What is love ? For men and women let me know?

Is love the big bunch of flowers and chocolates,or is love the little things he/she does for you on a daily basis?
Hanging the washing out while you sleep,does this mean a lot to you ok its a chore but one he does for you so you can rest? or does he just play on the pc.
Is love to you that time they stop doing something they like to do and cuddle up with you on the sofa for a movie even if it isnt his type ?
which means more to you the big things in a relationship or those little things that show they are thinking of you even in every day mundane chores

For me its the little things ok the flowers etc are nice but anyone can buy them it doesnt take anything more than a trained monkey to order flowers etc,but those little things they do even when you dont expect them to really speaks of love to me

What is love? Baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me, no more.

Sorry, I had to.

Anyway, I assume it means different things for different people. Generally though I'd say it means you truly care about the other person and are attracted to them physically, mentally, emotionally.

Love is strength in weakness.

Maxmax that beautiful.

The mystery of love is greater than the mystery of death - Oscar Wilde.

For this reason I don't even begin to understand what it is.