb [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Call a waaaambulance
Develop a good conversation but DON'T MAKE IT AN INTERVIEW !!!
HERE IS HOW: avoid asking her yes or no questions !!!!
"don't you think that...?" "what do you think about...?" "i can see you're really into fashion...? why? from here develop it.
giving her cute complements during the conversation also helps
ONCE YOU MAKE HER FILL comfortable then you can say
"hey let's do this again sometime?"
or
"Hey I gotta go now let me call you later"
SOME MORE TIPS
You should always be the one to end the conversation
take control of the situation.!!!
Hope that helps
Surfb, don't listen to the ****tard... He's got nothing better to do but beg for attention. He's a retard!Quote:
Originally Posted by surfhb [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Clearly I'm not even entitled to an opinion on this forum.Quote:
Originally Posted by chinagirl [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
It's Monday, how'd it go, did you get her number?Quote:
Originally Posted by DarkTruth [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]