How can we still feel this way?

11 years ago I was with a girl we was both sixteen and madly in love but bad for each other, 5 years later I met her cousins and ended up been married to her with a child... me and the ex sort of got over each other (well got used to it) so we thought... until one night before the wedding we nearly kissed :/ I put it down to drink and never thought out of it.

5 weeks ago we had a chat and she told me she still loves me and was gutted when I married her cousin, I guess deep down I still have feelings there even though I know nothing can come of it!! She's made me realise I should not be married or with anyone as I clearly am still hung up..

I guess you will all think I'm a huge plank, and believe me I hate myself for this..

Will we always have that connection?? Can love last forever?

Please be kind people

No, that's just infatuation. Avoid her for a few months and you'll get over it soon enough.

She should move the hell on and stop messing with a married man btw.

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Originally Posted by searock [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

No, that's just infatuation. Avoid her for a few months and you'll get over it soon enough.

She should move the hell on and stop messing with a married man btw.

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Just cannot see why she would say what she did... She has messed by head up big time!

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Originally Posted by hdbreaker [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Just cannot see why she would say what she did... She has messed by head up big time!

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Because she's selfish and doesn't care about how her words will effect your mind and marriage.