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i dropped my girlfriend off last night at her house,it was like 2 am,i almost missed her driveway cuz its like deep in the country and i almost missed it since I'm not use to driving out there.she said"wow you almost missed my driveway" and she said "you pull way to far into my driveway"
she got all agitated and was upset and I was sitting there thinking what the **** is the big deal?
i mean overreaction a bit on her part right?
That's not immaturity, that's ridicule and controlling behavior. Think about what a future with that getting worse and worse would be like... time to walk away.
maybe she was upset over something else and used that as an excuse to vent? how did the overall night go?
Still not an excuse. If she had an issue with events during the date, she should've said something about THEM.Quote:
Originally Posted by michelle23 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
it went really well actuallyQuote:
Originally Posted by michelle23 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I know but I think its a little irrational to just say "dump her". OP how long have you been together? Does she throw strops regularly? Tell us a little about your overall relationship-the good and the badQuote:
Originally Posted by HeartIsAching [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
no she doesnt. we have been together almost 3 months. we get along well. had a couple of arguments so far but nothing major. she dont act like this all the timeQuote:
Originally Posted by michelle23 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
It's a huge red flag IMHO. Why waste time on a relationship that's already not going well?
okay well its up to you how you proceed. Are you happy with her in general? See it going somewhere?
Maybe she was pissed off about being dropped off and wanted to stay with you for the rest of the night but wasn't savvy enough to say what was on her mind and also mad that you didn't initiate it. Still silliness on her part either way.
Were you driving drunk? Or recklessly? Otherwise, it seems unusual for her to react so strongly to your driving.
Or maybe the driveway is a metaphor for her anxiety about some other aspect of the relationship.
no i think maybe she was annoyed by itQuote:
Originally Posted by VincenzoG91 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Oh good heavens. It was late, you were both tired. Really, this is not an issue to get worked up about. Certainly not a Red Flag in isolation.
HIA's account has been hacked, I suspect. Not like him at all to make these kinds of posts.
Let it go. Dang. It was late she was crabby, get over it. Goodluck finding a girl that's shitting rainbows and butterfly's all the time.