Help! What does this mean?
Hey guys!
I met a senior colleague for the first time 2 weeks ago. I instantly found him to be attractive, sophisticated and very very 'my type'. But he is much senior in level and at least 6-7 years older. First few days I thought he didn't even notice me. But few short exchanges made me realize he does indeed see me (im not invisible!). A group of colleagues went to dinner and bar hopping and this is what happened:
- even here at first he did not acknowledge my presence. Even in group conversations he would not look at me.
- There was a moment when he spoke to me and almost said my first syllable of my name but then skipped my name and just asked his question. Which I thought was super weird.
- Then in the bar he finally spoke to me one-on-one and we spoke for a long time.
- Next bar he was standing next to me while i was sitting on the bar stool. He teased me occasionally and transformed in to a friendly person. somehow in conversation he even asked me how old i thought he was. lot of teasing and banter.
- I had this gut feeling that he is flirting with me and physically really leaning in/towering over me.
Next day in office he was friendly but super professional. Which left me wondering if I was imagining all that the last night!?
How do i find out whether he was just flirting with everyone? or not flirting at all? whole thing makes me feel like a teenager. PS: I am 31. :love: