he is getting a bit on my nerves.... what to do?
My boyfriend is annoying when he gets so anal about so many things. Like when I lay on his bed, he needs me to change into sweatpants or needs something to be placed in a certain way or he get anal about it. I just go like w/e.... he sometimes starts whining... It's irritating... At times, I just don't do it because its irritating. The only thing I can't stand about him is how anal he is. He is also a bit clingy too. He keeps asking if I love him and he goes like Oh you don't love me, but we only been dating for 2 months. I don't feel it in that way at the moment. So when he asked again yesterday I said I loved him so he can stop bothering me. I already told him straight up that I don't want to say something I don't mean yet and that I need more time, but he seems really into me and want me to feel the same about him. That's why I have to wonder... about if he is the right guy. He;s very understanding, but sometimes he thinks a bit too much about what people are thinking and gets deep into their thoughts.
Yesterday he wanted me to type up his promotion paper. I said I can tweak it when he's done since I don't know much about his job position and I need more info, but I agreed to write it since I wrote so many cover letters or similar letters to it before. Yesterday afternoon I had some issues with my mom and then the whole entire day I was getting frustrated in working on my Adobe flash hw and I spent all night doing it and I am still not done. I did not send over what I had yet because I wanted to wait until he came home from work; he gets off at like 1:30am, but instead he went to meet up his friends that he hasnt seen in awhile. Ok that is fine with me. This morning he asked me if I sent over the paper and I said not yet. He doesn't know I only had 4-5 hours of sleep from doing my hw. He said that how can you be like this, you know this is important to me because I want to get promoted. I didn't argue with him since I am so tired. And when I sent it to him, he said oh that's it? ummm... This is why I was trying to wait for him to come home, so I can tweak it a little more for him and dig some more info. It's not my job, so I don't want to make stuff up.
I know if I don't do it, he's going to be anal about it and saying I don't love him. that is so annoying.... I know he would go through the mile for me and do it for me, but still I have other priorties too and I told him I been doing hw all day.
