My ex contacts me every now and again, what should I do?
I'll keep this short and sweet... I was in a three year relationship with a girl, and about six months ago, we broke up. She broke up with me because she said she wasn't happy anymore. I moved out of our apartment and got a new place. We still talked and hung out for the next couple of months because we both enjoyed the company. Eventually, she got a new boyfriend (who lives in Virginia, and we live in Florida). I was heartbroken. We had still told each other that we loved/missed each other a lot and everything was going good. She all of a sudden, started seeing someone else. Anyway, so after that I basically stopped contacting her. It's been three months since I've contacted her, but since that point, she has contacted me three times. The last time being about six weeks ago...
"Hey, so I know you don't want to talk to me, you've made that very clear. I just wanted to tell you this though because I miss talking to you and I thought you might get a kick out of this. Guess where I got a job? Target!"
I used to work there, so I'm guessing she wanted to tell me this for that reason. Before this text, she hadn't texted me in four weeks.
I just want some input on what might be going on in her head. She has a new guy, so why is she texting me? Especially telling me that she misses talking to me. I feel like she's fishing for a response, big time because she's lonely. I just don't get why she would state the obvious about me not talking to her in that text and then saying that she misses talking to me... any help will be greatly appreciated! Thanks!