Ladies! What do you look for in a man?

I was commenting on your "just making me believe I do control the situation" comment.

That equates to a door mat or a pushover who pretends to wipe your arse.

yes, i got it later, was too quick in judging to son (like this movie too much :)

you are right, this combination of "steel wool" sound in the right direction... maybe except for the doormat, would not like this kind of a guy...