Men wanting/not wanting children?

Hi all,

Have you found that not wanting children or not knowing when you want them in your mid to late 30s has been because you are not/have not been with the 'right' person at the time? Or you simply don't want children with that certain person?

Thanks!

Wow, that is so broad. The decision to have children or not and with whom varies greatly between individuals. What is the purpose of your question?

I should think that the preference to have children (or not) is separate from whether or not a man wants to have them with you, though if he is undecided about the kids, and also undecided about you, he will obviously not want to complicate things further by getting you knocked up.