It's not a bad thing or a negative if you have sex with someone you like and feel strongly about..Quote:
Originally Posted by questiongirl [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
"easy" is just an other term put out there to prevent little girls from running around and getting pregnant.. I agree that it's not fair or equal.., since you never hear anyone saying "he's easy".., there's no such pressure on a guy's end.. why not? Because guys don't get pregnant..
If she liked the guy.., more power to her..
It's annoying to hear other women.., and especially men.., keep up with an outdated and very traditional system of social values.., ironic that they still hold that belief but don't believe in things like slavery and subservience of women (since the former is more ancient than the latter)..
She liked the guy.., there was a connection.., she didn't have sex with him to get anything in return or to manipulate him to do something for her.., she didn't have sex with him to feel better about herself.., she simply had sex with him because that's what she wanted to do.., she felt comfortable enough and a strong enough connection with him.., attraction.., trust.., and the feeling was mutual.., what is so wrong with that?
I wouldn't say you "challenge" the cliche'.., just that you don't accept the social pressure of others.. to try and force you to behave a certain way.., that you're not a weak character to crumble in the face of social pressure trying to control or dictate the choices you make.., you're smart enough to be the judge of that on your own.., you don't need others opinions to tell you what's right or wrong..
Nothing against Cain.., but I don't think double standards are fair.., for any of the two genders..
Best,
GrkScorp